Emens Flashcards
Five Principles of Polyamory
- self-knowledge
- radical honesty
- genuine consent
- self-possession
- privileging love and sex
Self-knowledge
knowing oneself and emotions
consider one’s identity, recognizing and interrogating emotions like jealousy
Radical Honesty
definitional to polyamory, openness about relationships
Consent
consent needs to explicit and detailed, deliberate negotiation
Self-possession
priority of autonomy, rejection of a “we-identity”
about the self, not the “we”, making one’s own decisions
Privileging Love and Sex
loving more people is better than loving fewer, engaging in various sexual relations
Polyamory
we choose and nurture love through deliberate action
no form for the concept of grand passion
no room for the concept of a soulmate]
love needs to be negotiated (deliberate quality)