Funeral Service Counseling: Glossary Flashcards
Grief extending over a long period of time without resolution
- Abnormal grief
- Complicated
- Unresolved
The intense physical and emotional expression of grief occurring as the awareness increases of a loss of someone or something significant
Acute grief
The individual’s ability to adjust to the psychological and emotional changes brought on by a stressful event such as the death of a significant other
Adaptation
Feelings and their expression
Affect
Those appropriate and helpful act os counseling that come after the funeral
- Aftercare
- Post-funeral counseling
AIDS
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome
The intentional infliction of physical or psychological harm on another
Aggression
Fear or anxiety caused by the sudden realization of danger
Alarm
The state of estrangement an individual feels in social settings that are viewed as foreign, unpredictable or unacceptable
Alienation
A choice of services and merchandise available as families make a selection and complete funeral arrangements
Alternatives
Formulating different actions in adjusting to a crisis
Alternatives
Blame directed toward another person
Anger
A term to describe the experience of grief, especially in young bereaved parents, where mourning customs are unclear due to an inappropriate death and the absence of prior bereavement experience
Anomic grief
Typical in a society that has attempted to minimize the impact of death through medical control of disease and social control of those who deal with the dying and the dead
Anomic grief
A syndrome characterized by the presence of grief in anticipation of death or loss
Anticipatory grief
The actual death comes as a confirmation of knowledge of a life-limiting condition
Anticipatory grief
A state of tension, typically characterized by rapid heartbeat and shortness of breath
Anxiety
An emotion characterized by a vague fear of premonition that something undesirable is going to happen
Anxiety
A death has occurred and the funeral director is counseling with the family as they select the services and items of merchandise in completing arrangements for the funeral service of their choice
At-need counseling
The tendency in human beings to make strong affectional bonds with others coming from the need for security and safety
Attachment theory (Bowlby)
Giving undivided attention by means of verbal and non-verbal behavior
- Attending
- Listening
A learned tendency to respond to people, objects, or institutions in a positive or negative way
Attitude
The act or event of separation or loss that results in the experience of grief
Bereavement
Excessive in duration and never comes to satisfactory conclusion
Chronic grief
A phrase coined by Carl Rogers to refer to that type of counseling where one comes actively and voluntarily to gain help on a problem, but without any notion of surrendering his own responsibility for the situation
- Client-centered counseling
- Person-centered
A non-directive method of counseling which stresses the inherent worth of the client and the natural capacity for growth and health
- Client-centered counseling
- Person-centered
From the Latin word, “to know”
Cognitive
The study of the origins and consequences of thoughts, memories, beliefs, perceptions, explanations, and other mental processes
Cognitive
The rite of finality in a funeral service preceding cremation, earth burial, entombment or burial at sea
Committal service
general term for the exchange of information, feelings, thoughts, and acts between two or more people, including both verbal and non-verbal aspects of this interchange
Communication
Grief extending over a long period of time without resolve
- Complicated grief
- Unresolved
- Chronic
According to client-centered counseling, the necessary quality of a counselor being in touch with reality and with others’ perception of one’s self
Congruence
Characteristic ways of responding to stress
Coping
The individual seeking assistance or guidance
Counselee
Advice, especially that given as a result of consultation
Counseling (Webster)
Any time someone helps someone else with a problem
Counseling (Jackson)
Good communication within and between people
Counseling (Rogers)
Good (free) communication between people is always therapeutic
Counseling (Rogers)
A therapeutic experience for reasonably healthy persons
Counseling (Ohlsen)
Not to be confused with psychotherapy
Counseling (Ohlsen)
Treatment for emotionally disturbed persons who seek (or are referred for) assistance before they develop serious neurotic, psychotic, or character disorders
Psychotherapy
The individual providing assistance and guidance
Counselor
A highly emotional temporary state in which an individual’s feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion, or pain impair his or her ability to act
Crisis
Interventions for a highly emotional, temporary state in which individuals overcome by feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion, or pain are unable to act in a realistic normal manner
Crisis counseling
Intentional response which helps an individual in a crisis situation
Crisis counseling
A learned emotional response to death-related phenomena which is characterized by extreme apprehension
Death anxiety
Inhibited, suppressed, or postponed response to a loss
Delayed grief (Worden)
The defense mechanism by which a person is unable or refuses to see things as they are because such facts are threatening to the self
Denial
Counselor takes a live speaking role, asking questions, suggesting courses of action, etc
Directive counseling
Treating members of various social groups differently in circumstances where their rights or treatment should be identical
Discrimination
A defense mechanism in which anger is redirected toward a person or object other than the one who provided the anger originally
Displaced aggression
Redirection of emotion to other targets
Displacement
Two units regarded as a pair
Dyad
Example: husband and wife
Dyad
Unconscious, irrational means used by the ego to defend against anxiety
Ego defense mechanisms