Exam 3 Flashcards

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What is deception

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An intentional act in which senders transmit messages to mislead another by fostering false impressions, beliefs, or understanding

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Why do we care about deception?

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Sought after skill to manage relationships

Get what u want

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Why do we deceive?

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Deception can help people get what they want

Deception can be positive or negative
Positive-engagement party secret
Neg- betraying trust

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What are the functions of deception?

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Self-focused motives
Partner-focused motives
Relationship-focused motives

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What are the self focused motives function of deception

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Protecting self image, maintain privacy

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”that assignment was easy”

“Yeah ikr” hasn’t started yet

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Self-focused motives

function of deception

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What is the partner-focused motives function of deception

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Helping someone else, protecting emotions

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What is Relationship-focused motives function of deception

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Avoiding conflict, avoid violating role expectations

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What is the Kashy and DePaulo 1996 study

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Participants lie between 0-42 times a week

Lies happen every day

Most people lie one or two times per day but some people tell more than others

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Serota and Levine 2015

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Small population of high frequency liars

5% of subjects account for more than 50% of lies

Most lies are small but prolific liars are more likely to tell bigger and riskier ones

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What are the theoretical frameworks of deception

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Evolutionary perspective
Leakage hypothesis
Interpersonal deception theory
Four-factor theory
Truth default theory
Self-presentation theory
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What is the evolutionary perspective

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Deception is a survival mechanism to protect ourselves and family

People who are good at telling in detecting lies are biologically favored

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What is the leakage hypothesis?

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Deception is associated with various internal physiological responses like: Heart rate, blood pressure, sweating

Deceivers try to compensate for these physiological responses

Receivers look for these responses

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What is the interpersonal deception theory

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The more positive the relationship, the more we expect to get the truth

Focuses on the sender and receiver

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What is the self presentation theory

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Bolster credibility

Strategic

White lies mostly

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What is the four-factor theory APCD

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Attempted control -attempting to look and sound truthful

physiological arousal -visible and audible signs

cognitive processing- lying is harder than telling the truth, signs of thinking

displays of emotions -concealing or faking emotions

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What is the truth default theory

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Human communication operates under the assumption that the other person is being honest

This makes us vulnerable to deception

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What is the truth bias

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Apart of the truth default theory which states that we have a tendency to believe others are being honest

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Can we detect deception

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  • We believe we are accurate decoders of deception, but we are only slightly better than chance
  • With protection training 55%
  • with Cue-based approaches 53-55%
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What do used to be look for to detect deception?

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 avoiding eye contact, facial expressions, fidgeting, shifting posture, tone of voice, nervousness, vocal pitch, pausing, hesitation, speech errors, faster rate of speech, pupil dilation

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21
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What cues are best to worst at detecting deception?

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  • Vocal pitch and pupil dilation(good)
  • Response latency, illustrators, speech errors(average)
  • Eye contact, smiling, positive shifts, speech rate(not that gr8)
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Burgoon and Proudfoot

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NV cues can detect lies

We may not be good at deception detection because deceivers can adapt to skepticism

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Why are social relationships important?

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Social interactions with others are critical to everyday human functioning, and isolation is one of the most severe forms of human punishment

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24
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Nonverbal behaviors are one of the primary ways we ______ and ______ interpersonal relationships

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Initiate and maintain

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Perspectives of intimacy

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Romantic courtship,
non-romantic courtship,
closeness with strangers and acquaintances,
closeness with well-established relationships

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Courtship behaviors (AAT)

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Approach, acknowledge, talk

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Courtship behaviors: approach

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Getting two people in the same proximity

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Courtship behaviors: acknowledge

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Nonverbal invitation to begin talking, initiating conversation

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Courtship behavior: talk

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Increase in touch and eye gaze, more synchrony in verbal cues

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What are Scheflen’s elements of courtship (RAIP)

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Readiness,
Appeal/Invitation
Positioning

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Scheflen’s elements of courtship: courtship readiness example

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Preparing yourself to have a conversation, standing up straighter

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Scheflen’s elements of courtship: positioning for courtship example

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Putting on lip gloss, fixing hair

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Scheflen’s elements of courtship: Actions of Appeal or invitation example

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Flirtatious glance

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What are quasi-courtship behaviors

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Flirtatious behaviors that are not meant to be taken seriously
Things that seem flirtatious but really aren’t

Ex: teasing

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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship ARRIS

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Attention
Recognition
Resolution
Interaction
Sexual arousal
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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship: attention

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Communicating interest to nonverbally, preening-making us look more attractive

Fixing makeup, hair, clothes

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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship: Recognition

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Responding to interest

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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship: Interaction

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Approaching and talking, synchrony

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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship: Sexual Arousal

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Physical forms of affection, hugging or kissing

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Givens’ Five stages of nonverbal courtship: Resolutions

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Sexual relations 😳

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Cognitive valance theory

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Increase in immediacy behaviors by person a leads to A positive response in person B only if:

  • Person B perceived the immediacy
  • Person A’s behavior causes person B moderate arousal, activating person B’s cognitive schema
  • Person B’s cognitive schema is completely positive
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Changes as relationships developing become committed

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  • To establish a relationship we use a lot of NV behaviors
  • quality>quantity to maintain relationship
  • long-term relationships also model relational characteristics: couple acts the same and looks alike
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43
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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective: metaphor?

