Gilhespy: Patterns and trends relating to marriage. Flashcards
What are the four main patterns and trends relating to marriage?
1) fewer people are marrying
2) Remarriages are increasing
3) People are marrying later
4) civil ceremonies have increased.
Trend: Fewer people are marrying.
Explain the reason - Changing role of women
With the rise of second- and third-way feminism, women’s career aspirations have increased. Greater involvement in higher education and challenging for higher status positions in organisations has meant that for many women, career has become a priority over getting married and having a family. While the idea of marriage has not been replaced, many women are choosing to become financially independent before entering a marriage, and this has been accelerated by their career aspirations.
Trend: Fewer people are marrying.
Explain the reason - Changing social attitudes
In contemporary society, there are many different alternatives to traditional marriage, such as cohabitation or living together apart relationships. These have developed as a response to changes in social attitudes. Greater reflexivity in society means people question their choices and look to improve themselves, rather than look for a family unit. In contemporary society, people look to replace the security and stability of romantic love with the freedom and personal satisfaction of confluent love and serial monogamy. This leads to people opting for a series of relationships rather than one lifelong relationship.
Trend: Fewer people are marrying.
Explain the reason - Secularisation
The process of secularisation has impacted on the decline of marriage. More people are moving away from the collective morality of religious Institutions and instead basing their decisions on their own moral codes. This has led to a decline in the stigma attached to living together before marriage or being single for a longer period of time. In 2017, only 23% of weddings were in religious premises, others being destination weddings or civil ceremonies.
Trend: Fewer people are marrying.
Explain the reason - Rising divorce and the insecurity of relationships
Many people wait to get married to ensure the person they intend to be with is the person for them. Rise in divorce rates and the perception of relationships being more fragile in contemporary society has led to people wanting to control the emotional risks of a relationship ending, either by choosing not to commit to a long-term relationship or to adopt other alternatives (LATs or cohabitation).
Trend: Remarriages are increasing
Explain the reason - Divorce increase
The amount of remarriages is increasing due to the number of divorces increasing. The rising number of divorces provide a supply of people who are now available to marry.
Trend: People are marrying later
Explain the reason - Women focusing more on their education and careers
With the rise of second- and third-way feminism, women’s career aspirations have increased. Greater involvement in higher education and challenging for higher status positions in organisations has meant that for many women, career has become a priority over getting married and having a family. This may mean women want to become financially independant before marrying, postponing marriage until later on in their lives.
Trend: People are marrying later
Explain the reason - Cohabitation before marriage
Today, many couples view cohabitation as a stepping stone to marriage - an important part of the process. It is seen as a short-term premarital relationship, where a couples compatibility can be tested before they decide legally commit to each other.
Trend: Civil ceremonies have increased
Explain the reason - Secularisation
As religious institutions and values have less influence in todays society, people are increasingly choosing to opt for civil ceremonies because they do not see the relevance of religious ceremonies.
Trend: Civil ceremonies have increased
Explain the reason - Churches refusing to remarry divorcees.
Churches refuse to marry divorcees. Divorcees now make up a growing proportion of those marrying. Divorcees may have less desire to get married in church.
Give a statistic for the trend - Fewer people are marrying.
From 1992 to 2022, marriage rates have decreased by 20.8%.
Give a statistic for the trend - Remarriages are increasing.
Among married adults older than age 50, the share in a remarriage increased from 19% in 1980% to 30% in 2015
Give a statistic for the trend -
People are marrying later.
The average age for fist time marriage in 1971 was 25 for men and 23 for women. In 2012 it was 32 for men and 30 for women.
Give a statistic for the trend - Civil ceremonies have increased.
In 1981, 60% of weddings were conducted with religious ceremonies, but 2022 this had fallen to 17%.
Define Cohabitation:
When an unmarried couple in a sexual relationship live together.
Trend: Cohabitation is increasing.
Explain the reason - Changes in the position of women.
In todays society, women have more career prospects and can be financially independent. There is a feminist view that marriage is an oppressive patriarchal institution, dissuading women from marrying. This means many women will choose to permanently cohabit instead.
Give a statistic for the trend -
Cohabitation rates have increased.
In 1996, 2.9 million people aged 16-59 were cohabiting, by 2012 this had increased to 5.9 million.
Trend: Cohabitation is increasing
Explain the reason - Secularisation
The churches are in favour of marriage but as religious values and influence decrease, people feel freer to choose not to marry. Young people with no religion are more likely to cohabit than those with a religion.
Trend: Cohabitation is increasing
Explain the reason - Changing social attitudes and declining stigma.
Young people are much more likely to cohabit compared to older people and this can mean they are much more accepting. There is a decline stigma attached to sex outside of marriage. Therefore people feel more free in there decision to cohabit.
Trend: Cohabitation is increasing
Explain the reason - Fear of divorce.
With rising divorce rates, some may be putting off marrying because they see the increased likelihood of marriage ending in divorce.
Explain how cohabitation can be used as evidence for the declining popularity and social significance of marriage.
Barlow et al (2001) found that marriage has become more of a lifestyle choice than an expected part of life. Cohabitation can be viewed as a permanent alternative to marriage. This links to the post-modernist view, that greater freedom in society today means people should be able to satisfy their needs and wishes (cohabitation in this instance), instead of feeling the pressure to marry.
The relationship between cohabitation and marriage…
Explain the view - Cohabitation as a permanent alternative to marriage.
Barlow et al (2001) found that marriage has become more of a lifestyle choice than an expected part of life. Cohabitation can be viewed as a permanent alternative to marriage. This links to the post-modernist view, that greater freedom in society today means people should be able to satisfy their needs and wishes (cohabitation in this instance), instead of feeling the pressure to marry.
The relationship between cohabitation and marriage…
Explain the view - Cohabitation is a stepping stone to marriage.
Chester argued that in most cases, cohabitation is a temporary phase before marriage. Many couples nowadays choose to cohabit before marrying, so they can test their compatibility before legally committing to each other.
Explain the view that New right members have on cohabitation:
They believe that this type of arrangement is too casual and does not involve the same sort of commitment and loyalty that marriage does. The new right emphasise the value of the traditional nuclear family, so they criticise cohabitation by saying either partner could leave at any time, creating ‘dysfunctional’ lone parent families.
Explain the view that feminists have on cohabitation:
Feminsists like cohabitation because they do not believe should feel the pressure to follow typical societal norms. They believe that cohabitation suggests that there is more equal power in the relationship.
Define serial monogamy:
The fact or custom of having a number of sexual relationships one after another, but never more than one at a time.
Explain the factor influencing the likelihood of divorce: Age of marriage
The age at which people first marry has been increasing, and previous research in population trends has shown that those marrying when they are older have a lower risk of divorce
Explain the factor influencing the likelihood of divorce: Year of marriage.