Exam 2 Units 6-8 Flashcards

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Define commitment

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expectations of a shared future

personal relationships stem from passion, but endure with commitment

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What are relational dialectics?

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Opposing and continuous tensions that are normal in all close relationships

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What are turning points in a relationship?

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move a relationship toward/away from intimacy or change

ex: moving in together, meeting the parents

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Define the second shift

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What is autonomy vs connection

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Relational dialectic

the desire to be both separate and connected

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What is novelty vs predictability

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the desire for both familiar routine and novelty

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What is openness vs closedness

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the desire for both openness and privacy

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What is filtering theory?

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proposes that we use a series of increasingly nuanced filters to determine who we want to become close to

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What is equity theory?

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What are the characteristics of a personal relationship?

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Unique - personal relationships are not replaceable
Commitment - expectations of a shared future, commitment grows out of investment in a relationship
Relationship rules - all relationships are guided by constitutive and regulative rules
Affected by contexts - they are not isolated from the social world
Affected by relational dialectics

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What are strategies for managing relational dialectics?

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Disorientation - we just don’t do anything
Separation - focuses solely on addressing one dialectical tension
Segmentation - involves assigning each dialectical tension to a certain context
Neutralization - attempts to strike a compromise between competing tensions
reframing - transforming the dialectic so tensions are no longer in opposition

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What are the two greatest influences on initial attraction?

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proximity and similarity

people will seek out relationships with similar others - homophily

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What are two challenges facing people in long distance relationships?

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The lack of daily communication about small events and issues
unrealistic expectations about interactions when partners are together

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What are the three main stages of Knapps relational model?

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Escalation - developing a relationship
Navigation - maintaining a relationship
Deterioration - relationships coming apart

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Define emotional intelligence

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the ability to understand and manage one’s own emotions, and be sensitive to others feelings

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Define reappraisal

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involves rethinking the meaning of events to alter their emotional impact

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Define Alexithymia

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difficulty discussing emotions

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What is online disinhibition of self?

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Anonymity with an audience

i.e. youtube comments

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Define emotional contagion

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describes our ability to “catch” emotions from other people

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Define rumination

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involves fixating on negative thoughts/emotions

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What is the rational-emotive approach

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involves changing feelings by unproductive interpretations

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What is emotional agility?

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savor positive emotional experiences
regard challenging situations as growth opportunities
focus on gains, not losses
choose compassion over contempts

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What are psychological indicators vs verbal/nonverbal indicators of emotions?

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psychological - increased heartbeats, rise in BP, increased adrenaline, elevated blood sugar, slower digestion
nonverbal - enger, fear, disgust, happiness, sadness, surprise

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What are facilitative vs debilitative emotions?

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facilitative - contribute to effective functioning

