Goldberg Chapter 1: Adopting a Family Relationship Framework Flashcards
While families occur in a diversity of forms, cultures, and complexities in today’s society, each may be considered a natural, sustained social system. What properties do these systems have?
- an evolved set of rules
- many assigned and ascribed roles for its members
- an organized power structure
- intricate overt and covert forms of communication
- numerous ways of negotiating and problem solving
that permit various tasks to be performed effectively
Growth and change in families and the individual members who compose them occur _________ and understanding their interactions is ________ in carrying out any reparative or preventive work
concurrently; essential
T or F: To function successfully, members need to adapt to the changing needs and demands of fellow family members as well as the changing expectations of the larger kinship network, the community, and society in general.
True. Apart from its survival as a system, a well-functioning family encourages the realization of the individual potential of its members—allowing them freedom for exploration and self- discovery along with protection and the instillation of a sense of security.
Constantine (1986) distinguishes between what he calls “enabled” and “disabled” family systems. What is an enabled family system?
Enabled family systems are successful at simultaneously balancing system needs as a family unit and the interests of all its members as individuals.
Enabled families invent procedures that attempt to satisfy the conflicting interests of their members.
Constantine (1986) distinguishes between what he calls “enabled” and “disabled” family systems. What is a disabled family system?
To do less than balance system needs and the interests of all its members, or to prevail at the expense of certain members, reflects family disablement, often manifested in unstable, rigid, or chaotic family patterns.
Sometimes, for families systems to be enabled (especially for families living below the means), community support may be necessary.
T or F: The traditional route to family (birth, marriage, adoption) is changing in our contemporary society.
True. Today’s outlook makes room for other committed family house- holds beyond legally married heterosexual couples and their children.
An inclusive 21st-century definition of family must go beyond traditional thinking to include people who choose to spend their lives together in a kinship relationship despite the lack of legal sanctions or bloodlines.
Marriage and intact family life may be viewed as a ______ __________
Social invention
Earliest idea of marriage and family (intact) came from where?
The earliest form emerged from the division of labor between men and women in early societies and served to ensure family survival and efficiency, as men and women were assigned different but collaborative, complementary roles.
What are four things that have changed today’s expectations regarding marriage?
Occupational opportunities, the evolution of women’s rights, a more flexible commitment to marriage as a permanent union, and the expectation of greater love and intimacy in marriage.
T or F: Families typically develop certain basic structural characteristics and interactive patterns that they utilize to respond to internal and external stresses.
True. These characteristics and patterns determine how families adapt and cope to difficult situations.
A family attempts to arrange itself into as functional or enabling a group so that it can meet its shared needs and goals without consistently or systematically preventing particular members from meeting their individual needs and goals. How is this typically done?
By developing rules that outline and allocate the roles and functions of its members (preferred patterns for negotiating and arranging their lives).
T or F: Even in a family crisis situation or where there is severe conflict between members, families are typically resistant to change and often engage in corrective maneuvers to reestablish familiar interactive patterns.
True (generally follows the status quo).
What are shared family rituals?
Shared family rituals are part of ongoing family interaction patterns that help ensure family identity and continuity. Rituals are symbolic actions that help families adapt to change rather than struggle against it at the same time that they reaffirm their group unity in dealing with a life transition.
Anchor family members to the past, providing a sense of family history and rootedness, while also implying future family interactions.
What are shared family rituals?
Shared family rituals are part of ongoing family interaction patterns that help ensure family identity and continuity. Rituals are symbolic actions that help families adapt to change rather than struggle against it at the same time that they reaffirm their group unity in dealing with a life transition.
Anchor family members to the past, providing a sense of family history and rootedness, while also implying future family interactions.
What are shared family rituals?
Shared family rituals are part of ongoing family interaction patterns that help ensure family identity and continuity. Rituals are symbolic actions that help families adapt to change rather than struggle against it at the same time that they reaffirm their group unity in dealing with a life transition.
Anchor family members to the past, providing a sense of family history and rootedness, while also implying future family interactions.
Why are the meanings and understandings we attribute to events and situations we encounter embedded in our family’s social, cultural, and historical experiences?
Our families are the maker’s of meaning and part of what we deem a reality is based on our families stories about their own experiences and interactions.
The narrative a family develops about itself, which is derived largely from its history, passed on from one generation to the next, and influenced by social class expectations, has a powerful impact on how the family functions. Give an example of families who view the world as safe and predictable.
Some families generally view the world as trustworthy, orderly, predictable, masterable; they are likely to view themselves as competent, to encourage individual input by their members, and to feel comfort- able, perhaps enjoyably challenged, as a group coping with life.
If this is not the case, others may think that the world is mostly menacing, unstable, and thus unpredictable and potentially dangerous; in their view, the outside world appears confusing and at times chaotic, so they band together, insist on agreement from all members on all issues, and in that way protect themselves against intrusion and threat.
Define: Postmodern outlook
The idea that there is no “true” reality, only the family’s collectively agreed- upon set of constructions, created through language and knowledge that is relational and generatively based, that the family calls reality.
It is a philosophical outlook that rejects the notion that there exists an objectively knowable universe discoverable by objective science and instead argues that there are multiple views of reality ungoverned by universal laws.
Define: Resiliency
The ability to thrive and maintain relatively stable psychological and physical functioning even under adverse conditions
How does resiliency relate to families?
All families face challenges and upheavals during their life cycle from within and without their structure. While all families react differently to these challenges, there are large numbers who manage to cope with the temporary upheaval or loss, rebound, and move on to the next challenge. The ability for the family to thrive and maintain relatively stable psychological and physical functioning after extremely aversive experiences tells us a lot about the family’s resilience.
T or F: Families have the potential for growth and repair in response to distress, threat, trauma, or crisis, emerging stronger and more resourceful than before
True.
It has been said that a small set of global factors support resilience in children. What are those factors?
Connection to competent and caring adults in the family and community, cognitive and self-regulating skills, a positive view of oneself, and motivation to be effective in the environment.
What are the key family processes in family resilience?
(a) Consistent and positive belief system that provides shared values and assumptions so as to offer guidelines for meaning and future action; (b) the family’s organizational processes (how effectively it organizes its resources) that provide the “shock absorbers” when confronted with stress; and (c) a set of family communication/problem-solving processes that are clear, consistent, and congruent and that establish a climate of mutual trust and open expression among its members.
Instead of viewing a symptomatic family member as a vulnerable victim (pathologizing the family), the emerging viewpoint is what?
The emerging viewpoint is that while problems may certainly exist within the family, family competencies nevertheless can be harnessed to promote self-corrective changes. I.e., resiliency can be developed.
What does adopting a resiliency-based approach, when working with families, call for?
Identifying and fortifying those key interactional processes that enable families to withstand and rebound from disruptive challenges.