Forgiveness Flashcards
He that studies revenge keep with his own wounds green, which otherwise would heal and do well
John Milton
In a good partnership, when either has Violated the others trust they have been able to forgive each other. Those in a good partnership are better at working through it.
If you are betrayed, you need a tremendous amount of discernment, self-control, ability to give your counterpart the benefit of the doubt, and desire for a better outcome to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous cycle. How you manage your own thinking is an important part and as important as the offense itself.
If you were angry at a particular person, imagine his or her face on the pillow or punching bag and vent your rage physically and verbally, you will be doing violence to your self by holding in poisonous anger.
People who hit the punching bag were thinking about the person who had Provoked them were the most angry and the most aggressive.
Stealing or fuming only makes things worse.
One of the best ways to resolve a pass problem is the find a positive in it.
John Adams is quoted as saying that if I should quarrel with someone I might quarrel with every man I have had anything to do with in life. I forgive all my enemies and hope they may find a mercy in heaven.
