Exam 3 Flashcards
love (inclusion)
emotional physical relational (personal, collective) spiritual cognitive
exclusion
familiar versus sexual
incest taboo
The language of love creates ____________
our understand of love
106-135 86-105 66-85 45-65 15-44
extremely passionate passionate average cool extremely cool
What is the two component theory of love?
A state of intense physiological arousal followed by:
Application of a label “love” to that sensation
The emotional component. Closeness, bonding, mutual understanding, sharing
Intimacy
Motivational component. Physical attraction, sexual expression.
Passion
Cognitive component. Short term decision to love, long term decision to maintain relationship.
Commitment
Sternberg’s Triangle.. Draw it bitch
Liking
intimacy
Romantic love companionate love
infatuation - passion commitment - empty love
fatuous love
What is stimulated by norepinephrine and PEA?
the brain
Explain the chemistry of love..
Brain stipulated by norepinephrine and PEA.. Natural stimulant produces feelings of elation and euphoria - can’t eat or sleep.. Body build up a tolerance - may lead to ‘fixing’ on love.
brain stimulated by endorphins, act as tranquilizers. Oxytocin produces during cuddling and physical intimacy..
What often prevents break ups?
Oxytocin
What are some cross culture values/meaning of love?
Individualistic cultures
Collectivist Cultures
Being an effective communicator:
Good messages, levelling, editing
Listening:
Paraphrasing, Validating, Drawing your partner out
Elements of our sexuality that are socially constructed:
Gender, sex, values/morals, expectations, physical pleasure/desire, power/control, love
Compulsive sexual behaviour:
disorder in which the person experiences intense sexual arousing fantasies, urges and associated sexual behaviour
Crane’s four step cycle:
Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive Sexual Behaviour
Despair
Why to people become fetishists according to learning theory?
classical conditioning to an object as sexual
Why to people become fetishists according to Cognitive theory?
perception of arousal is distorted
Why to people become fetishists according to Addiction theory?
Preoccupation
Rituals
Compulsive sexual behaviour
despair
A person who derives sexual satisfaction from inflicting pain on another person:
Sadist
A person who derived sexual satisfaction from experiencing paint:
Masochist
Use of physical or psychological restraints to enforce servitude
Bondage and discipline
The use of power consensually given to control the sexual stimulation and behaviour of other person
Dominance and submission
A person who becomes sexually aroused from secretly viewing a women who is a stranger undressing
Voyeurism.. peepers.
Sexual pleasure is derived from observing sexual acts and the genitals
Scoptophilia
High level of sex drive in women
Nymphomania
insatiable sex drive in a man
Satyriasis
excessive, insatiable sex drive in either man or women.. compulsive sexual behaviour
Hypersexuality
Asphyxiophilia
… arousal and orgasm are intensified by reduced oxygen
disorder found mainly in men; desire to damage or soil a woman or her clothes
Saliromania
Sexual pleasure from contact with feces
Coprophilia
rubbing ones genitals against non consenting person
frotteurism
sexual satisfaction from contact with urine
urophilia
sexual contact with a dead person
Necrophilia
Bestiality; sexual contact with an animal
Zoophilia
what percentage of women over 18 are sexually assaulted by a man since the age of 16?
39%
What section of the charter defines sexual assault?
sexual assault with a weapon?
aggravated?
271
271
273
Are you always legally allowed to consent to sex?
Yes, if you are over the age of 16
venting rage and contempt for women - usually injury the victim, typically does not orgasm
anger rape
focus on control, usually planned, repetitive and increase in frequency. Feels insecure.
Power rape
ritualistic violence, torture and mutilation, heavy use of violent pornography
Sadistic rape
Someone to preform sexual acts on in prison is called what?
punk
5 sexual aggressive heterosexual male tendencies
violent home environment delinquency predatory orientation hostile masculine personality lack of empathy/self centeredness
Who are sex workers?
prostitutes, pornographic models and actors, escorts, phone sex operators
Gigalo vs Hustler
Gigalo - male provide to female.. Hustler male to male
How much is sex tourism worth?
20 billion
something that is offensive according to community standards
obscenity
feminist objections
pornography debases women associates sex with violence glamorizes unequal power relationships structure of industry in problematic gender roles
online dating:
growing proportion is single
career and time pressure
single people highly mobile
workplace romance not always suitable
What are the three criteria for abnormality
bizarreness, discomfort,inefficiency
What is Carnes four step cycle?
Preoccupation, rituals, compulsive sexual behaviour, despair
mark Griffith
Salience, mood modification, tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, conflict, relapse
