Crucial Accountability Flashcards
People who struggle in the same circumstance as others but find a way to produce remarkably better results.
(pg 10)
Positive deviants
How to know what conversation to hold and if you should hold it. Two questions that you have to answer before you open your mouth:
(pg 18)
What - What violation or violations should you actually address?
If - You have to decide if you are going to say anything.
What may be the most important concept covered in this book?
(pg 18)
What you should discuss.
CPR Stands for:
(pg 24)
Content
Pattern
Relationship
The content of a violated expectation typically deals with:
(pg 24)
A single event
_____ issues acknowledge that problems have histories and that histories make a difference. (pg 24)
Pattern
Path to Action Model
(pg 50)
See and hear / tell a story/ feel / act
Assuming that others do contrary things because it’s in their makeup or they enjoy doing them and then ignoring any other potential motivational forces. (We assume the worst) (pg 52, 53)
Fundamental Attribution Error
When you see a violation but move to silence rather than deal with it, 3 bad things happen:
(pg 54)
- You give tacit approval to the action.
- Others think you’re playing favorites
- Subsequent offenses cause festering.
Three consequences of violence:
(pg 55)
1.You become hypocritical, abusive and clinically stupid.
2. You turn the spotlight on yourself.
3. The stories we tell help us justify our worst behavior.
6 Sources of Influence:
(pg 60)
- Personal Motivaiton
- Personal Ability
- Social Motivation
- Social ability
- Structural Motivation
- Structural Ability
6 Sources of Influence: When considered alone, this makes up the fundamental attribution error. People base their actions on their individual motivation or disposition.
(pg 60)
Personal Motivation
6 Sources of Influence: Does he or she have the skills, knowledge, or capability to do what has been asked? Are they motivated? Are they able?
(pg 61)
Personal ability
6 Sources of Influence: Is the other person being influenced by peers, the boss, or any other human being? The presence of others who say nothing causes them to doubt their own beliefs, and their desire to be accepted taints their overall judgement. Social pressure is the mother of all stupidity. (pg 62)
Social Motivation
6 Sources of Influence: Your coworkers have to provide you with help, information, tools, materials, and sometimes permission. If coworkers don’t do their part, you’re dead in the water. Are you contributing to the problem? (pg 63)
Social Ability
6 Sources of Influence: Not always obvious. Affected by non-human factors. Don’t intuitively turn to the environment, Often miss the impact of equipment (or lack there of.) Mostly surrounds money. (pg 65)
Structural Motivaiton
6 Sources of influence: “things” can often provide either a bridge or a barrier. Individuals who are located close to one another bump into each other and talk. Gadgets. (pg 66)
Structural ability
A difference in what you expected, and what actually happened. (pg 76)
Gap
Saying something complimentary, bring up the problem, then close with a compliment:
(pg 77)
Sandwiching
How to describe the gap:
(pg 81)
Start with safety
Share your path
End with a question
Start with Safety - People feel unsafe when they believe one of two things:
(pg 81)
- You don’t respect them as human beings (lack of mutual respect)
- You don’t care about thier goals (lack of mutual purpose)
A preemptive tool for stopping disrespect in its tracks:
(pg 85)
Contrasting - The killer of the fundamental attribution error