Aristotle/May

Question 1

Ideal Relationship

Answer 1

philia, relationship between equals who share the same virtues, best versions of ourselves

Question 2

Goal of Philia

Answer 2

To facilitate a flourishing life

Question 3

Characteristics of Philia

Answer 3

other-oriented, unselfish and symmetrical

conditional on the beloved being virtuous

only a virtuous person will recognize and desire virtue in another

Question 4

How is Philia Expressed

Answer 4

expressed through activities central to an individuals values/life

must be one’s main relationship; may not be compatible with another close second relation

Question 5

Self-Knowledge and Self-Love

Answer 5

Self-Knowledge: view ourselves reflected in the other; other person is a “second self”

Self-Love: increases our self-esteem; see ourselves through the esteem the other has for us

Question 6

Simon May

Answer 6

Translate Aristotle’s views into contemporary marriage

Marriage involves the same ideals Aristotle places on Philia

Marriage: relationship between equals with shared values and aspirations, revolves around shared activities