Goal making Flashcards
How do you live the life you want?
Being proactive and actively deciding how you want to spend your time. Instead of just letting it happen
Why is designing your life an active process?
You set goals and make informed decisions. Constantly woke towards the person you want to be and achieve success
In order to design and create goals what should you do?
You should be curious about the future. You are more able to learn
What is learning a big part of?
Designing your life
Why should you experiment when designing your life?
Never know, if you don’t try
What does reframing problems influence?
How quickly you will work at solving or if we procrastinate
If you are stuck because you can’t solve a problem. What should you do?
Look at it from a different angle and find different solutions
Why can’t you solve problems in a day?
It’s not always about the end goal, but the journey getting there.
Who should you ask for help from?
From important people as it gives you an outside pov in many directions
What puts you in a negative direction?
Focusing on negative things, causes you to fail to see the good in life
What puts you in a positive direction?
Focusing on positive aspects. You have more energy and focus on your goals. Therefore, you are more likely to achieve
What is the New Years syndrome?
Gives us hope that we can better ourselves by sudden and drastic changes
Why is New Years syndrome also referred to as False Hope syndrome?
We believe making changes within ourselves is easy. We either set unrealistic goals or too many goals and become overwhelmed
How fast do people lose track of their new year’s resolution?
25% of people lose track in seven days
What is grit?
Endurance, perseverance and passions. Moving towards your goals and challenges you face
What are the characteristics of grit?
- Courage - overcoming fear, not elimination
- Conscientiousness - work hard, see things through to the end
- Perseverance
- Resilience
- Passion
What does a fixed mind perceive failure as?
Permanent set back
What does a fixed mind perceive challenge as?
Scary, to be avoided
What does a fixed mind perceive skill levels as?
Fixed as a result of talent
What does a fixed mind described as?
giving up easily
What does a fixed mind perceive others success as?
Threatening
What is a fixed mindset?
Intelligence levels cannot be changed
What does a growth mindset perceive failure as?
Temporary
What does a growth mindset perceive a challenge as?
Exciting growth opportunities
What does a growth mindset perceive skill levels as?
Improve with hard work
What does a growth mindset described as?
Sticking out and trying hatd
What does a growth mindset perceives other success as?
Inspiring
What is the risk of failure?
Too much pressure to be perfect and it is scary to put yourself out there
What is the easiest option when you are scared of embarrassment?
Not to start on a new big goal
What does success involve?
Mistakes and experiencing failure
What is a useful life skill in terms of failing?
Learn from setbacks, picking yourself up, carry on working
What does embracing failure mean?
Acknowledging that we all make mistakes and it is a part of life
To grow your attitude in life. What must you do?
Develop grit and growth mindset
List the process of failing forward
- Let go of regrets
- Accept reality
- Strategise and start again
What is goal setting?
A multi step process. Commitment and grit
Why should you identify goal areas?
To establish how you are doing and which areas you need to focus on
What are the 8 goal areas?
- Academics
- Sport
- Family
- Friends
- Personal growth
- Community development
- Holistic health
- Hobbies
What does woop help us realise?
Obstacles that we think stop us from fulfilling wishes, helps us realise them
What do methods help us think about?
Think of most important dreams and internal obstacles that prevent us