Interpersonal Processes Flashcards
What makes people more or less likely to help people in dangerous situations?
(2 variables)
Situational variables: the situations in which people find themselves
Dis positional variables: their personalities and attitudes
Why interpersonal attraction is important.
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Factors leading to interpersonal attraction: (4)
Most people thrive on relationships with others, social psychologists believe that humans have a great ‘need to belong’ - to be involved in relationships with others.
- Proximity: people tending to chose their friends and lovers from individuals nearby.
- Interpersonal rewards: the degree to which interaction with another person is rewarding.
- Similarity: people tend to choose relationships on the basis of shared attitudes, values and beliefs.
- Physical attractiveness: (even in non sexual relationships) physically attractive people are magnets. Has greater impact on romantic relationships.
Social exchange theories
Based on behaviourist principles: consider reciprocal reward the foundation of relationships.
Matching hypothesis
Choosing partners perceived to be as equally attractive to oneself, not necessarily the most beautiful or handsome person.
Classifying love:
Passionate and companionate love
The two kinds of love generally coexist.
Passionate love: wildly emotional condition, marked by intense physiological arousal and absorption in another person. (Does not last forever)
Companionate love: involves deep affection, friendship and emotional intimacy. Grows over time through shared experiences and increasingly takes the place of passionate love.
Evolutionary perspective of love
The feelings and behaviours we associate with the concept of love are evolved mechanisms that tend to lead to reproductive success.
Sexual strategies
What is it and what are the male and female strategies - long and short term
Tactics used in selecting mates
Females maximise their reproductive success by forcing males with resources to commit to them in return for sexual access. Long and short term strategies are similar.
Males: short term = female with the greatest reproductive value who is both fertile (young) and readily available. Long term = commuted relationships provide exclusive sexual access to a female, allowing male contribute to offspring without parental uncertainty.
Romantic love as attachment
Similarities and differences
Romantic love relationships share several features with attachment relationships in infancy and childhood.
Similarities:
• adults feel security in lovers arms
• adults respond to job related separations (eg. Army) with the same patterns of depression, anger and anxiety observed in childhood separation.
Differences:
• care for offspring
• sexuality
Maintaining relationships
- characteristics of long term relationships
- dark characteristics of relationships
People in satisfying long term relationships trend to avoid negative spirals, give their partners the benefit of the doubt and hold slightly idealised views of their partners.
All relationships have a dark side characterised by pet peeves and annoyances.
Altruism
Refers to behaviours that help other people with no apparent gain or potential cost to oneself.
Ethical hedonism
No matter how apparently altruistic is - and should be - designed to increase ones own pleasure or reduce ones own pain.
Evolutionary perspective of altruism
Evolutionary psychologists propose that people act in ways that maximise their inclusive fitness and more likely to behave altruistically towards relatives than others.
Reciprocal altruism
Natural selection also favours animals that behave altruistically towards unrelated others if the likely benefit to each individual over time exceeds the likely cost.
Bystander Intervention
Individuals do not often help in a crisis in the presence of other people. To intervene, a person must notice the event, define it as an emergency and assume personal responsibility for intervening.
Diffusion of responsibility
+ what else causes people not to help
A diminished sense of personal responsibility to act. - one important reason people do not help.
Individual difference variables, such as gender, determines when helping will occur.