Hd Relatioships Flashcards
Combination themes in relationships
Combination Themes
5 and 4 -Not a Relationship Anymore- friendships and breaks!
6 and 3 - Better to be Free- needs awareness for it to work
7 and 2 - Work to Do - power struggles, works if they’re supportive
8 and 1 0 Have Some Fun - see the world through the same centres
9 and 0 - Nowhere to Go lots of energy and involved with each other!
LOVING A MANIFESTOR
they’ll need to feel the power, freedom and creativity in their worlds
give them space, honour their unique flow and path
notice when they need compassion, love and support-honour their individuality and
power
notice their doubt and uncertainty in their own trust/power and encourage them
let them take lead, and notice when they need space - anger or confusion comes up
ENTERING RELATIONSHIP with a manifestor
you are the approach-er do not be scared to let people know how you feel and initiate
what uou desire - this often comes with lots of unsexy work ;)
you can also be pursued if you’ve provided an energetic invitation/something for them to
respond to
you energetically hold the power to be the decide-er
BEING THE MANIFESTOR IN LOVING RELATIONSHIPS:
grace and communication will take you SO far and break down the barriers that you often
fear
trust your desires and urges - to be alone, or to be with someone
LOVING A GENERATOR OR MANIFESTING GENERATOR (TO RESPOND
they need to feel space and unconditional opportunities to have flow in their world
they need to feel acceptance and honour in being who they truly are
allow them many opportunities to respond, and change their mind, trusting it’s the correct
move
let them take the lead when things feel right and strong for them
notice the moments they aren’t emitting a high energy - they’re needing support or extra
love/space
Entering relationship with a gen/mani gen
can Initiate AFTER they’ve Responded! Need to slow down to ensure they’re responding,
otherwise it becomes a forceful motion forward
need to slow down and really tap into the desire
notice when they’ve been the Initiator and how that’s felt/grown or dissolved
Being the MG/G in Loving Relationships
be aware of space others need around you-know
they’re desire for space doesn’t mean you’re too much-have external sources, space or people
to engage with and enjoy your time/outlet for your energy-intentionally create space -notice
how others feel when you’re creating resistance or should’ing -notice when you shrink and are
less than your fullest self, dive into that unsexy work ;)
Looking at Loving Relationships
ENTERING RELATIONSHIP with a projector
they are not here to initiate
like business, they need to be ready and seen, before the aligned invitations can come
forward!
so getting in spaces and places where you are literally your most magical self, fully you, will
draw in and attract people to initiate you/provide invitations
you get to ensure you’re fully seen and recognized before moving forward
male projectors are also here to be invited in, which goes against social norms
unsexy work to be done for the alpha projector and the conditioned projector male
BEING THE PROJECTOR IN LOVING RELATIONSHIPS:
breaking the expectations of people pleasing and over-giving is difficult
you need to allow yourself the space to have full freedom and gain the support needed in
order for relationships to thrive
look at expectations you have on how others will love, see and understand you
allow yourself to see yourself and automatically BE yourself in a relationship, rather than
wanting someone else to show a certain way of seeing you. They won’t see you until you
see you
LOVING A REFLECTOR (TIME AND SPACE)
ENTERING RELATIONSHIP
they are not here to initiate
they need to feel the energy is really pure, beautiful and that their partners are seeing them
for who they are, before you begin to meet their energy
allow others to pursue you
entering into relationships that are not building upon with pressure or expectations
give time and space between and ensure the other understands and respects your time
and space
notice what the Reflector is mirroring back (for the partner) and as the Reflector, take note
of what you’re mirroring back - are these desirable qualities?
do not enter if it becomes a “need” in who you desire to be
BEING THE REFLECTOR IN LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
being very aware of what feels good and what doesn’t, not sitting with it or allowing it to
happen for longer than feels good/right
know that you will mirror back all of their stuff, the more you see how they respond to it the
more you’ll notice if they’re correct or not
it really becomes an unfolding
you need more time and space and an evolved person to match your constant evolution
be aware of tapping into their consistent energy because you could become dependent
on them
