Gender Flashcards
Advice vs understanding
Men try to find a solution rather than understand
Orders vs proposals
Men use more imperatives but women use more ameliorated requests
Information vs feelings
Men tend to give factual information whereas women offer an emotional overview
Status vs support
Male conversations are categorised by a desire to be in control whereas women prefer to be supported
Independence vs intimacy
Men focus on being independant whereas women prefer the intimacy of the situation
Conflict vs compromise
Women will often compromise rather than cause conflict like men
Otto Jesperson
Fillers and pauses
Speak without thinking
Books written by women are easier to read
Robin Lakoff
Hypercorrect grammar
Over apologising
empty adjectives
Tag questions
Overuse of intensifiers
Special lexicon
Lack of humor
O’Barr and Atkins
Looked at a courtroom and found that those without power used alll of Lakoff’s features
Jennifer Coates
Men and women converse differently about the same topics
Techniques used by women are a sign of intelligence not inferiority
Deborah jones “house talk”
Scandal- women discuss behaviour of others
Bitching- expression of anger for relief
Chatting- an intimate form of gossiping where women self disclose
Kupier
Men swear more
Pilkington
Locker room banter, men insult each other to create bonds
I look like a wet some statements are available suspicion I don’t wanna be rude very much
Valentova and Havlice
People could tell a man’s sexual orientation by female features in his voice