Final Study Guide Flashcards
The active process of making meaning out of another person’s spoken message
Listening
HURIER Model
Hearing, Understanding, Remembering, Interpreting, Evaluating, Responding
The physical process of perceiving sound
Hearing
To comprehend the meanings of the words and phrases you’re hearing
Understanding
To store something in your memory and retrieve it when needed
Remembering
Paying attention to all of the speaker’s verbal and nonverbal behaviors so you can assign meaning to what the person has said, and signaling your interpretation of the message to the speaker
Interpreting
Judging whether the speaker’s statements are accurate and true, separating facts from opinions and trying to determine why the speaker is saying what he or she is saying, considering the speaker’s words in the context of other information you have received from that speaker or other sources
Evaluating
Indicating to the speaker that you’re listening: giving feedback
Responding
Responding with silence and lack of facial expression
Stonewalling
Nodding, using facial expressions, saying Uh-huh or I understand
Backchanneling
Expressing agreement with the speaker’s opinion or point of view
Supporting
Providing your own perspective, explaining your opinion or describing your experience
Analyzing
Communicating advice about what the speaker should think, feel, or do
Advising
Listening to learn something
Informational listening
Listening with the goal of evaluating or analyzing what one hears
Critical Listening
Listening in order to experience what another person is thinking or feeling
Empathetic Listening
Listening in order to be inspired
Inspirational Listening
Listening for pure enjoyment
Appreciative Listening
Listening only to what one wants to hear
Selective Attention
The state of being overwhelmed by the amount of information one takes in
Information Overload
Using Interruptions to take control of a conversation
Competitive Interrupting
The tendency to pay attention only to information that supports one’s values and beliefs while discounting or ignoring information that doesn’t
Confirmation Bias
The tendency from dramatic, shocking events to distort one’s perception of reality
Vividness Effect
The practice of evaluating the evidence for a claim
Skepticism
The body’s multidimensional response to any event that enhances or inhibits one’s goals
Emotion
A secondary emotion consisting of joy and surprise, plus experiences of excitement and attraction for another
Passion
A positive overall evaluation of another person
Liking
Fear of not making a good impression on others
Social Anxiety
Motivations to act in a particular way when experiencing an emotion
Action Tendencies
The positivity or negativity of an emotion
Valence
Distinct emotional experiences not consisting of combinations of other emotions
Primary Emotions
Emotions composed of combinations of primary emotions
Secondary Emotions
An emotion about an emotion
Meta-emotion
Unwritten codes that govern the ways people manage and express emotions
Display Rules
Exaggerating your emotion to appear as though you are experiencing it more intensely than you are
Intensification
Downplaying an emotion to appear as though you are experiencing it less intensely than you are
De-Intensification
Acting as though you’re feeling an emotion that you aren’t actually experiencing
Simulating
Acting as though you’re indifferent or emotionless when you’re actually experiencing an emotion
Inhibition
Expressing one emotion when you are actually experiencing a completely different one
Masking
The tendency to mimic the emotional experiences and expressions of others
Emotional Contagion
One’s tendency to be pleasant, accommodating, and cooperative
Agreeableness
One’s tendency to be sociable and outgoing
Extroversion
One’s tendency to think negative thoughts about oneself
Neuroticism
The ability to perceive and understand emotions, use emotions to facilitate thought, and manage emotions constructively
Emotional Intelligence
A personality trait limiting a person’s ability to understand and describe emotions
Alexithymia
The process of changing how one thinks about the situation that gave rise to a negative emotion so that the effect of the emotion is diminished.
Emotional Reappraisal
A theory that says each of us is born with a fundamental drive to seek, form, maintain, and protect strong relationships.
Need to belong theory
A desire to stay in a relationship
Commitment
A state in which each person’s behaviors affect everyone else in the relationship
Interdependence
The commitment of resources in our relationships
Investment
Conflicts between two important but opposing needs or desires
Dialectical Tensions
Escaping tension entirely by ending the relationship
Disorientation
Going back and forth between two sides of tension
Alternation
Embracing dialectical tensions as a normal part of life
Reaffirmation
Any force that draws people together to form a relationship
Interpersonal Attraction
Attraction to someone’s physical appearance
Physical Attraction
Attraction to someone’s personality
Social Attraction