i hate my life Flashcards
Basic Comparability
Personality structure may not apply universally
Reference Group Effects
Who am I comparing myself to other when determining whether I am lazy or happy
Humans are not monoliths
Multiculturalism, Bicultural identity integration
Cultures are not monoliths
Regional cultures, sub-cultures
3 Causes of Regional Personality Differences
Selective migration
Sociocultural influence
Ecological influence
Societal consequences
Political
Economic
Social
Health
Individual Consequences
Regional personality determines individual beyond individual personality
- Emotions
- Behaviors
- Cognition
Person-Environment-Fit
Living in an environment that matches one’s own profile provides better chances to satisfy one’s psychological and physical needs
Empirical Support
- Higher congruence between individual personality and average personality of the surroundings - is associated with greater subjective well-being, self-esteem, relationship satisfaction
- Lower congruence is related to difficult relationships and decreased sense of belonging
Categorization
Identifying with one cultural group over others by seeing one identity as predominant, and by excluding other identities from the Self
Compartmentalization
Having multiple — opposing — cultural identities that are kept separate within the Self; identifying with one cultural group at a time, depending on the context
Integration
Cohesively connecting and reconciling one’s multiple cultural identities within oneself
- Forging one inclusive higher-order identity that emphasizes common ground between one’s identities while seeing the difference between one’s identities as complementary
- Identifying simultaneously with different cultures
Non Big 5 Predictor of Successful Relationship
- Self-control
- Positive emotionality
- Communal traits (warmth, trustworthiness)
Personality-Based Preference
Agreeable individuals prefer kind and dependable partners
Open individuals prefer less religious partners
Large-scale study with over 500,000 users and 421 potential matches on Hinge
- Convergence in personality traits, personal choices, physical traits and shared experiences all predicted greater likelihood for attraction and opting to go on real-world dates
- Introverts rarely had an effective match with other introverts
Personality Similarity & Relationships
People with more similar personality traits are more likely to be romantically attracted to each other
Greater personality similarity in relationships associated with more positive and less negative well-being
These effects come out more when personality similarity is assessed through behaviors than through self-reports
Overestimating Personality Similarity
Ideal partners: Men prefer self-similar partners in all Big Five characteristics, but Neuroticism
Actual partners: homogamy in personality in actual couples exists but is considerably lower
Homogamy in personality is most consistent for Extraversion, and to some degree for Openness and Conscientiousness
Male homosexual couples show lower homogamy than heterosexual couples
Determinants of Fulfilled Relationships
Most important predictors are about the relationship itself
Individual differences matter as well (account for 21% of current relationship satisfaction) but are less important; most important predictors (Big Five not measured):
- Life satisfaction, affect, depression, attachment style