EXAM 1 Flashcards
What are the 3 Fundamental Needs?
Competence, Autonomy & Relatedness
What is the difference between negotiation & persuasion?
Persuasion (give someone reasons to do something)
Negotiation (give them concessions)
What are the two systems we have for processing info?
Emotional Brain & Logical Brain
Emotional Brain
Powerful, impulsive, concerned with the now
Rational Brain
Logical, concerned with planning, higher level thinking
80% of your efforts should be directed to
Preparation and research
Principal Negotiation
You make deals based on facts, objective value and standard prices not feelings.
BATNA =
Best Alternative To Negotiated Agreements
When forming a BATNA, you must think of the
ZOPA (Zone of Possible Agreement)
3 things to do when you cannot prepare adequately for a Negotiation:
Cancel, Postpone or borrow research
If you aren’t prepared you might get a
Bad deal OR walk away from a good deal
Specifics to ask yourself before negotiating:
What do they want? What are my Alts? What is an appropriate range of prices? What’s the nature of the relationship? Who are the people affected?
What are issues?
What you want (THE GOAL), ask why or why not
What are Interests?
Why you want it (HOW to reach the goal)
6 Critical Rules to Negotiating:
- No free gifts
- Start high
- Have a concession plan
- Krunch
- Nibble
- Only make agreements in totality
RULE 1. No free Gifts
“I’ll agree to x if…”
- every time yo give you should get
- when someone else wants something see it as an opportunity
- if other side rejects the “if” they must reject the concession too
3 ways to say no
- I’ll agree on x but I can’t agree to y
- Bolkan No
- Japanese No
Bolkan “No”
Do not make the “if” so bad they won’t do it, just bad enough to be worth your time
Japanese “No”
Don’t say no, change it to a “yes, if” then extreme concession
RULE 2: Start High
The most important moment,because it will anchor and define the outcomes
RULE 3: Have a Concession Plan
Have 3 prices aka envelopes
Opening, target & bottom line prices
If there is an overlap between buyer and seller’s envelopes =
ZOPA (zone of possible agreements)
The Rule of Halves
When negotiating concessions, cut values in halves between opening and target. then baby steps
EX: $3000, $2500, $2200,2080
RULE 4: KRUNCH
When someone gives you an offer, instead have them give you another offer rather than giving a counter offer
KRUNCH EXAMPLES
“What else can we do with that?”
“Not what I was expecting, can you do better?”
“Eh anything else?”
RULE 5: Nibble
A concession gained at the very end of a negotiation, right before the deal is closed
RULE 6: Make agreements in totality
Never settle issues one at a time. Instead say “ we are good on that if we can agree on other things too”
Gives you leverage and you can list priorities
Why not start off at a fair price?
Better to start high and work your way to a fair price
Should you accept the other person’s first offer?
No because it is important to build rapport and you might offend the other side by accepting it
Having emotional intelligence of others leads to
Higher trust and willingness to work
Building rapport helps
Establish good relationships and a pleasant first impression
Who should make the first offer?
You should! Make it reasonably aggressive
First offers are one of the best predictors of the
Final price
25% of the initial number offer influences our
Final estimates
If I know the price of something, you can’t anchor me as much as when I
Don’t know
Aggressive first offers hurt:
When shopping on Craigslist or job prospecting with salary
Precise first offers lead to better outcomes because they are seen as more
Plausible and well thought out
Why do first offers work?
Inability to move away from initial frame/anchor, taken as a sign of the true price of a product, allows room for concessions, makes negotiator seem reasonable.
First offers work best when the price is
Ambiguous or vague
Example of a Bracketing Offer
If you want $100
As a Buyer: ask for $80-$100
As a seller: ask for $100-$120
Gives off illusion of flexibility
Making extreme first offers can
Offend people and they can walk away
What happens if the other person makes the first offer?
