Final Flashcards

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Nonverbal communication

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intentional or unintentional transmission of meaning through individual’s nonspoken physical and behavioral cues

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Principles of nonverbal communication

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  • Uses multiple channels
  • More ambiguous
  • Fewer rules
  • More meaning
  • Influenced by culture
  • Influenced by gender
  • Liberated through technology
  • Combine w/ verbal to create communication
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Women and nonverbal communication

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  • women are better than men at both sending and receiving nonverbal messages
  • women show greater facial expressiveness than men, and they smile more
  • women gaze more at others during interpersonal interactions
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4
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Haptics

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using touch to communicate nonverbally

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5
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Functional-professional touch

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used to accomplish task

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6
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Social-polite touch

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derives from social norms and expectations

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Friendship-warmth touch

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used to express our like for another person

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8
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Love-intimacy touch

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lets you convey deep feelings

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9
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Sexual-arousal touch

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intended to stimulate another person physically

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Aggressive-hostile touch

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involves forms of physical violence, like grabbing, slapping, and hitting – designed to hurt and humiliate others

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Proxemics

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nonverbal code for communication through use of physical distance

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12
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Personal space

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18 inches to 4 feet; for friends

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13
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Social space

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4 to 12 feet; for acquaintances and strangers

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Public space

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12 feet; formal settings

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15
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Territoriality

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tendency to claim physical space as our own and define certain locations as areas we do not want others to invade w/o permission

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Gesture types

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  • Emblems
  • Illustrators
  • Regulators
  • Adaptors
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17
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Illustrators

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accent or illustrate verbal messages

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18
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Pseudo conflict

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perception that conflict exists when in fact it does not

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19
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Power currency

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resource that other people value

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20
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Resource currency

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material things such as money, property, and food

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Expertise currency

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special skills or knowledge

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Social network currency

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linked w/ network of friends, family, and acquaintances w/ substantial influence

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Personal currency

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personal characteristics that people consider desirable – beauty, intelligence, communication skill, humor

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Intimacy currency

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when you share a close bond w/ someone that no one else shares

25
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sniping

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communicating in negative fashion and then abandoning encounter by physically leaving scene of refusing to interact further

26
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Approaches to handling conflict

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  • Avoidance
  • Accommodation
  • Competition
  • Reactivity
  • Collaboration
27
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Cumulative annoyance

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repressed irritation grows as mental list of grievances we have against our partner builds

28
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Destructive messages

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  • Sudden-death statements

- Dirty secrets

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Sudden-death statements

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when people get so angry that they suddenly declare end of relationship, even though breaking up wasn’t possibility before conflict

30
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Dirty secrets

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statements that are honest in content, have been kept hidden to protect partner’s feelings, and are designed to hurt

31
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Coming together

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  • Initiating
  • Experimenting
  • Intensifying
  • Integrating
  • Bonding
32
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Coming apart

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o	Differentiating
o	Circumscribing
o	Stagnating
o	Avoiding
o	Terminating
33
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Avoiding

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one or both of you decide that you can no longer be around each other, and you begin distancing yourself physically

34
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Relational dialectics

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competing tensions between ourselves and our feelings toward others in relationships

  • Openness vs protection
  • Autonomy vs connection
  • Novelty vs predictability
35
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Relational maintenance strategies

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  • Positivity
  • Assurances
  • Sharing tasks
  • Acceptance
  • Self-disclosure
  • Relationship talks
  • Social networks
36
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Romantic relationship

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chosen interpersonal involvement forged through communication in which participants perceive bond as romantic

37
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Key elements of romantic relationships

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  • Perception
  • Diversity
  • Choice
  • Commitment – strong psychological attachment to partner and intention to continue relationship long into future
  • Tensions
  • Communication
38
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What are the factors that cause romantic attraction?

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  • Proximity
  • Physical attractiveness
  • Similarity
  • Reciprocal liking
  • Resources
39
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Mere exposure effect

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phenomenon where your feel more attracted to those w/ whom you have frequent contact and less w/ whom you interact rarely

40
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Social exchange theory

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proposes that you’ll feel drawn to those you see as offering substantial benefits w/ few associated costs

41
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Family stories

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narrative accounts shared repeatedly within family that retell historical events and are meant to bond family together

  • Courtships stories
  • Birth stories
  • Survival stories
  • Telling family stories
42
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Conversation orientation

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degree to which family members are encouraged to participate in unrestrained interaction about wide array of topics

43
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Conformity orientation

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degree to which families believe that communication should emphasize similarity or diversity in attitudes, beliefs, and values

44
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Nuclear family

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wife, husband, and biological or adopted children

45
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Extended family

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when relatives such as aunts, uncles, parents, children, and grandparents live together in common household

46
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Stepfamily

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at least one of adults has child or children from previous relationship

47
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Cohabiting couples

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consist of two unmarried, romantically involved adults living together in household w/ or w/o children

48
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Single-parent family

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only one adult resides in household, possessing sole responsibility as caregiver for children

49
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Voluntary kin family

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group of people who lack blood and legal kinship but who consider themselves “family”

50
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Maintenance strategies for families

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o Positivity
o Assurances
o Self-disclosure

51
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Best friends

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o Usually same sex
o Intimacy, disclosure, commitment
o “have each other’s back”

52
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Identity support

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behaving in ways that convey understanding, acceptance, and support for a friend’s valued social identities

53
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Valued social identities

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aspects of your public self that you deem the most important in defining who you are – for example, musician, athlete, poet, dancer, teacher, mother

54
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Friendship rules

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general principles that prescribe appropriate communication and behavior within friendship relationships
o	Show support
o	Seek support
o	Respect privacy
o	Keep confidences
o	Defend your friends
o	Avoid public criticism
o	Make your friends happy
o	Manage jealousy
o	Share humor
o	Maintain equity
55
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Communal friendships

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focus primarily on sharing time and activities together

56
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Workplace relationship

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any affiliation you have w/ professional peer, supervisor, subordinate, or mentor

57
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Defensive climate

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environment is unfriendly, rigid, and unsupportive of workers’ professional and personal needs