Final Flashcards
interpersonal communication
the exchange of verbal and nonverbal messages between two people who have a relationship and are influenced by the partner’s messages
impersonal communication
messages that are role-based, with little relational development or expressed emotion
hyperpersonal communication
a phenomenon surrounding online communication in which a lack of proximity, visual contact, or nonverbal cues results in enhanced intimacy
relational network
a web of relationships that connects individuals to one another
family
a small social group bound by ties of blood, civil contract, and a commitment to care for and be responsible for one another, usually in a shared household
social relationships
relationships that are functional within a specific context but are less intimate than friendships
love
a deep affection for and attachment to another person involving emotional ties, with varying degrees of passion, commitment, and intimacy
intimacy
closeness and understanding of a relational partner
social information processing theory
the theory that communicators use unique language and stylistic cues in their online messages to develop relationships that are as close as those that grow from face-to-face contact; because using text takes time, the process may take longer to become intimate
proximity
a state of physical nearness
inclusion
to involve others in our lives and to be involved in the lives of others
social exchange theory
theory that explains the process of balancing the advantages and disadvantages of a relationship
rewards
beneficial elements of a relationship
costs
negative elements of a relationship
uncertainty reduction theory
theory that when two people meet, their main focus is on decreasing the uncertainty about each other
passive strategies
observing others in communication situations without actually interacting with them
active strategies
in relationship management, strategies that allow one to obtain information about a person more directly, by seeking information from a third party
interactive strategies
strategies that allow one to obtain information by speaking directly with a person rather than observing or asking others for information
relational dialectics theory
theory that dialectical tensions are contradictory feelings that tug at us in every relationship
dialectical tensions
tensions that arise when opposing or conflicting goals exist in a relationship; can be external or internal
social penetration theory
the theory that partners move from superficial levels to greater intimacy through self-disclosure
communication privacy management theory
explanation of how people perceive the information they hold about themselves and whether they will disclose or protect it
boundary turbulence
readjusting the need for privacy against the need for self-disclosure and connection when there is a threat to one’s privacy boundaries
strategic topic avoidance
when one or both relational partners maneuver the conversation away from undesirable topics because of the potential for embarrassment, vulnerability, or relational decline
turning points
positive or negative events or changes that stand out in people’s minds as important to defining their relationships
initiating stage
the stage of a relationship in which one makes contact with another person
exploratory stage
stage of a relationship in which one seeks relatively superficial information from one’s partner
intensification stage
stage of a relationship in which relational partners become increasingly intimate and move their communication toward more person self-disclosures
stable stage
stage of a relationship in which it is no longer volatile or temporary; both partners have a great deal of knowledge about one another, their expectations are accurate and realistic, and they feel comfortable with their motives for being in the relationship
integrating
the process of relation partners becoming one
bonding
the process of relational partners sharing formal symbolic messages with the world that their relationship is important and cherished
declining stage
stage at which a relationship begins to come apart
repair tactics
ways to save or repair a relationship
termination stage
the end of a relationship; may come about by a gradual decline in the relationship or by sudden death
reconciliation
a repair strategy for rekindling a terminated relationship
conflict
negative interaction between two or more interdependent people, rooted in some actual or perceived disagreement
conflict management
the way we engage in conflict and addresss disagreements with relational partners
unproductive conflict
conflict that is managed poorly and has a negative impact on the individuals and relationships involved
productive conflict
conflict that is managed effectively
provocation
intentional instigation of conflict
taking conflict personally
feeling so threatened by conflict that most disagreements are taken as personal insults or assaults
communication climate
the dominant temper, attitudes, and outlook of relational partners
defensive climate
a communication climate in which the people involved feel threatened or controlled
supportive climate
a communication climate that offers communicators a chance to practice empathy and honestly explore the issues involved in the conflict situation
cyberbullying
multiple abusive attacks on individual targets conducted through electronic channels
trolling
posting of provocative or offensive messages to whole forums or discussion boards to elicit some type of general reaction
escapist strategies
strategies that people use to try to prevent or avoid direct conflict
avoiding
an escapist tactic used to stay away from direct conflict
competitive strategies
conflict styles that promote the interest of individuals who see conflict as a win-lose battle
obliging
an escapist tactic used to stay away from direct conflict
direct fighting
conflict style in which people use assertiveness to argue openly to get their way, which can sometimes lead to verbal aggressiveness
verbal aggressiveness
attacks on individuals, rather than on issues