EXAM 1 Flashcards

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What are the 3 Fundamental Needs?

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Competence, Autonomy & Relatedness

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2
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What is the difference between negotiation & persuasion?

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Persuasion (give someone reasons to do something)

Negotiation (give them concessions)

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3
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What are the two systems we have for processing info?

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Emotional Brain & Logical Brain

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4
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Emotional Brain

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Powerful, impulsive, concerned with the now

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Rational Brain

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Logical, concerned with planning, higher level thinking

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80% of your efforts should be directed to

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Preparation and research

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Principal Negotiation

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You make deals based on facts, objective value and standard prices not feelings.

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BATNA =

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Best Alternative To Negotiated Agreements

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9
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When forming a BATNA, you must think of the

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ZOPA (Zone of Possible Agreement)

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10
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3 things to do when you cannot prepare adequately for a Negotiation:

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Cancel, Postpone or borrow research

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If you aren’t prepared you might get a

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Bad deal OR walk away from a good deal

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12
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Specifics to ask yourself before negotiating:

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What do they want?
What are my Alts?
What is an appropriate range of prices? 
What’s the nature of the relationship?
Who are the people affected?
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What are issues?

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What you want (THE GOAL), ask why or why not

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14
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What are Interests?

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Why you want it (HOW to reach the goal)

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15
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6 Critical Rules to Negotiating:

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  1. No free gifts
  2. Start high
  3. Have a concession plan
  4. Krunch
  5. Nibble
  6. Only make agreements in totality
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RULE 1. No free Gifts

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“I’ll agree to x if…”

  • every time yo give you should get
  • when someone else wants something see it as an opportunity
  • if other side rejects the “if” they must reject the concession too
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17
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3 ways to say no

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  1. I’ll agree on x but I can’t agree to y
  2. Bolkan No
  3. Japanese No
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18
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Bolkan “No”

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Do not make the “if” so bad they won’t do it, just bad enough to be worth your time

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19
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Japanese “No”

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Don’t say no, change it to a “yes, if” then extreme concession

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20
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RULE 2: Start High

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The most important moment,because it will anchor and define the outcomes

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RULE 3: Have a Concession Plan

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Have 3 prices aka envelopes

Opening, target & bottom line prices

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22
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If there is an overlap between buyer and seller’s envelopes =

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ZOPA (zone of possible agreements)

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23
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The Rule of Halves

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When negotiating concessions, cut values in halves between opening and target. then baby steps

EX: $3000, $2500, $2200,2080

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24
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RULE 4: KRUNCH

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When someone gives you an offer, instead have them give you another offer rather than giving a counter offer

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25
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KRUNCH EXAMPLES

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“What else can we do with that?”
“Not what I was expecting, can you do better?”
“Eh anything else?”

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26
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RULE 5: Nibble

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A concession gained at the very end of a negotiation, right before the deal is closed

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27
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RULE 6: Make agreements in totality

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Never settle issues one at a time. Instead say “ we are good on that if we can agree on other things too”

Gives you leverage and you can list priorities

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28
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Why not start off at a fair price?

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Better to start high and work your way to a fair price

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29
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Should you accept the other person’s first offer?

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No because it is important to build rapport and you might offend the other side by accepting it

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30
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Having emotional intelligence of others leads to

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Higher trust and willingness to work

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31
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Building rapport helps

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Establish good relationships and a pleasant first impression

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32
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Who should make the first offer?

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You should! Make it reasonably aggressive

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33
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First offers are one of the best predictors of the

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Final price

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34
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25% of the initial number offer influences our

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Final estimates

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35
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If I know the price of something, you can’t anchor me as much as when I

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Don’t know

36
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Aggressive first offers hurt:

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When shopping on Craigslist or job prospecting with salary

37
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Precise first offers lead to better outcomes because they are seen as more

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Plausible and well thought out

38
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Why do first offers work?

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Inability to move away from initial frame/anchor, taken as a sign of the true price of a product, allows room for concessions, makes negotiator seem reasonable.

39
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First offers work best when the price is

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Ambiguous or vague

40
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Example of a Bracketing Offer

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If you want $100
As a Buyer: ask for $80-$100
As a seller: ask for $100-$120

Gives off illusion of flexibility

41
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Making extreme first offers can

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Offend people and they can walk away

42
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What happens if the other person makes the first offer?

