Gender Differences - Communication Flashcards
Deborah Tannen (1990) was interested in debunking…
notions of male speech being the norm & female speech (if different) being required to change.
Tannen’s early research recorded…
conversations between women and men
Men tend to use…
Report talk
List characteristics of report
Type of talk used in public speaking and for information sharing.
When telling jokes/stories or imparting information, they are comfortable w/being centre stage.
uses talk as a way of gaining & holding attention of their audience & to negotiate & maintain status.
Women tend to use…
rapport talk
Explain characteristics of rapport talk
Style is based on establishing relationships and intimacy, developing understanding and negotiating differences
Tannen Considered that women enjoy private conversation … than men
more
- this requires sharing experiences
Tannen Considered that women enjoy private conversation … than men
more
- this requires sharing experiences
How have these talking styles of talking evolved from childhood (boys vs. girls)
They’ve socialised differently in terms of expectations about language style:
- Girls: taught about maintaining relationships through talking.
- Boys: taught about maintaining relationships through action
List characteristics of rapport talk (from table)
Use talk to establish + maintain emotional connections
Focus on personal and small talk ‘chat’
Use talk to build relationships + maintain intimacy
Tend to talk over + above one another, overlapping + simultaneous talk
List characteristics of report talk (from table)
Get more air time + exchange information w/little emotional connection
Are more public w/their talk
Use language to negotiate status + to avoid failure
Talk in turn
Tannen that if men & women simply understand the differences in each other’s reasons for talking…
a lot of anguish can be avoided.
Women shown to use more ‘mmm’ and ‘yeah’, what is this?
Confirmatory noises - to indicate that they’re listening
Women use more … requests than men, e.g.
indirect
man - ‘shut the door’
woman - ‘would you mind closing the door?’
Hedge
Common grammatical form in women’s rapport speech.
They are words/phrases that are used to lessen the impacts of a statement/request being made.
HOWEVER
Dallo (1996) - notes that hedges are used by both men + women & are more correctly thought of as a strategic device.