Family Relationships Flashcards
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ways in which parents affect their children
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- Adult attachment model (their own attachment style)
- Direct instruction (telling kids how to behave)
- Indirect socialization (the way they behave)
- Social management (choosing who their kids interact with)
2
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2 main dimensions of parenting styles
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- Warmth/responsiveness
2. Demandingness
3
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4 types of parenting styles
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- authoritative
- authoritarian
- permissive
- rejecting-neglecting
4
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authoritative parenting
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- High in warmth/responsiveness
- High in demandingness
- Set clear standards for children’s behaviour, but allow children autonomy within their limits (exert behavioural control, but NOT psychological control)
- Pay attention to their children’s concerns
- Consistent and measured in their disciplining of child
5
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effects of authoritative parenting
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- Kids are more competent, self-assured, and popular with their peers
- Kids are better verbalizers
- More prosocial
- Good at academics and in employment
- Low drug abuse and problematic behaviour (both internal and external)
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authoritarian parenting
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- Low in warmth/responsiveness
- High in demandingness
- Enforce behaviour and thinking through parental power (exert both behavioural and psychological control) -> use threats and punishment
- Tend to believe that negative behaviour comes from the child and that positive behaviour comes from external sources
- Engage in psychological control
7
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effects of authoritarian parenting
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- Lower social and academic competence
- Experience more bullying
- Have difficulty coping with stress
- Higher rates of depression, delinquency, and substance abuse (both internal and external)
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permissive parenting
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- High in warmth/responsiveness
- Low in demandingness
- Lenient with their children (little to no discipline)
- Responsive to their wishes and desires
- Don’t require their children to act in socially appropriate ways
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effects of permissive parenting
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- Lacking in self-control
- Exhibit greater externalizing problems
- Have lower academic achievement
- Have worse behaviour and are at increased risk for substance abuse
- Have lower self-esteem (self-esteem based on external approval)
10
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rejecting/neglecting parenting
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- Low in warmth/responsiveness
- Low in demandingness
- Don’t set limits and don’t monitor behaviour
- Focus on their own needs (or other events) and not on children
- May be completely neglectful
11
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effects of rejecting/neglecting parenting
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- Have disturbed relationships with other children
- Exhibit anti-social or problematic externalizing behaviour
- Exhibit internalizing problems such as depression and social anxiety
- Have higher rates of substance abuse and risky sexual behaviour
- Have problems that get worse in adolescence
12
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Diana Baumrind
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- the first to define parenting styles in the 1970’s
- Stated that authoritative parenting is typically best style, and rejecting-neglecting style is the worst
- All styles have effects on child development
13
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cultural differences in parenting styles
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- Info about effects of parenting styles can’t be generalized to the entire population
- Most of these studies were conducted with European-Canadians and European-Americans
- Authoriatrian parenting may look different in other countries and have different effects on child development
- But urban areas outside North America/Europe are beginning to shift towards Western parenting practices
14
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authoritarian effects cross-culturally
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- strictness tends to be higher in other countries/cultures (Everywhere except European-American/Canadians, warmth and strictness go together)
- High strictness predicts negative outcomes in European-Canadian children, but not in Chinese children, Latino children, and African-American children
- – Scolding, shame, and guilt don’t predict negative outcomes in these populations
- – Excessive physical punishment still predicts negative outcomes
- If parental strictness is normative, a higher cultural value is placed on parental strictness
- – Seen as a sign of warmth/protectiveness
- – Suggests that it’s not the strictness itself that predicts negative outcomes, but whether kids feel that they’re being treated differently than their peers
15
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family dynamics
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the way in which the family operates as a whole