debilitative - hinder or prevent effective performance

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What factors impact whether an emotion is facilitative or debilitative?
duration - how long we spend thinking about an emotion | intensity - stronger emotions are more likely to be debilitative
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Define communication climate
the social and emotional tone of a relationship
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What is interpersonal confirmation?
central to the development of a healthy communication climate Recognition - the most basic form of confirmation, can be verbal or nonverbal Acknowledgment - involves attending to what a person thinks, feels, or says Endorsement - the highest form of confirmation, accepting a persons thoughts or feelings as valid
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What are disconfirming messages?
recognition - lack thereof acknowledgment - when we fail to acknowledge the feelings or thoughts of others, or minimize their importance endorsement - when we reject what others are thinking or feeling as invalid
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What are face-threatening acts
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What is invitational communication?
openly shares your perspective and invites others to do the same
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What are some techniques to minimize defensiveness?
certainty - treats our own position as the only correct one | provisionalism - communication expresses our openness to others ideas and opinions
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What are types of communication that contribute to a supportive communication climate?
``` evaluation vs description control-orientation vs problem-orientation strategy vs spontaneity neutrality vs empathy superiority vs empathy certainty vs provisionalism ***review notes ```
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What is avoidance conflict management?
lose lose | ignore or stay away from conflict
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What is accommodation conflict management?
lose win allow others to get what they want rather than asserting our own POV Culture impacts how this is perceived
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What is competition conflict management?
win lose achieving your goal comes at the expense of others more prevalent in individualistic cultures
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What is compromise conflict management?
negotiated lose lose | both parties are required to make sacrifices, but both parties are not fully satisfied
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What is collaboration conflict management?
win win | find a solution that fully satisfies both parties
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What are the five types of power?
reward - the benefits we offer them coercive - punish for lack of compliance legitimate - made real by position occupied expert - you have knowledge they want referent - obedience based on force of character
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What is gunny sacking?
involves storing up minor grievances until you explode
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What are the four horsemen?
``` The four most destructive forces in relationships according to John Gottman Criticism Defensiveness Stonewalling Contempt - the most destructive **watch video ```
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What are the three I's of conflict?
incompatible - mutually exclusive outcomes interdependence - what i do affects my SO interaction
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What are the five phases of conflict?
latent -when the conditions are present for conflict to occur perceived - we are becoming aware that something is wrong felt - thinking about the conflict, explanations, and solutions manifest - conflict is verbalized, expression of conflict aftermath - consequences of conflict
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What are the two major dimensions of the conflict styles diagram?
Degree of cooperativeness | Degree of assertiveness
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Define relational maintenance
communication that keeps relationships running smoothly and satisfactorily openness, positivity, assurances, social networking, task sharing
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What are the love languages?
``` words of affirmation quality time gifts acts of service physical touch ```
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Describe negative vs positive feedback
negative feedback maintains stability in a system | positive feedback promotes change in a system
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What is holism?
System property | a system is more than the sum of its parts
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What is equifinality?
System property | theres more than just a one way path to success
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What is entropy?
System property | Without new input, a system will die
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Define social support
includes behaviors that "communicate to an individual that s/he is valued and cared for by others"
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What are the components of systems?
systems are hierarchical interdependent permeable
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What is conformity vs conversation orientation in family communication patterns?
conformity - high conformity orientation stresses homogeneity of attitudes, beliefs, and values conversation - high conversation orientation emphasizes free and frequent communication about a variety of topics
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What is the buffering hypothesis?
Social support is most important when we encounter stressful experiences because knowing others are there for us can act as a "buffer" against feeling overwhelmed
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What does a systems metaphor suggest about families?
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What are the four different types of social support? What are the three types of over support?
action-facilitating support - instrumental and informational support, performing tasks or providing info to increase understanding nurturing - esteem or emotional support - making the other person feel valued or important, making an effort to acknowledge and understand what another person is feeling over support - over helping (too much instrumental), over informing (too much informational), emotional contagion (too much emotional)
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What are the three types of love in Sternbergs triangular theory? What is the most complete type of love?
Intimacy, commitment, passion | Consummate love is the most complete type of love
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What are the four types of family communication patterns?
consensual, protective, pluralistic, laissez-faire | ***see diagram
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Define culture
a system of ideas, values, beliefs, customs, and language that is passed from one generation to the next and reflects and sustains a particular way of life
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Define high vs low context culture
where meaning is located in an interaction low - language expresses thoughts, feelings, and ideas as directly as possible high - communication relies heavily on subtle, often nonverbal, cues to maintain social harmony
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What are the individualistic vs collective dimensions fo culture?
individualistic - emphasizes personal goals over group goals - values competition, self-reliance collective - emphasizes group goals over personal goals
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What is the difference between high and low power distance in cultural dimensions?
low power distance - societies minimize the distinction between classes high power distance - values obeying authority and those in power
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What is the high vs low uncertainty avoidance?
high - need clear rules and regulations | low - less threatened by new or unexpected things
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What are the masculine vs feminine dimensions of culture?
masculine - aggressiveness, competitiveness, dominating others feminine - taking care of others, living in harmony
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What is long term vs short term orientation in dimensions of culture?
to what extent do people focus on history/the future (long term) vs the present (short term)
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What is the communication accommodation theory?
our perception of another person being similar to or different from affects our interaction with them convergence - adjusting speech to sound more similar to your conversation partner divergence - adjusting speech to sound more different from your conversational partner
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What is person-centered communication?
person-centeredness can help us interact with members of other cultures without resorting to cultural stereotypes opposite of totalizing
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Define ethnocentrism
the tendency to regard our way of life as normal and superior
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What is cultural relativism?
recognizes that cultures vary in how they think and behave, as well as in what they believe and value
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What is the relationship between culture and communication?
They are mutually influencing