How to become a people magnet - 1 Flashcards
many successful techniques of dealing with and influencing people stem from this understanding
stem = se derivan
do you want to know the most important and ultimately the most interesting subject
ultimately = finalmente
a word that will make you a very sought after conversational partner
sought = buscado
Smile at the baker, the butcher, in the subway
baker, the butcher = panadero, el cocinero
There are also some “don’ts” that can hinder making a good impression
hinder = impedir
making a good impression, like being overanxious
overanxious = demasiado ansioso
you make friends easily by talking about the city’s seemingly most important subject
seemingly = aparentemente
how many people are so self-absorbed they don’t even greet people
self-absorbed = ensimismado
Remember our hunger for acknowledgment?
hunger = hambre
Praise people and watch them grow
praise = alabar
when do our marriages and jobs go sour?
sour = agrio
Because you’ll be of a rare breed
breed = raza
what the other person has to say instead of bragging with you knowledge
bragging = fanfarronear
Lean towards the speaker
lean towards = inclinarse hacia
This will show the speaker that you are listening and will flatter him/her
flatter = adular
If you are rehearsing what you are going to say next
rehearsing = ensayando
A great way to convince people is quoting someone
quoting = citando
Don’t brag about how generous you are
brag = presumir
you will get much further with this tactic than with just bluntly telling a person that they are wrong
bluntly = bruscamente
Know your strengths, know your weaknesses, embrace vulnerability and take responsability for your mistakes
embrace = aceptar
Hint: like everything else it gets better with practice
hint = sugerencia
Do you want their business? Their goodwill? If you want any of this, keep the conversation focused on them
goodwill = buena voluntad
my boss let me drive his car when I had to run an errand
errand = mandado
One day, driving around and not paying attention I hit the curbstone with the right front tire.
curbstone = bordillo