exam 1 Flashcards
role strain & coping
role strain: stress that comes from trying to balance and “live up” to multiple roles
coping
- transferring resources (either behavioral or cognitive) from one domain to another.
- can be a positive or negative for addressing stress, depending on how it’s utilized.
in a stepfamily, which subsystem has more tension and disagreement surrounding child-rearing?
the stepcouple coparenting subsystem
predictors of infidelity
cheating is a culmination of negative relationship processes
- couple communication !!! most consistent
- others include avoidant attachment, more perceived alternatives, narcissism, neurotic partner
in a stepfamily, which subsystem is likely the least understood?
the sibling subsystem
adaptation vs. resiliency
- adaptation: change of behaviors, thoughts, values, and tendencies in reaction to stress
- resiliency: individuals and families that benefit from stressful events
elements of the ABC-X model
A: stressor event
B: family resources
C: perception or meaning
X: stress or crisis
helen fisher’s model (2016) on love
- sexual drive: motivation to pursue a variety of potential partners (low personal control)
- romantic love: motivation to form a relationship and become exclusive (a little more personal control)
- attachment: motivation to stay in a relationship (higher personal control)
key to level of parenting stress felt
family processes: roles, rituals, communication, and discipline
focal points of stress in the (normative) transition to parenthood
- decision to conceive
- pregnancy
- birth
- adjustment to parenthood
average gender differences
- women more agreeable, men more aggressive
- women more neurotic (threat sensitive)
- women have more interest in people, men more interest in things
- differences in partner preferences and sexual behaviors
- no differences in math ability or IQ more broadly
parenting strategies
- cocooning: shielding and protecting from outside influences
- pre-arming: teaching children to confront outside influences
- deferring: giving children freedom to make their own decisions
types of stress related to every day hassles
- pile-up stress: the accumulation of stressful events and perceptions
- spill-over stress: stressful events from one area of our lives create stress in unrelated areas of our lives
- work-family spillover: stress from work domain spills-over to family domain, bi-directional, especially for working moms
friendship divorce
who gets to keep which friends (including in-laws)?
GOAL: separate couple support systems and rearrange them into individual support systems
boundary ambiguity in step families
- stepparents struggle to find a place
- presence of bio parents complicates issues
- children’s acceptance of stepparents is complicated by loyalty
- favoring biological children
social constructivist model of sexual identity (herowitz & newcomb)
social constructivist
- identity formation is an ongoing two-way process between the individual and social environments
- sexual identity is maintained through social interaction and is fluid, no end point
caregivers of those with physical illness report:
- more depression
- their own health symptoms
- more doctors’ visits
- spiritual and personal growth
divorce rate trend
peak in 1980s, gradual decline since then, low in 2019
trends of stay at home dads
- not regarded highly by others
- like spending time with their kids, but have a hard time interacting with other adults
“essentialist” stage model of sexual identity (herowitz & newcomb)
essentialist
- underlying “real” sexual identity (genetic)
- awareness of identity
- integration of sexual identity into self
stress in family systems theory
- individual stress adds to family stress
- placed on the entire family system, the unit is greater than the sum of its parts
infertility’s influence
- increased stressors: hope-despair cycle, changing life goals, communication problems, comparison stress
- grief of perceived or actual loss
- depression/negative feelings (perhaps especially in women)
likelihood of step families
1 out of every 3 americans is either a step-child, a step-parent, or is involved in a blended/stepfamily some other way
- most common is female parent’s children only
which types of factors are the best predictors of infidelity (allen et al.)
observed communication
virtues “transformative processes in marriage” (fincham et al.)
- forgiveness
- commitment
- sacrifice
- sanctification
how does parental investment differ across adoption context (i.e., international, private, foster)?
(werum et al.)
- higher parental involvement was linked to international adoption
- domestic (private/foster) adoptive parents don’t invest more than regular non-adoptive parents
interventions for families with physical illness
- family systems
- biopsychosocial model (medical, mental health, social, and *spiritual supports)
vulnerability-stress-adaptation model
- daily hassles and adaptive processes have a reciprocal relationship
- adaptive processes and family well-being have a reciprocal relationship
- enduring vulnerabilities and daily hassles have inverse relationships with family well-being, but adaptive processes moderate this relationship
- all variables are situated within the ecological niche and influenced by chance occurrences
trends of maternal employment
- lack of flexible work environments makes things a lot harder for mothers (having to choose between advancing in careers and focusing on family)
- flexible work hours in dual income families can relieve adverse effects
- employed mothers are less disliked when working out of financial necessity rather than personal fulfillment
which subsystem is particularly fragile when a stepfamily is formed?
the stepparent-stepchild subsystem
communication vs. virtues
many marital conflict programs focus only on communication skills, but this doesn’t work on its own.
fincham et al. says that virtues as transformative processes are also needed.
in a stepfamily, which subsystem has the longest shared history?
the parent-child subsystem
what domains of study have focused on boundary ambiguity? (carroll et al.)
- MIA families
- death of a family member
- divorce, remarriage, & stepfamilies
- family illness
the benefits of shifting perspective through mindfulness
- pain doesn’t decrease, but unpleasantness of pain does (shifts the EMOTIONAL APPRAISAL)
- can improve the perception of family realationships
mortality salience
realization of mortality and the inevitability of death
- linked to motivation to repair and improve family relationships
- constraints force us to prioritize the things that matter most to us
gap between parents wanting to adopt and actually adopting
33% want to, 2% actually do
- application process
- finances
- eligibility requirements
- matching prospects
potential causes of rise in child chronic illness (doubled+ since 1994)?
- changes in diet
- physical activity
- media use
- hygiene hypothesis
- changes in adult supervision
3 challenges for mental illness in families
- the challenge of cause and effect
- the challenge of ambiguous disease
- the challenge of the uncooperative member
internal vs. external stress
- internal stress: feelings of anxiety/anxiousness due to perception that change in event/person/source is troubling or challenging
- external stressor: a challenging change in event/person/source that may cause anxiety/anxiousness