EXAM 2 Flashcards
3 Orientations of Power
Designated, Either/Or, Both/And
Designated
Power by position
Either/Or (Distributive)
Dominance, win/lose, effective vs. distressed system (mostly men)
Both/And Denying Power
Integrative, win/lose (mostly Women)
Relational Theory of Power
Property of social relation, than individual
Interpersonal Power
Ability to influence a relational partner in any context because you control, or at least the partner perceives you Control
4 Power Currencies (R.I.C.E)
Resource Control
Interpersonal Linkages
Communication Skills
Expertise
Resource Control
It’s what you have
Interpersonal Linkages
It’s who you know
Communication Skills
It’s how you interact
Expertise
It’s what you can do
Passive-Aggressive Behavior
Unexpressed anger/refuse to cooperate with people depending on you
Power Imbalances
High/low, nobody wins
Constructive Power Balancing
Too little power vs. too much power
7 Techniques for Balancing Power
Dialogue, Restraint, Interdependence, Calm Persistence, Active Engagement, Empowerment, Metacommunication
Dialogue
Speak positive, listen, reflect, clarify, question and summarize
Restraint
High power parties can limit their power by refusing to use all the currencies they have at their disposal
Interdependence
Low power individuals highlight parties dependencies as a way to balance power…. both can increase sources of power
Calm persistence
Strategy for increasing one’s power
Active Engagement
Speak up, clear belief, values and priorities. Uses emotion, con action and states differences
Empowerment
Third parties are invested with power to intervene on behalf of less powerful people
Metacommunication
Explicitly discusses how we communicate
Conflict Styles
Patterned response & clusters of behavior people use in conflict
Co-dependence
What someone’s does, thinks and feels is dependent upon what someone else does, thinks and feels
Collectivist culture
Community works together
Individualistic Culture
Works individually apart from others
Rahim 5 Conflict Styles
Accommodating (obliging), Integrating, Compromising, Avoiding, Dominating
People who are integrative, compromising and dominating flow from
Engaging with others
People who accommodate (oblige) or avoid reflect the tendency to
Avoid conflict
People who avoid conflict think
Conflict is bad, get nervous in conflict, avoid conflict long, handle it bad
Avoidance
Characterized by denial of conflict, changing and avoiding conflict topics, uncommitted and joking rather than dealing with conflict
Purpose for Avoidance differs across
Cultures
In Collectivistic Cultures, when you avoid conflict others will talk about how to
Heal wounds, make amends and solve conflicts
In individualistic cultures, avoidance is either
Cheered on as not taking shit from others or escalators suggestions are communicated instead
Avoid/Criticize Loop
Avoiding the topic while criticizing another person directly or indirectly
Types of Avoidance Messages
Not speaking, refusing to speak, changing the subject, leaves scene, jokes, laughs/smiles to change the mood or asks questions
Postponement
Emotional content of the conflict is recognized while o5er issues are deferred to at a later time
Dominating
Characterized by aggressive and uncooperative behavior while pursuing your own concerns