Family Development And Dynamics Flashcards
Bertalanffy’s General systems Theory: general system as any theoretical system of interest to more than one discipline
By Ludwig von Bertalanffy
Studies the structures and properties of
systems in terms of relationship, from which
new properties of wholes emerge
A system is a group of interacting elements
It consists of several individual parts that
are essential and related to one another
There is a desired outcome
GENERAL SYSTEMS THEORY
Virgina Satir, 1972 Peoplemaking consists of: 1. A purpose or goal 2. Essential parts 3. An order to the working parts 4. A means to start the system 5. Power or means of maintaining energy so the parts can work 6. Ways of dealing with changes from the environmen
OPERATING SYSTEM
KINDSOFSYSTEM
Open System
Closed System
Provides for change
Offers choices
Depends on successfully meeting reality for its continuing life
Open System
Provides for very little or no change Rigid Operates through force Most of our social system is a closed system
Closed System
- Purpose or Goal
- Essential Parts
- Order
- A Means To Start The System
- Power/Energy Source
- DealingwithEnvironmentalChange
THE FAMILY IS A SYSTEM
“to grow new people”
“to further the growth of people already
there”
- Purpose or Goal
Parents (adult male & female) Children (male & female)
Essential Parts
Birth order
Roles
Communication style
- Order
sustainance Physical - air, water, food, shelter Through education & exposure to new experiences: o Intellectual o Emotional o Social o Spiritual
- A Means To Start The System
An open & flexible attitude
6.DealingwithEnvironmentalChange
The desired outcome or product is a HEALTHY HUMAN BEING
THE FAMILY IS A “PEOPLE FACTORY”
Physically strong
Mentally alert
Real & honest to self and others o Manifests competence when the situation calls for it o Able to love deeply o Willing to take risks to be creative o Productive o Able to find ways to accommodate what is new and different
A HEALTHY HUMAN BEING
o Self-worth (feelings and ideas about oneself) is high
o Communication is direct, clear, specific and honest
o Rulesareflexibleandappropriate
o Linkage to society is open and
hopeful
Healthy human beings are products of vital or nurturing families where:
Members of a nurturing family:
o Feelitisgoodtobeathome
o Feeltheyarelikedandtrusted
o Feel that they are liked and trust in
return
Good and balanced parents are particularly skillful at and aware enough to:
o Maintainselfhood
o Keep their marriage partnership
alive
Such parents will then have:
o Enhanced ability to nurture their children to grow
o Enhanced ability to channel the pressures in the family network into creative, growth-producing directions
Factors that influence the dynamics of the family are:
o Stages of marriage
o Stages of the family life cycle o Roles o Patternsofcommunication o Roles and patterns of communication always occur in pair
ADULTS AND PARENTS ARE THE “PEOPLE MAKERS”
STAGES OF MARRIAGE
HONEYMOON PERIOD (0-2 years) MIDDLE MARRIAGE (10-25 years) LONG-TERM MARRIAGE (25+ years)
Emotional issues: Commitment to the marriage
Stage-critical tasks:
- Differentiation from family of origin
- Making room for spouse with family & friends
- Adjusting career demands
HONEYMOON PERIOD (0-2 years)
Emotional issues: Post-career planning
Stage critical tasks:
- Adjusting to mid-life changes
- Renegotiating relationship
- Renewing marriage commitment
MIDDLE MARRIAGE (10-25 years)
Emotional issues: Review & farewells Stage critical tasks: - Maintaining couple functioning - Closing or adapting family home - Coping with death of spouse
LONG-TERM MARRIAGE (25+ years)
STAGES OF THE FAMILY LIFE CYCLE
Unattached adult Newly married Childbearing Preschool age child School-age Teenage child Launching Center Middle-aged adult Retirement