Final Exam (Ch. 9, 10, 13) Flashcards
who often has difficulty talking openly about sexual matters
people of all ages
mutual empathy
the awareness of each partner’s reciprocal care for each other
making sure each person feels safe talking about sex
how do college-level sex ed courses help?
help break down communication barriers by demystifying sexual health and practices
how has the internet affected sexuality?
expanded the avenues to explore and express sexuality
altersexuality
increased fluidity of sexual experience
wikisexuality
sexual experiences that are not possible (or comfortable) in “real” life
the problem with wikisexuality
perpetuates the rape myth
how do people learn about appropriate expressions of sexuality?
it is culture specific
learn from family, friends, society, religion
sexually responsible decisions involve . . .
considering the possible consequences of sexual behavior
establishing boundaries is important in . . .
being true to one’s own values
sexual abstinence means . . .
different things to different people, cultures, religious groups
reactance
teens want to do things they’re not supposed to do
causes of sexual guilt
extramarital affairs, sexual promiscuity, hooking up
misconceptions about sex
women should not initiate (not as desirable)
gay bad
hot people are better in bed
old people have no interest in sex
concerns about sexuality
worrying about performance
STIs and STDs
worrying about body
feel responsible for partner dissatisfaction
guilt over sexual feelings + behaviors
feel abnormal
criteria for abnormal sexual behavior
non-consensual
with something that cannot consent
sensual experiences and sexual experiences
relationship between the two
can be enjoyed separate from each other
sexual arousal and response is affected by . . .
numerous factors
sexual health correlation with general health
positive correlation
high ejaculation = lower risk of prostate cancer
sex-> endocrine events, physical + emotional reactions -> better women’s health
what is valued in sexual relationships?
love and affection
important attributes for sexual relationships
commitment
good communication
high quality of emotional + physical intimacy
what is the relationship between love and sex?
positive correlation
hook-up
short-term non-monogamous sexual relationship without the expectation of emotional intimacy
hook ups most prevalent with . . .
American college students
also occurs among younger adolescents, non-college adults
hook ups occur between . . .
people who know one another on an acquaintance level (possibly through a friend)
friends with benefits
they fuckin
no desire for a long-term relationship
“sexual addiction” and “compulsive sexual behavior” controversy
over whether they are appropriate terms
how to deal with sex addiction
12-step peer-led groups
watching more porn causes . . .
stronger sexual urges
indicators of a porn problem
unexplained absences
excessive computer use
social + emotional withdrawal
hiding, lying, and secretive behavior
increased performance concerns
decreased affection, intimacy, non-sexual touching
hazards of unprotected sex
HIV/AIDs
other STIs
unplanned pregnancies
(including mental effects)
questions to consider to make responsible sexual choices
will my actions
-hurt someone?
-limit another’s freedom?
-exploit another’s rights? (power imbalance)
-be consistent with my values and commitments?
good gauge of how you will approach your career
how you approach your postsecondary education
leaving college will make it . . .
more difficult to return later
important factors in choosing a career
motivation and achievement
attitudes about occupations
abilities and aptitudes
interests
values
self-concept
John Holland’s Personality Types
realistic
investigative
artistic
social
enterprising
conventional
process of deciding on a career
- comprehensive information gathering
- analytic information processing
- less procrastination, more effort invested
- greater speed in reaching the final decision
- less dependence on others and less desire to please
- an internal locus of control
- begin by focusing on yourself
- generate alt. solutions (backup plans)
- gather + assess info about alternatives
- weigh and prioritize your alternatives
- make the decision + formulate a plan
- carry out the decision
- get feedback
what to do if you experience discontent in work?
focus on factors you can change
in your work you should . . .
identify ways you can create meaning in your work