Final Exam Flashcards
What are 5 aspects of induction in parenting?
- Directs in a rational issue-oriented manner
- Encourages verbal give and take
- Shares with the child the reasoning behind parental policy
- solicits the child’s objections when the child refuses to conform
- “Reflection enhancing messages”
The difference between parenting styles vs. practices
parenting style= a collection of behaviors that adds up over time
parenting practices= specific strategies to achieve specific goals in specific contexts.
Darling and Steinberg on parenting styles and practices
parenting styles may be “equally effective in socializing children across all cultural contexts, but that the goals toward which children are socialized, and thus parenting practices, vary across these same ecologies”
5 aspects of authoritarian parenting
- very demanding and directive but not responsive
- Punitive, forceful measures (coercion) to curb self-will and demand obedience
- Keeps the child in a subordinate role
- Restricts child autonomy
- Does not encourage verbal give-and-take (induction)
Effects of authoritarian parenting on children
Children tend to perform moderately well at school and avoid problem behavior, but poorer social skills, lower self-esteem, and higher levels of depression.
4 aspects of permissive parenting
- more responsive than demanding
- Affirming and accepting of child’s impulses and actions (does not require mature behavior)
- Aims to free the child from restraint (allows considerable self regulation)
- Exerts lax or inconsistent control when the child misbehaves (avoids confrontation)
Effects of permissive parenting on children
Children are more likely to be involved in problem behavior (impulse control problems, difficulty respecting others, coping with frustration), perform less well in school (little self-discipline), though they do not tend to have social skill, self esteem, or depression difficulties.
4 aspects of authoritative parenting
- uses induction
- Exerts firm control when the young child disobeys, but does not hem the child in with restrictions
- Love, Limits, & Latitude
- Responsiveness, structure, & autonomy support
Effects of authoritative parenting on children
Children tend to do very well in all aspects of life: socially mature, high self esteem, responsible, more prosocial, high academic achievement, very little problem behavior.
Effects of uninvolved parenting on children
Children perform most poorly in all domains
What are the two major dimensions of parenting?
acceptance/responsiveness and demandingness/control
Indirect effects of parents on peer sociability
Parental effects wherein the parent’s goal is not explicitly to modify the child’s relationships with peers. Proactively regulating or scaffolding social interactions. Most appropriate for infants and toddlers.
Direct effects of parents on peer sociability
Parental effects which directly determine the sheer amount of contact a child has with peers.
What did the Ladd & Gotler study find?
children are more liked by peers in nursery school with more direct/less indirect interventions
How does attachment effect peer relations?
Secure attachments foster peer sociability and positive peer relations.
Parents as managers (peer sociability)
Facilitating peer contacts by acting as designers and mediators- Enrolling children in organized play groups or activities. Chauffeuring children from one place to another. Getting together with their friends so their children can play together. Coaching children in how to initiate and maintain peer contacts.
4 aspects of Parents as educators (peer sociability)
- Supervising- Interactive interventions (Direct)- Proactively regulating or scaffolding social interactions. Most appropriate for infants and toddlers.
- Indirect Interventions- Observing and reacting minimally to events in children’s play. Ladd & Golter study.
- Monitoring- Outside of direct parental involvement
- Advising/Consulting- Decontextualized discussions. Outside of the peer context. Proactive or reactive.
Controversy over ethnicity and parenting styles
In the study “Physical Discipline and Children’s Adjustment: Cultural Normativeness as a Moderator” it was found that “…physical discipline was less strongly associated with adverse child outcomes in conditions of greater perceived normativeness, but physical discipline was also associated with more adverse outcomes regardless of its perceived normativeness.”
3 aspects of effective discipline
- Children must accurately interpret the parents’ intended message
- Children need to accept the parental message and adopt it as their own
- Parents must seek a united front in authoritative parenting (consistency and predictability. Disunity is a predictor of marital conflict and lower satisfaction)
Parenting needs in infancy and toddlerhood
Schedule, structure, supervision (including childproofing). Reasoning, diversion, negotiation, and ignoring misbehavior are the most frequently cited strategies, and the most effective.
Parenting needs in preschool
Reasoning and logical consequences are more viable as tools. Verbal reprimands and positive reinforcement of desired behavior are the best corrective tools for misbehavior. “Coercive cycles” are possible, leading to ongoing escalation
Parenting needs for school-age children
Reasoning and logical consequences are ever more effective. Better to ask for better behavior than to punish, as children still seek to please their parents.
Parenting needs in adolescence
“Storm and stress” is not normative (mutual respect & cooperation). Gradual transition to greater autonomy, as warranted. Limit setting and monitoring must continue. Evidence of internalization. Withdrawal of privileges is impactful in dealing with misbehavior. Physical coercion and psychological control are significant errors.
Most common patterns in Baumrind’s Seven Patterns of Parental Authority
democratic (19%) and good enough (19%)