EO Forum Trainer Concepts Flashcards
New Forum terminology:
1) Gestalt replaced with ____________
2) Monthly updates replaced with ____________
3) Presentation replaced with ____________
1) Forum Mindset
2) 5% reflections
3) Deep Dive
“Tuckman Model” group dynamic stages
Forming / Norming / Storming / Performing
“Four Cornerstones of Forum”
Confidentiality
Vulnerability
Forum Mindset
Personal Responsibility
Johari Window 4 quadrants
Known - known to self and others
Hidden - known to self, but NOT others
Blind - NOT known to self, but known to others
Unknown - NOT known to self or others
Name the 4 aspects of Forum Cornerstone “Confidentiality”
Forever
No gossip
Walls have ears
No pillow talk
Name the 4 aspects of Forum Cornerstone “Vulnerability” in sharing:
1) topic is in the 5% not the 95%
2) sharing feelings and their complexity (3-5 feeling)
3) sharing dreams fears concerns (long headline)
4) sharing WHY IT MATTERS TO ME (why why why significance)
Name the 5 aspects of Forum Cornerstone “Forum Mindset”
Shoshin
Share
Humble
Listen
Peer
Name the 3 aspects of Forum Cornerstone “Personal Responsibility” with their two traits
Mental = prepare and engage
Physical = timely and committed
Emotionally = be real and clear issues
3 Key points of Forum Mindset concept “Peer”
Every member gets EQUAL TIME
Every member is CAPABLE
Everyones answers are WITHIN
3 Key points of Forum Mindset concept “Listen”
With head and heart
With empathy to understand
For my own learning
3 Key points of Forum Mindset concept “Humble”
No ego or pretense
Not right, smarter or more successful
No saving, solving or fixing
3 Key points of Forum Mindset concept “Share”
Authentic and vulnerable
Experiences not advice
Resonance vs. relevance
3 Key points of Forum Mindset concept “Shoshin”
Beginner’s mind; open
Non-judgmental
Eager curiosity
Format of “5% reflections”
10% 3-5 Emotions
10% Long Headline
80% Why why why important to me
What are the “Four Skills of Coaching”
1) Quiet Mind = listen not to solve
2) Reflect Back = repeat
3) Struggle Beneath = What is the challenge?
4) Focus = Which challenge to explore?