Emotional Intelligence Flashcards
blood flows to the hands, making it easier to grasp a weapon or strike at a foe; heart rate increases, and a rush of hormones such as adrenaline generates a pulse of energy strong enough for vigorous action. pg 6
Anger
blood goes to the large skeletal muscles, such as in the legs, making it easier to flee – and making the face blanche as blood is shunted away from it (creating the feeling that the blood “runs cold”).
pg 6
Fear
an increased activity in a brain center that inhibits negative feelings and fosters an increase in available energy, and a quality of those that generate worrisome thought.
pg 6
Happiness
tender feelings, and sexual satisfaction entail parasympathetic arousal- the physiological opposite of the “fight or flight” mobilization shared by fear and anger. pg 6
Love
the lifting of the eyebrows allows the taking in of a larger visual sweep and also permits more light to strike the retina.
Gives more information about the unexpected event; best plan for action? pg 6
Surprise
around the world and expression looks the same, and sends the identical message: something is offensive in taste or smell, or metaphorically so.
Upper lip curled to the side; nose wrinkles. pg 7
Disgust
the main function is to help adjust to a significant loss, such as the death of someone close or a major disappointment. It brings a drop in energy and enthusiasm for life activities, particularly diversions and pleasures, and, as it deepens and approaches depression, slows the body’s metabolism. pg 7
Sadness
In a very real sense we have two minds, one that
_____ and one that _____. pg 8
Thinks / feels
________ mind is the mode of comprehension we are typically conscious of: more prominent in awareness, thoughtful, able to ponder and reflect. pg 8
Rational
______ mind is another system of knowing: impulsive and powerful, if sometimes illogical. pg 8
Emotional
The great bulb of convoluted tissue that makes up top layers of the brain. Known as the “seat of thought” or the “thinking brain.”
pg 9
Neocortex
Looks like a bagel with a bite taken out of it.
pg 10
Limbic system
Limbic system has two powerful tools:
pg 10
Learning and memory
3 basic life functions regulated by the root brain:
-Breathing
-Metabolism of body’s other organs
-Controlling stereotyped reactions and movements
A high-jacking or “neural takeover” (sudden anger or laughter) originates in the:
Amygdala - The center of the limbic brain
-If the amygdala is severed from the rest of the brain, the result is a striking inability to gage the emotional significance of events; this condition is sometimes called
Effective blindness
The _____ acts as a storehouse of emotional memory, and thus of significance itself; life without the _____ is a life stripped of personal meaning.
Amygdala
Sensory signals from the eye or ear, travel first in the brain to the _____.
thalamus
A reaction based on neural bits and pieces of sensory information that have not been fully sorted out and integrated into a recognizable object.
precognitive emotion
This area of the brain brings a more analytic or appropriate response to our emotional impulses, modulating the amygdala and other limbic areas.
neocortical
Nerve running from the brain to the adrenal glands atop the kidneys; triggers a secretion of hormones epinephrine and norepinephrine (surge through body priming for emotion)
Vagus nerve
Mistaking an emotional ache for a physical one. Observed in Alexithymics:
somaticizing
According to Diane Tice, what mood are people worst at controlling?
Anger
care and intelligence in conducting one’s life; a tempered balance and wisdom
sophrosyne
Anxiety comes in two forms:
Cognitive – worrisome thoughts
Somatic- physiological symptoms of anxiety; sweating or heart racing.
Borkovec discovered 3 simple steps that can help even the most chronic worrier control the habit:
Self-awareness
Relaxation methods
Actively challenge the worrisome thoughts
The single mood people generally put most effort into shaking is:
Sadness
The authors focus was the more common (scientific) version of sadness. Ordinary melancholy or as he called it:
pg 63
subclinical depression
The inability to feel emotion - cousins of alexithymics; buffers against negative feelings; unaware of negativity. Rather than calling them repressors, the more apt term might be:
pg 67
unflappable
When emotions overwhelm concentration, what is being swamped is the mental capacity conginitive scientists call
______ ______, the ability to hold in mind all the information relevant to the task at hand. pg 71
Working memory
The marshaling of feelings like enthusiasm and confidence to enhance achievement. Olympic athletes; world class musicians; chess grand masters. pg 71
Positive motivation
The root meaning of the word emotion, is:
pg 72
To move
A mildly elated state that demands fluidity and imaginative diversity of thought. optimal for writers and others in creative callings. pg 76
hypomania
being in a foul mood biases memory in a negative direction, making us more likely to contract into a fearful, overly-cautious decison. Emotions out of control impede the ________. pg 77
intellect
A study that compared students of equivalent intellectual aptitude on their academic achievements, one thing set them apart: pg 78
hope
Believing you have both the will and the way to accomplish your goals, whatever they may be.
pg 78
hope
The belief that one has mastery over the events of one’s life and can meet challenges as they come up. More willing to take on the risk and seek out more demanding challenges. pg 80
Self-efficacy
For all rapport, the root of caring, stems from _____ _______, from the capacity for empathy. pg 86
emotional attunement
The key to intuiting another’s feelings is in the ability to read ______ ______: Tone of voice, gesture, facial expressions etc. pg 86
non-verbal channels
PONS - A test of Empathy. pg 86
Profile
of
Non-verbal
Sensitivity
One rule of thumb used in communications research, is that ____ % of an emotional message is non-verbal. pg 87
90% (or more)
Empathy stemmed from physical imitation of the distress of another. Commonly seen in toddlers. pg 88
motor mimicry
_____ occurs tacitly, as part of the rhythm of relationship; between a mother an her baby; lovers responding to each other. pg 90
Attunement
John Stuart Mill describes the “natural feeling of retaliation rendered by intellect and sympathy applicable to those hurt which would wound us by wounding others. pg 94
empathic anger