Friend Family Lover Framework Flashcards
2023 Top Best Relationship Books
- The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Nan Silver
- His Needs Her Needs by Willard F Harley
- Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence – Esther Perel
- Conscious Loving: The Journey to Co-Commitment – Gay Hendricks, Kathlyn Hendricks
Ace or Asexual people
Individuals who generally do not experience sexual attraction to others of any gender.
Some do experience romantic attractions. Asexuality differs from celibacy in that celibates have a sexual
attraction, but choose to abstain from sex.
Agender people
Individuals who identify as not having a gender. Some describe themselves as genderless,
while others see themselves as gender neutral.
Androgynes
Individuals who identify androgynously. They have a gender which is both feminine and
masculine, although not necessary in equal amounts.
Aromantic people
Individuals who experience little or no romantic attraction to others of any gender
Attachment Styles
Secure
Anxious-Ambivalent
Disorganized
Avoidant
Beige Flags
“Beige flags” are signs on dating app profiles that the person behind the profile is probably boring.
Think: Someone whose entire personality is liking “The Office” or “Harry Potter.” Or someone who writes that they’re “looking for someone who can keep up with me” on their dating profile.
Bi or Bisexual
Individuals who experience little or no romantic attraction to others of any gender
Cis or cisgender people
Individuals who identify with the gender that was assigned to them at birth (i.e., people who are not transgender)
Cisgender
Umbrella term for those whose gender expression and gender identity are congruent with the sex assigned to them at birth, and whose gender is validated by the dominant culture.
Crossdressers
Individuals who, at times, wear clothes traditionally associated with people of a gender different from one’s own.
Dating Trends in 2023
- Infla-Dating
- Wanderlove
- Ethical Sex-ploration
- Dry Dating
- Open Casting
Infla-Dating
Is a new trend where couples go on less expensive dates due to the rise in prices and everyday expenses.
It means dating on a budget.
Demigender people
Individuals who feel a partial connection to a particular gender identity. Examples of
demigender identities include demigirl, and demiboy, and demiandrogyne
Demiromantic people
Individuals who do not feel romantic attraction to someone unless they have already
formed a strong emotional bond with the person
Demisexual people
Individuals who typically do not feel sexual attraction to someone unless they have
already formed a strong emotional bond with the person
Endogamy
- Endogamy refers to the practice of marrying within one’s own social group or caste.
- Endogamy can be imposed or strongly encouraged by cultural traditions and community norms.
- It has the potential to limit genetic diversity and perpetuate social inequalities by maintaining a closed social system.
- In some cultures, endogamy is a way to maintain cultural practices, religious beliefs, and family traditions.
ENM
Ethical non-monogamy. Is the practice of being romantically involved with multiple people who are all aware of and agree to this relationship structure.
Top 5 most popular dating sites
1) badoo.com - 106M/month
2) Tinder - 95M/month
3) Plenty of Fish - 32M/month
4) OKCupid - 31.5M/month
5) International Cupid - 20M/month
6) Match.com - 17M/month
7) AshleyMadison - 15M/month
??? Bumble ??? Hinge ???
Esther Perel
-Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (2006)
-The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (2017)
Exogamy
- Exogamy is the practice of marrying outside of one’s own social group or caste.
- It can be seen as a way to increase genetic diversity and foster social and economic exchange.
- Exogamy is also common to many societies as it creates inter-group alliances and ensures the peaceful coexistence of different groups.
- It is often encouraged by cultural or societal norm that discourage intermarriage between close relatives
- Exogamy can be imposed by laws or social customs as well as by personal choices, sometimes with different implications.
Future Promiser
A guy who strings women along with “future promises” of, moving in, getting engaged, getting married, having kids… but never materializes
Gay
Men who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attractions to other men.
Gender binary
The social system that sees only two genders and that requires everyone to be raised as a man or a woman, depending on the gender assigned to them at birth
Gender fluid people
Individuals whose gender varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time identify as male, female, agender, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities.
Genderism or cissexism
The societal, institutional, and individual beliefs and practices that privilege cis people and subordinate and disparage trans and gender-nonconforming people.
Genderqueer people
Individuals who identify as neither male nor female (but as a third gender), as both male and female, or as somewhere in between.
Gottman 4 negative behaviors
Defensiveness
Stonewalling
Criticism
Contempt
Gray asexuals or Gray A’s
Individuals whose sexuality is not “black or white”; they experience sexual attraction infrequently or not very strongly.