Final Flashcards

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What is Biblical Counseling?

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Biblical counseling is giving the “admonition of the Word of God” to bring about change in lives.

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Counseling dates back to:

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The earliest days of Judeo-Christian history.

Exodus 18:13-26

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3
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3 words used for “Counsel” in the Old Testament:

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Yaw-ats’
Yaw-dad’
Ay-tsaw’

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Yaw-ats’

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to deliberate, resolve, advise, guide, devise, determine, purpose as in Ex. 18:19

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Yaw-dad’

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to sit down together, settle, consult, found, establish, instruct

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Ay-tsaw’

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advise, plan, prudence, advice, counsel, purpose

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The foundation for biblical counseling is:

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The application of the Word of God to the counselee’s heart

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It is imperative that you have set ______ _______. Individuals who need counseling need to know they can count on seeing the ______at a specific _____and place.

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It is imperative that you have set counseling hours. Individuals who need counseling need to know they can count on seeing the counselor at a specific time and place.

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9
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Safeguards

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  • Limit the counseling load
  • Maintain the appearance of propriety
  • Do formal counseling in the office
  • Graciously decline gifts
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As a best practice here at Word of faith, ministers do not counsel:

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A person of the opposite sex.

Male ministers counsel males, and female ministers counsel females.

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A minister at Word of Faith will only counsel a person of the opposite sex under the following circumstances:

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  • The counselee’s spouse is present

- A minister of the opposite sex is sitting in on the counseling session.

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12
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Transference is:

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when the counselee projects inappropriate feelings and desires on the counselor.

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13
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Another transference problem is counter-transference. Counter transference is:

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when the counselor responds to the client with inappropriate feelings of affection.

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14
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When storing files, the basic rule is to keep them:

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In a locked file cabinet, which is, in turn, kept in a locked room. Access to the cabinet should be restricted to the counselor and possibly a confidential secretary.

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15
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Counseling records should be kept a minimum of:

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10 years - Some churches keep them indefinitely.

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In general, the minister (counselor) needs to remember that:

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It is his/her responsibility to maintain confidentiality in all situations.

17
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In a counseling session there are always more than 2 people:

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Counselor, counsel, and the Holy Spirit

18
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In each counseling session, the Holy Spirit must be:

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acknowledged as the principal person.

19
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We cannot provide Godly counsel apart from the ____ ____ and His _____. To do so, we would be grievously _______ against the Holy Spirit and the counselee.

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We cannot provide Godly counsel apart from the Holy Spirit and His Word. To do so, we would be grievously sinning against the Holy Spirit and the counselee.

20
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4 Traits of a Biblical Counselor

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  • Extensive knowledge of the Scriptures
  • Divine wisdom
  • Good will toward others
  • A person of faith and hope
21
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In Biblical Counseling there is ____________authority. The Counselor, as an ordained ________ of God, exercises the full _______ for counseling that Christ gave to the organized church (1 Thes. 5:12-13)

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In Biblical Counseling there is divine authority. The Counselor, as an ordained representative of God, exercises the full authority for counseling that Christ gave to the organized church (1 Thes. 5:12-13)

22
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Accurate biblical counseling must include:

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an organized method of gaining information.

23
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5 Tools for Data Gathering:

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Use a personal data inventory sheet
Ask probing questions
Be aware of verbal communication
Be aware of non-verbal communication
Listen intently (or you will respond improperly)
24
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Prayer represents the ______ side of _______. The Minister’s (counselor’s) _____ show that he/she doe not ultimately rely on his/her _______, ______, or _____, but on God’s _____ to work in a particular situation.

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Prayer represents the spiritual side of counseling. The Minister’s (counselor’s) prayers show that he/she doe not ultimately rely on his/her education, skills, or methods, but on God’s Spirit to work in a particular situation.

25
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Prayer should be weaved throughout:

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the entire counseling session

26
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Ways to employ Scripture in Counseling:

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  • Use Scripture not to condemn but to outline a new direction
  • Back into Scripture
27
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The Therapeutic Triad consists of:

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  • Accurate empathy
  • non-possessive warmth
  • genuineness
28
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Confidentiality is probably the most

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thorny ethical issue in the counselor-counselee relationship.

29
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2 Big dangers in Counseling

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  • Doing what we, as pastors or counselors, shouldn’t do

- Not doing what we should do

30
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Clergy has the responsibility (in most states) to:

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Report suspected child abuse cases (whether physical or sexual), regardless of the source of information

31
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When a suicide is in progress or when a lethal and workable plan is likely to be implemented, we must:

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ACT IMMEDIATELY. We need to determine where the person is and get help to him or her immediately (call the police)

32
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What determines whether we will be held liable for negligence?

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The general rule is that we will be held to the standard to which a similar practitioner in our role is held. That standard is largely determined by how we market our services.

33
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Under the principles of respondeat superior (in which the principal is liable for the acts of the agents), any lawsuit resulting from negligence on the part of a staff counselor acting on behalf of your church may involve: c

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the pastor, the church, and the parent denomination.

34
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The best medicine for avoiding lawsuits is preventive education, instead of:

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corrective litigation’s

So educate yourself on these matters before you get started in counseling