H3: Overview of Obtaining Objectives Skillfully

Question 1

What are the components of obtaining objectives skillfully?

Answer 1

Components of obtaining objectives skillfully include:

• Clarifying Priorities
• Objectives Effectiveness: DEAR MAN
• Relationship Effectiveness: GIVE
• Self-Respect Effectiveness: FAST
• Factors to Consider

Question 2

Describe the following component of obtaining objectives skillfully:

Clarifying Priorities

Answer 2

Clarifying Priorities involves deciding the importance of:

• Getting what you want/obtaining your goal
• Keeping the relationship
• Maintaining your self-respect

Question 3

Describe the following component of obtaining objectives skillfully:

Objectives Effectiveness: DEAR MAN

Answer 3

Objectives Effectiveness: DEAR MAN involves:

Being effective in asserting your rights and wishes.

Question 4

Describe the following component of obtaining objectives skillfully:

Relationship Effectiveness: GIVE

Answer 4

Relationship Effectiveness: GIVE involves:

Acting in such a way that you maintain positive relationships and that others feel good about themselves and about you.

Question 5

Describe the following component of obtaining objectives skillfully:

Self-Respect Effectiveness: FAST

Answer 5

Self-Respect Effectiveness: FAST involves:

Acting in such a way that you keep your self-respect.

Question 6

Describe the following component of obtaining objectives skillfully:

Factors To Consider

Answer 6

Factors To Consider for obtaining objectives skillfully include:

Deciding how firm or intense you want to be:

• in asking for something
• OR saying no.