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Onion metaphor

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective: Richness

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Greater breadth of communication

Ex: more facial expressions

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective: Efficiency:

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Accuracy of signals, fewer misunderstandings

Ex: decoding emotions that may be misunderstood by others

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective:
Uniqueness

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Less conventional forms of communication

Ex: unique nonverbal messages expressing affection, Being secretive with gestures

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective:
Sustainability

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Flexibility and signaling

Ex: ability to signal romantic interest with gestures, expressions, etc.

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective:
Synchrony

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Interpersonal coordination and sensitivity

Ex:mirroring, speech convergence

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective:
Openness

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Accessibility of self to other

Ex: immediacy behaviors such as proximity, touch, etc.

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective: Spontaneity

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Honest, uninhibited communication

Ex: fewer display rules, less pressure to control NVs

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective: Evaluation

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Judgmental messages and critical feedback indicating desire to change the other
Ex: disapproving facial/vocal expressions like anger or yelling

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How to increase intimacy: a social penetration theory perspective dimensions

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Richness, 
Efficiency, 
Uniqueness, 
Sustainability, 
Synchrony, 
Openness, 
Spontaneity, 
Evaluation
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What are Relational Maintenance Behaviors

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Routine behaviors to increase quality of our relationships

54
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Relational maintenance behaviors

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Positivity, 
Understanding, 
Self disclosure, 
Relationship talks, 
Assurances,
Tasks, 
Networks
55
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Relational maintenance behaviors: positivity

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Bing cheerful and optimistic, practice patience and positivity

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Relational maintenance behaviors: understanding

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Lack of judgment and a forgiving nature

57
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Relational maintenance behaviors: self-disclosure

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Sharing thoughts, feelings, and fears

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Relational maintenance behaviors: Relationship talks

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Discussing the relationship

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Relational maintenance behaviors: Assurances

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Discussions about the future of the relationship and the partner as a meaningful person

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Relational maintenance behaviors: Tasks

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Sharing responsibility and sharing work fairly

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Relational maintenance behaviors: Networks

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Spending time with each other’s friends and family

62
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Extended proxemics zones for an extended period of time, decrease in touching behaviors, minimal eye contact or mutual gaze may suggest that

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Relationship probs exist

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Friendships types

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Cross sex friendships, male friendships, female friendships

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Cross-Sex friendships are

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Platonic male and female relationship, can include uncertain norms for proxemics sounds and haptics, underlying sexual tension

65
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Male friendships

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Task oriented, minimal mom verbal behavior, common interests

66
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Female friendships

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More emotional connection, more nonverbal behavior, social support and open communication

67
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What is stress

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A combination of thoughts and worries which negatively impact the body‘s responses

68
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Stress: emotional

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Stress changes how we feel about certain situations

69
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Stress: behavioral

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Stress can change the way we act, avoidance or extreme behavior

70
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Stress: physical

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Stress can cause noticeable problems in our bodies, eyebags, aching muscles, decreased immune system

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Common sources of stress

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Negative situation, positive situation, personality, secondhand stress

72
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Sources of stress: negative situations

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Stressors

Ex: Exams, finals week, finances

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Sources of stress: positive situations

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Positive things that can cause uncertainty

Ex: Vacation, graduation, jobs

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Sources of stress: personality

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Certain personality traits predispose people to experience more stress, mental health issues

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Sources of stress: secondhand stress

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When people in our lives become stressed, we feel it too

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Nonverbal cues to communicate stress

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Less smiling and facial expressions, bad posture, downward or lack of iContact, slower and less frequent gestures, decreased touching behaviors, less groomed or care about appearance

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Using nonverbal communication to cope with stress

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  • Increased human contact (haptics), positive touch behavior
  • Strategic facial expressions, fake it till you make it
  • Larger proxemics zones, take some time and space
78
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Gottman four horsemen of the apocalypse

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Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling

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Four horsemen of the apocalypse: criticism

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Accusing of wrongdoing or blaming

“ why are you always late?”

Angry face, raising voice, pointing

80
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Four horsemen of the apocalypse: Contempt

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Making others feel worthless, insulting, disrespect

“You’re an idiot”

Eye rolling, smoking, sarcasm

81
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Four horsemen of the apocalypse: Defensiveness

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Feeling attacked, regarding self as the victim

“ here we go again”

Pouting, arm folding, gaze aversion

82
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Four horsemen of the apocalypse: Stonewalling

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Withdrawing from conflict

“ I don’t have to take this.“

Silence, turning away, blank face

83
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How do I escape or avoid destructive behaviors?

