Final Flashcards
What is Biblical Counseling?
Biblical counseling is giving the “admonition of the Word of God” to bring about change in lives.
Counseling dates back to:
The earliest days of Judeo-Christian history.
Exodus 18:13-26
3 words used for “Counsel” in the Old Testament:
Yaw-ats’
Yaw-dad’
Ay-tsaw’
Yaw-ats’
to deliberate, resolve, advise, guide, devise, determine, purpose as in Ex. 18:19
Yaw-dad’
to sit down together, settle, consult, found, establish, instruct
Ay-tsaw’
advise, plan, prudence, advice, counsel, purpose
The foundation for biblical counseling is:
The application of the Word of God to the counselee’s heart
It is imperative that you have set ______ _______. Individuals who need counseling need to know they can count on seeing the ______at a specific _____and place.
It is imperative that you have set counseling hours. Individuals who need counseling need to know they can count on seeing the counselor at a specific time and place.
Safeguards
- Limit the counseling load
- Maintain the appearance of propriety
- Do formal counseling in the office
- Graciously decline gifts
As a best practice here at Word of faith, ministers do not counsel:
A person of the opposite sex.
Male ministers counsel males, and female ministers counsel females.
A minister at Word of Faith will only counsel a person of the opposite sex under the following circumstances:
- The counselee’s spouse is present
- A minister of the opposite sex is sitting in on the counseling session.
Transference is:
when the counselee projects inappropriate feelings and desires on the counselor.
Another transference problem is counter-transference. Counter transference is:
when the counselor responds to the client with inappropriate feelings of affection.
When storing files, the basic rule is to keep them:
In a locked file cabinet, which is, in turn, kept in a locked room. Access to the cabinet should be restricted to the counselor and possibly a confidential secretary.
Counseling records should be kept a minimum of:
10 years - Some churches keep them indefinitely.