Family Love Poetry Flashcards
Give the author and contextual information of ‘Before You Were Mine’.
The author of this poem is Carol Ann Duffy. She wrote this poem as she believed she limits her mother from being who she was meant to be.
What is ‘Before You Were Mine’?
A commentary on the discomfort and harassing nature of female coming of age.
Throughout ‘Before You Were Mine’, what words and phrases contribute to the idea of the discomfort of female coming of age?
“Marilyn” “Ballroom with the thousand eyes.” “Small bites on your neck.” “Cha cha cha”
‘Before You Were Mine’: “Your polka-dot dress blows
round your legs. Marilyn.”
‘Before You Were Mine’: …round your legs. Marilyn.”
“Your polka-dot dress blows
‘Before You Were Mine’: “Ballroom with the thousand eyes,
the fizzy, movie tomorrows the right walk home could bring.”
In ‘Before You Were Mine’, which line does the volta lie in, and what phrase signals it?
The volta lies in line 9, and is signalled by the phrase, “before you were mine.”
‘Before You Were Mine’: “Decade ahead of my loud,
possessive yell was the best one.”
‘Before You Were Mine’: …possessive yell was the best one.”
“Decade ahead my loud,
What does the word ‘relic’ suggest in ‘Before You Were Mine’?
That the mother’s dreams of becoming a star are shattered, an ancient dream.
‘Before You Were Mine’: “I see you,
clear as scent.”
‘Before You Were Mine’: …clear as scent.”
“I see you,
What method is “clear as scent” in ‘Before You Were Mine’?
A synaesthesiatic simile.
In ‘Before You Were Mine’, what dance does the last stanza start with?
“Cha cha cha!”
What is the “Cha cha cha” and what does it reveal?
It is traditionally quite a sexy dance, thus starting the final stanza with the clear image of the mother living a version of her old life, 10 years ago.
‘Before You Were Mine’: “Stamping stars from the
wrong pavement.”
‘Before You Were Mine’: …wrong pavement.”
“Stamping stars from the
‘Before You Were Mine’: “Sparkle and
waltz and laugh before you were mine.”
What real world road does “Stamping stars from the wrong pavement” in ‘Before You Were Mine’ reflect?
The Hollywood Boulevard, the quote reveals that the child is literally stamping on the mother’s dreams, and the mother should be in Hollywood.
Give the author and contextual information of ‘Mother, Any Distance’.
This poem was written by poet laureate, Simon Armitage. He is measuring his new house with his mother, and the poem is an extended metaphor for the moving on that parents have to go through when their child leaves.
‘Mother, Any Distance’: “Distance greater than a single span/
requires a second pair of hands.”