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  • Use immediacy behaviors
  • Avoid needless displays of anger
  • Replace nonverbal contempt with validating actions like active listening
  • Use repair mechanisms which are actions preventing negative feelings or behaviors from spiraling out of control
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Appeasement behaviors

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Pacify the other person in a potential or actual conflict leading to reconciliation, display submissive and affiliative behaviors

85
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Anticipatory appeasement

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Prevents conflict with nonverbal acts by showing politeness and shyness

86
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Reactive appeasement

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Reduces conflict taking place with nonverbal‘s by showing embarrassment or shame

87
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How can we become a source of emotional support in six steps?

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  1. Recognize distress
  2. Reflecting feelings (empathy)
  3. Reaching out
  4. Relinquishing control
  5. Reinforcing speech
  6. Rewarding optimism
88
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What is mediated communication?

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Communication that is mediated by a channel or tool to transmit and receive a message
Ex: Email, chats, texting, social media

89
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The cues filtered out perspective

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  • Suggests that we introduce mediated channels, NVC are lost or distorted
  • CMC is always impersonal because it lacks NV cues that make interactions socially and emotionally warm
90
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Social information processing theory

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CMC can be just as good as normal comm

91
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What is bandwidth

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The amount of information that can be communicated at a given time

92
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The hyper personal model

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  • Explains why those communicating with CMC sometimes have superior communication
  • CMC allows us to edit messages with asynchronous communication
  • we selectively present ourselves to manage our impressions
93
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Media richness and nonverbal communication

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Some channels allow for more information and more effective communication than other channels

94
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Chronemics and CMC

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Synchronous- phone or zoom

asynchronous-email, text

response latency- Gap in time between sending and receiving messages

95
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Emojis

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Commas of typed symbols or pictures that convey meaning, can be used to replicate emotions, might accompany words or stand alone

96
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Avatars

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Mediated embodiment and manifestations of human characteristics, viewed as a non-verbal expression of oneself, representative of the symbolic nature of NVC

97
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Social presence

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Identify or connecting with others and reducing psychological distance through technology because original people are seen as actual people

98
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Applications of interactive media and nonverbal communication

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Building personal relationships, pursuing an education, helping those in need

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Nonverbal dangers of CMC

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Nonverbal images could have negative consequences, online is permanent, can damage self-esteem and privacy, catfishing

100
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Perspectives for interpreting nonverbal communication in the workplace

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Functionalist and critical

101
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Functionalist perspective of interpreting NVC in the workplace

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Focuses on practicality of NVC in organizations

102
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Critical perspective for interpreting NVC in the workplace

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Focuses on symbolized meaning of NVC, stresses how NVC is used to Marginalize certain members of the workplace

103
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Space in the workplace

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Spaces in environment influence employees attitudes or behaviors

  • more windows=employee happiness
  • bright and neutral colors increase satisfaction
  • Open spaces create increased communication

Power is reflected in the amount of space each employee has

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Territory: open door policy

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preferred in workplace, honest communication

105
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Territory: closed door policy

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Employees prefer privacy over collaboration

106
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 Time

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Important in American organizations, people get paid hourly, time=commitment and dedication

107
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Touch

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  • Communicates messages in organizations like status in power and sex differences
  • Superiors initiate and control touch behaviors
  • touch behaviors across sexes is negative
108
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Nonverbal communication is the ________ way individuals manage their impressions in the workplace

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PRIMARY

109
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Impression management strategies can be related to:

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Employees perceived efficiency, job promotions

110
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Appearance within organizations

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  • Well dressed=competent

- Looking too good can backfire and be seen as to feminine

111
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Dos for job interviewing

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Respect personal space, look good and clean, even tone, relax, hold pen or notepad if you were unsure where to put your hands

112
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Don’ts For job interviewing

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Weird handshake, poor or too much iContact, out of control gestures, lack of facial expression, poor posture, odd attire, too much perfume, click a pen

113
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How can nonverbal communication substitute for verbal communication?

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Follows the same patterns and models as verbal communication, is more likely to be believed or trusted

114
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What is the largest code in terms of possible cues?

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Kinesics (body movement)

115
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Proxemics

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Changes in interpersonal distance or noticed and result in fight or flight, can be used as threat or affection, intent is determined by other messages

116
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Haptics (touch)

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Physiologically arousing, Noticeable to recipient who tries to determine the intent of the sender

117
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Basic facial expressions

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Surprise
Anger
Disgust
Fear
Interest
Sadness
Happiness
118
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Physical characteristics

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  • Certain aspects can be easily changed to influence messages: hairstyle
  • some aspects aren’t intended to be communicative but are
  • people are judged on appearance which they have little control over
119
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Chronemics

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  • Communication potential is minimal

- Characteristics are more likely to be influenced by individual interaction

120
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Olfactics

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  • Scents can go on a continuum from good to bad
  • we limit in remove biological smells
  • some scents are hormonal and hard to manage
121
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Oculesics

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  • The use of eyes is one of the most important senses for observation
  • eye contact can be ambiguous to receivers
  • meaning is interpreted in relation to other cues
122
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Environment

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  • Focuses on acquiring culturally relevant reactions to a space rather than about shaping the content of a space itself
  • The selection of artifacts can be an exception
123
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How can understanding nonverbal communication increase our communication competency?

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  • help us pick up subtle cues
  • adds to understanding
  • make better decisions
  • insight into diversity of messaging