How to become a people magnet - 2 Flashcards
instead of losing the person and watch their performance dwindle you just might have boosted thes person’s performance
dwindle = disminuye
Let them honestly feel that they are essential and that you are delighted that they’re accepting this task.
delighted = encantado
Of course, it would be naïve to think that you will always get a favorable reaction to this approach.
naïve = ingenuo
In neurolinguistic Programming and Coaching this is called “building Rapport”
building rapport = construir buenas relaciones
Failure to praise and encourage
encourage = animar
if not - a proper technique is to talk about your own mistake first
proper = apropiado
that people want to be around because you are a rare breed
breed = raza
If you notice tha people are abusing your goodwill, confront them and ban them from your life
ban = prohíbelos, prohibición
Nevertheless, I’m one step closer to the goal
nevertheless = sin embargo
Many times it is the praise of our parents that keeps us going when others already discarded us
discarded = descartar
Praise a person, and you awake their desire to excel
excel = sobresalir
Behind the loud person, the show - off, the bully, the person that walks into the room like a peacock, many times there is an insecure
show - off = fanfarón
peacock = pavo real
I’m not good enough for that, not talented for this, too clumsy for that
clumsly = torpe
thell them that nobody is born a master at his craft
craft = oficio
they can hone their skill and the outcome will look quite differente
hone = afilar
Make it look easy and see people thrive
thrive = prosperar
people who have a positive **outlook **
outlook = perspectiva
people who are pessimistic and continually whining about their personal problems
whining = lloriqueando
they might drag us down into their dark world
drag = arrastrar
do you find that attractive or pitiful?
pitiful = lastimoso
also eliminate teasing and sarcasm from your conversation
teasing = burlas
you might come across as utterly
utterly = totalmente
Tampering with other people’s self-esteem
tampering = alterar
Friendliness usually causes friendliness in return.
friendliness = amabilidad
Be friendly and reap the rewards
reap = cosecha
this is not only beneficial for the receiver but as science found out also for the sender
sender = remitente, transmisor
all these negative emotions which damage our relations like greed, envy, jealousy, rage, arrogance and so on.
greed = codicia
If it’s trivial or not heartfelt, is doesn’t work
heartfelt = cordial
Someone who walks into a room showing off, bragging, looking like a peacock
bragging = fanfarronada
To worsen matters, people with fals self-esteem
worse = empeorar
Your success in dealing with other people depends on to what extent you are able to undestand
to what extent = en qué medida
it will create goodwill and surely make the other person listen very closely to you
goodwill = buena voluntad
If people are rude, irritated, mad, don’t judge them for being as they are and instead feel sorry for them. Pity them
pity = lástima
We all crave for sympathy
crave = anciar
the latter most of the time without even checking if we could actually do it if we put in the time to learn it
latter = último
who help you with your strengths, stay away from people who belittle you
belittle = menospreciar
you are doomed to encounter unhappines in your relationships
doomed = condenado
just talk about those and don’t make the slightest attempt to solve them?
slightest = menor