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It can either benefit or hurt you, people tend to fixate on initial number of negotiations

43
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Best Types of Price Range

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Bolstering Range (if you want $100,you ask for $100-$120)

44
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Worst types of price ranges

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Back Down Range (you want $100, you ask for $80-$100)
Bracketing Range (you want $100, you ask for $90-$110)
45
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Dual Concerns

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  1. What I’m getting

2. the others outcome & relationship

46
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5 different approaches to negotiating:

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  1. me+,you- (what I’m getting)
  2. me-, you+ (other persons outcome)
  3. me-, you- (don’t care at all)
  4. me eh, you eh (sorta cares)
  5. me+, you+ (cares about both)
47
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5 Major Types of Negotiation

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  1. competition/distributive
  2. Accommodation
  3. Avoidance
  4. Compromise
  5. Collaboration
48
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Competition/Distirbutive

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Competes for best concession

49
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Accommodation

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Doing what the other side wants

50
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Avoidance

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Only good if both agree to it

51
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Compromise

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Both sides give up something

52
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Collaboration/integrative

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Creates value so both people feel good

53
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Distributive bargaining

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Individual bargaining where you compete for scarce resources

54
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Distributive Bargaining primary focus:

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Opening Offer: be aggressive
Bottom Line: get to their bottom line
BATNA: strength your envelope

55
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In distributive bargaining it is important to be thought but

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Friendly in nature (keep environment positive)

56
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Before you start in distributive bargaining, find out other person’s

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Bottom line

57
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Deadlines in negotiation affect both people

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Equally (if you have a deadline, share it)

58
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In the offensive stance of distributive bargaining:

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  • highlight losses (make something seem scarce)
  • disaggregate gains, bundle losses (give gains spaced out, combine losses)
  • use reciprocity
  • make your problem their problem
59
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Defensive Stance in Distributive Bargaining

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  • prepare
  • gain outside opinion
  • BATNA
  • contingency contacts
60
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Contingency Contract

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Make contract to where you can find out if the other person is lying.

61
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Example of contingency contract:

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“I’ll take a low salary, but if I perform ata certain level in 5 months, I get a bonus plus a raise.”

62
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When to negotiate distributively:

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Never (you should focus on building good rapport and good will) but always

63
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Top concerns in integrative bargaining

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Outcomes, others outcomes, relationship, coming up with multiple issues, working together

64
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Myths about integrative bargaining

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You need to improve the relationship, you can’t be aggressive, you should compromise, there is a fixed pi

65
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Two important things in integrative bargaining

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Separate person from the problem and focus on interests

66
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(Int. Bargaining) Separate person from the problem

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Be careful of negative emotions. It prevents you from paying attention, you are less cooperative and less likely to honor the deal.

67
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5 things to do when separating person from the problem

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  • Give them the benefit of the doubt
  • Relax
  • reframe situation
  • stop negative spiral
  • be sensitive to your words
68
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(Int. bargaining) focus on interests

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Focusing on interests gives flexibility to meet needs. (ACT LIKE YOU CARE)
should you share interests? YES

69
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4 Common Problems in Intergrative Bargaining

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Premature judgement
Searching for a single answer
Thinking their problem is their problem
Not using principled negotiation

70
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3 aspects of finding solutions in integrative bargaining

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  1. Log rolling
  2. Nonspecific compensation
  3. Have multiple equivalent Offers
71
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People say yes when

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Their needs are met and there is nothing left to get from you

72
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6 Common Objections

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Lack of ownership
Unmet interests
The other party losing face
Complexity
Too expensive
People need more time
73
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Objection 1. lack of ownership

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Invent opportunities to provide them with choices (ask questions, ask for feedback)

74
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Objection 2. Unmet Interest

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Show people how their outcome will be better with your deal (called relative advantage)

75
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4 types of relative advantages

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Economic, social prestige, convenience, satisfaction

76
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Objection 3. When other party loses face

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People need to feel CAR (competent, autonomous and respected)

77
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Objection 4. complexity

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Just keep it simple

78
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Objection 5. Too expensive

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Show the other person the value of your proposal

79
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Objection 6. people need more time

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Ask them why they need more time (giving them more time is not good for you)

80
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5 Closing Deal Tactics

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  1. just Ask
  2. flip a coin
  3. Commitment (if I solve x issue, do we have a deal?)
  4. Sweetener (one last concession for the yes, opposite of nibble)
  5. Exploding offer (limited time only with sweetener)
81
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What are signs that suggest you should be ready to close the deal?

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Decrease in objections, person admits that proposal has merit, if person switches from concerns to how it will work, positive comments

82
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In distributive bargaining what do you care about? When is this type of bargaining appropriate?

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Care bout my outcome, and it’s appropriate in one time interactions

83
Q

What does the old brain do for us?

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Reptilian brain results in direct behavior that is constant, instant and you can’t control. Exposes us to our 3 fundamental needs

84
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Why can’t Americans negotiate?

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There are more options, we are a culture set to shop. We view it as impolite

85
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Are objections to your final position bad?

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No, it means they are still with you/the negotiation

86
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Log rolling

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Trading issues of importance

87
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Nonspecific compensation

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Pay people off