Final ch 17 grief Flashcards
actual loss
death of loved one / relationship theft deterioration destruction natural disaster hair loss during chemotherapy can be identified by others
perceived
identified only by the person experiencing it internal woman with a sexually transmitted infection may perceive loss of her purity
physical loss
injuries organ removal loss of function limb amputation hysterectomy paralysis
psychological loss
internal sexuality control fairness meaning trust Loss of youth limbs body disfigurement, body functions can negatively impact one’s perception of self The effect is loss of hope, faith, or dreams.
external losses
are actual losses of objects that sentimental or monetary value jewelry home
environmental loss
a change in the familiar even if the change is perceived as positive moving to a new home getting a new job going to college
loss of a significant relationship
actual loss of spouses, siblings, family members significant others through death, divorce, or separation
grief
physical physiological & spiritual response to loss
mourning
action associated with grief
beravement
mourning & adjustment time following loss
Although each person may express grief differently
some aspects of grief are shared by almost everyone.
George Engel
Three Stages 1) shock and disbelief 2) developing awareness of loos 3) restitution and recovery Uncomplicated grief is universal, has a clear onset and a predictable course (with modifications), and does not require treatment.
John Bowlby
Phases of Grief 1) Shock and Numbness 2) Yearning and searching 3) disorganization & despair 4) reorganization This attachment theory describes the reaction to strong emotional bonds that have been developed. The individual must work through each process to avoid complicated grief. Grief is a mature way of dealing with loss of attachment.
Theresa Rando 6R’s
six tasks (6Rs) associated with grieving: (1) Recognizing the loss (2) Reacting to the separation (3) Recollecting memories of the deceased (4) Relinquishing the old attachment (5) Readjusting to the new environment (6) Reinvesting self
Theresa Rando Processes of Grieving
1) Avoidance (shock disbelief avoidance) 2) Confrontation (facing loss, emotional and upsetting time) 3) Accommodation (feeling better, live with loss, resume activities)