Exam 3 Flashcards
Out-group
refers to those individuals in a group who do not feel a part of the larger group
Out-group people may be/feel
may be in opposition or simply disinterested, may feel powerless, unaccepted, alienated, or even discriminated against.
4 forms of out-groups
- Minorities who think their voice won’t be heard
- People who feel their ideas are unappreciated
- People who do not identify with the group
- “Social loafers”: group members who are inclined to goof off or work below their capacity
4 reasons out-groups exist
- People disagree with the social, political, or ethical position of majority—in opposition.
- Some individuals cannot identify with beliefs, norms, or values & as a result do not embrace the dominant group’s reality (Social Identity Theory).
- People feel excluded by the larger group. They do not know where they “fit in.”
- People lack communication skills or social skills to relate to a larger group.
Stages of LMX
Testing and assessment
Development of trust
Creation of emotional board
Typically, the in-groups display
Greater mutual trust
Greater respect
Higher felt obligation
LMX Theory
Leader-Member Exchange Theory
- Leaders should create a special, high-quality relationship with each one of their followers.
- This results in out-group members becoming a part of the group.
6 practical implications of LMX
Avoid highly differentiated groups
Keep membership fluid and dynamic
Maintain different in-groups for different activities
Base in-group membership on performance and potential
Review criteria for in-group membership regularly
Consider culture when determining membership
3 adverse effects of out-groups
Run counter to building community
Have a negative impact on group synergy
Out-group members do not recieve the respect they deserve from others
6 ways to listen to out-groups in practice
Listen to out-group members.
Show empathy to out-group members.
Recognize the unique contributions of out-group members.
Help out-group members feel included.
Create a special relationship with out-group members.
Give out-group members a voice; empower them to act.
Listen to out-group members
More than anything, out-group members want to be heard.
Listening requires that leaders set aside their own biases to allow out-group members to express their viewpoints freely.
When out-group members feel they have been heard, they feel confirmed and connected to the larger group.
Show empathy to out-group members
Similar to listening, but more demanding
An effort to understand the feelings of out-group members
Leader must suspend his or her own feelings to “stand in the shoes” of out-group members
Techniques include restatement, paraphrasing, reflection, & giving support
Recognize Unique Contributions of Out-Group Members
Expectancy Theory: First step in motivation process is to let workers know they are competent in their work. Motivation builds when people know they are able to do the job.
It is common for out-group members to feel like others do not recognize their strengths.
Leaders should identify out-group members’ unique abilities & assets and integrate these into the group process.
Help Out-Group Members Feel Included
Out-group members do not feel as if they belong & need to feel included (Schutz [1966] research on interpersonal need for inclusion)
Leaders include out-group members by:
Responding to their communication cues appropriately
Asking for the out-group member’s opinion
Create a Special Relationship With
Out-Group Members
-Research Study on Out-Groups: LMX Theory
-Special relationships are built on: good communication, respect, trust
-Relationships are often initiated when:
Leaders recognize out-group members who are willing to step out of their scripted roles & take on different responsibilities
Leaders challenge out-group members to become engaged and try new things
Give Out-Group Members a Voice [& Empower Them to Act]
Allow out-group members to be on equal footing with other members of group.
When out-group members have a voice: they know their interests are being recognized and they have an impact
Empowering others to act
Allowing out-group members to be more involved, independent, responsible for their actions
Requires giving up some control & allowing out-group members to have more control
Includes allowing them to participate in the workings of the group (e.g., planning and decision-making)
Mutual agreement is possible in any conflict situation if
people are willing to negotiate in authentic ways
_____ plays a central role in handling conflict.
Communication
Conflict
a felt struggle between two or more interdependent individuals over perceived incompatible differences in beliefs, values, and goals, or over differences in desires for control, status, and connectedness
3 level conflicts occur at
intrapersonal
interpersonal
societal
4 aspects of conflict
struggle
interdependence
feelings
differences
2 dimension of messages
content
relationship
Content dimension of messages
Objective, observable aspects
What the message is about
Ex.: “Please stop texting at work”
Relationship dimension of messages
Indicates how the two parties are affiliated
Determines how the content dimension should be interpreted
2 types of conflict
content
relational
Content conflicts
regarding beliefs and values
regarding goals
Relational conflicts
issues of esteem
issues of control
issues of affiliation
Content conflicts, regarding goals (2 types)
Procedural: how do we reach the goal?
Substantive: what should our goal be?
Esteem
one of the major human needs
Control
the most common interpersonal conflict
-Each of us desires to have an impact on others. Having control increases our feeling of potency and minimizes feelings of helplessness.When we see others hindering us or limiting our control, conflict often results.
Affiliation
the need to feel included in our relationships, to be liked and to recieve affection
Fisher and Ury Approach to conflict
Principled negotiation emphasizes deciding issues on their merits rather than through competitive haggling or excessive accommodation.
Fisher and Ury: 4 principles of negotiation
people
interests
options
criteria
Negotiation principle: People
separate the people from the problem
- able to recognize uniqueness and needs
- mutually confront the problem
Negotiation principle: interests
focus on interests, not positions
position: our stance
interest: reasoning behind position
- address the “real” conflict
Negotiation principle: options
invent options for mutual gains
- we natually see conflicts as win or lose
- brainstorm for win-win
- where do interests overlap?
Negotiation principle: criteria
insist on using objective criteria
- unbiased lens
Differentiation
defines conflict and requires explaining positions
- focus on differences
- early in conflict
Differentiation is useful because
- focuses on conflict
- give credit to both interests
- depersonalizes conflict