It can either benefit or hurt you, people tend to fixate on initial number of negotiations
Best Types of Price Range
Bolstering Range (if you want $100,you ask for $100-$120)
Worst types of price ranges
Back Down Range (you want $100, you ask for $80-$100) Bracketing Range (you want $100, you ask for $90-$110)
Dual Concerns
- What I’m getting
2. the others outcome & relationship
5 different approaches to negotiating:
- me+,you- (what I’m getting)
- me-, you+ (other persons outcome)
- me-, you- (don’t care at all)
- me eh, you eh (sorta cares)
- me+, you+ (cares about both)
5 Major Types of Negotiation
- competition/distributive
- Accommodation
- Avoidance
- Compromise
- Collaboration
Competition/Distirbutive
Competes for best concession
Accommodation
Doing what the other side wants
Avoidance
Only good if both agree to it
Compromise
Both sides give up something
Collaboration/integrative
Creates value so both people feel good
Distributive bargaining
Individual bargaining where you compete for scarce resources
Distributive Bargaining primary focus:
Opening Offer: be aggressive
Bottom Line: get to their bottom line
BATNA: strength your envelope
In distributive bargaining it is important to be thought but
Friendly in nature (keep environment positive)
Before you start in distributive bargaining, find out other person’s
Bottom line
Deadlines in negotiation affect both people
Equally (if you have a deadline, share it)
In the offensive stance of distributive bargaining:
- highlight losses (make something seem scarce)
- disaggregate gains, bundle losses (give gains spaced out, combine losses)
- use reciprocity
- make your problem their problem
Defensive Stance in Distributive Bargaining
- prepare
- gain outside opinion
- BATNA
- contingency contacts
Contingency Contract
Make contract to where you can find out if the other person is lying.
Example of contingency contract:
“I’ll take a low salary, but if I perform ata certain level in 5 months, I get a bonus plus a raise.”
When to negotiate distributively:
Never (you should focus on building good rapport and good will) but always
Top concerns in integrative bargaining
Outcomes, others outcomes, relationship, coming up with multiple issues, working together
Myths about integrative bargaining
You need to improve the relationship, you can’t be aggressive, you should compromise, there is a fixed pi
Two important things in integrative bargaining
Separate person from the problem and focus on interests
(Int. Bargaining) Separate person from the problem
Be careful of negative emotions. It prevents you from paying attention, you are less cooperative and less likely to honor the deal.
5 things to do when separating person from the problem
- Give them the benefit of the doubt
- Relax
- reframe situation
- stop negative spiral
- be sensitive to your words
(Int. bargaining) focus on interests
Focusing on interests gives flexibility to meet needs. (ACT LIKE YOU CARE)
should you share interests? YES
4 Common Problems in Intergrative Bargaining
Premature judgement
Searching for a single answer
Thinking their problem is their problem
Not using principled negotiation
3 aspects of finding solutions in integrative bargaining
- Log rolling
- Nonspecific compensation
- Have multiple equivalent Offers
People say yes when
Their needs are met and there is nothing left to get from you
6 Common Objections
Lack of ownership Unmet interests The other party losing face Complexity Too expensive People need more time
Objection 1. lack of ownership
Invent opportunities to provide them with choices (ask questions, ask for feedback)
Objection 2. Unmet Interest
Show people how their outcome will be better with your deal (called relative advantage)
4 types of relative advantages
Economic, social prestige, convenience, satisfaction
Objection 3. When other party loses face
People need to feel CAR (competent, autonomous and respected)
Objection 4. complexity
Just keep it simple
Objection 5. Too expensive
Show the other person the value of your proposal
Objection 6. people need more time
Ask them why they need more time (giving them more time is not good for you)
5 Closing Deal Tactics
- just Ask
- flip a coin
- Commitment (if I solve x issue, do we have a deal?)
- Sweetener (one last concession for the yes, opposite of nibble)
- Exploding offer (limited time only with sweetener)
What are signs that suggest you should be ready to close the deal?
Decrease in objections, person admits that proposal has merit, if person switches from concerns to how it will work, positive comments
In distributive bargaining what do you care about? When is this type of bargaining appropriate?
Care bout my outcome, and it’s appropriate in one time interactions
What does the old brain do for us?
Reptilian brain results in direct behavior that is constant, instant and you can’t control. Exposes us to our 3 fundamental needs
Why can’t Americans negotiate?
There are more options, we are a culture set to shop. We view it as impolite
Are objections to your final position bad?
No, it means they are still with you/the negotiation
Log rolling
Trading issues of importance
Nonspecific compensation
Pay people off