Inner game Flashcards
Kino
Arm in arm, hand touching
Embracing, kissing
Hand on knee, sitting on lap, arm around waist
Touching face, smelling hair, hand on ass
Intermittence
Reward investments from girl with unpredictable mix of ioi and iod
Single set
Approach directly, don’t wait for eye contact
…find out if more to you than meets the eye
Openers
Shortest one first, then build up to longer stories
Warm Up
With friends
Gun To Your Head (fuck or die, in 20 minutes)
Force the situation, let awkwardness happen (You be comfortable)
Force the failure (expect to fail)
Warm up 2
Act through clear intent (don’t wander, build positive momentum)
Don’t make excuses, or take breaks (build negative momentum)
Say hi to/Open everyone, cheer (prove to brain nothing bad will happen)
Fully commit, let emotion acclimate
Warm up 3
Don’t give a fuck about the outcome, just let rejections come, think of them like angry monkey rejecting a pie, move on.
6 steps
1- approach all
2- minimize time between
3- don’t judge yourself
4- find something funny after interactions
5- short, sweet early, burn to ground later
6- add more awkwardness to each interaction
Wish I’d known earlier
1) social skills are just that… skills
2) no such thing as cool
3) Not everybody has to like you! Don’t be afraid to look silly or dumb
4) More that you take risks, the more interesting you become to others
5) I chose who I like and don’t like
6) the more you pay attention to others, the less time you can play in your own brain
7) popularity is not given, force contact
8) be cool and let emotions go
Clown man dance party
Just run out and start dancing like an idiot and get out of your own head