EI and DISC Flashcards
What is IQ?
Your cognitive/intellectual intelligence
Is IQ static or dynamic?
Static; you can’t change it all that much
When does IQ peak?
17 years old
What does IQ stand for?
Intelligence quotient
What is personality?
The enduring characteristics that describe your behaviour (funny/shy/outgoing/etc.)
Is personality static or dynamic?
Static; you are born with it and you can’t change. However, you can be aware of it and work with it
When does personality lock in?
5 years old
How are EQ, IQ, and personality related?
They all impact each other but are unique from each other; they all work together to make up the person that you are
What is EI in simple terms?
Emotional intelligence is a set of emotional and social skills that influence the way we perceive and express ourselves, develop and maintain social relationships, cope with challenges, and use emotional information in an effective and meaningful way
What are the three major elements that make up EI?
Perceiving, understanding, and regulating emotions
Is EI static or dynamic?
Dynamic; it will go up throughout your life (even if you’ve never heard of EI). BUT if you are aware of it, it will go up faster and higher
What are the three major measures of EI?
- MSCEIT
- EQi
- ECI
Which measure of EI was the first to be scientifically validated and is the most widely used?
EQi
Who designed the MSCEIT?
Peter Salovey and John Mayer
Who designed the EQi?
Reuven Bar-On
Who designed the ECI?
Daniel Goleman
What does ECI stand for?
Emotional Competence Inventory
How does happiness affect the EQi score?
It is outside and different from the EI test, but it is an overall indicator that checks in on your well-being
In what ways does happiness affect your EQi?
- Self regard
- Optimism
- Interpersonal relationships
- Self-actualization
What are the five composite scales of EQi?
- Self perception
- Self-expression
- Interpersonal
- Decision making
- Stress management
Describe self perception
Whether you have a solid understand of your emotions; if you are connected to what’s happening and what you are feeling
Describe self-expression; what does it allow you to do
Good self-expression allows you to communicate and express your emotions
Describe interpersonal
If you can communicate your emotions and what you are feeling, you are more likely to be able to balance your relationships. It’s hard to develop healthy balanced relationships if you don’t balance your emotions very well
Describe decision making
When you have established healthy balanced relationships, that provides you with a network. Those relationships are a resource; they provide you with information, and they are your sound board. When you have those relationships in place, you improve your decision making because you improve your confidence in your decisions when you have more information to draw on
Describe stress management
When you are more confident in your decision making, you are less stressed. You know that you can handle the decision-making process
Are the five components linear or circular?
Circular; they all affect and flow into each other
What is the difference between self regard and self-esteem?
Self-regard means that you understand your strengths/weaknesses and you accept both
Self-esteem is your confidence in your own worth/abilities
What is the difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness?
Assertiveness is good; it means that you can communicate and defend your position. You don’t let someone else walk over you, but you are doing so in an effective way instead of a negative way
Aggressiveness is when you get your point across, but in a destructive, critical way
What is the difference between empathy and sympathy?
Empathy: you understand how someone is feeling and you can put yourself in their shoes. You don’t have to agree with what they are feeling, but you can appreciate what they are feeling.
Sympathy: when you tend to share their emotion. When the feelings or emotions of one person give rise to similar emotions in another person
What is the difference between impulse control and spontaneity?
Impulse control: when you can delay/resist temptation. A positive attribute, but that doesn’t mean that you are boring/not spontaneous. You can be spontaneous without negative consequences
Spontaneity: making decisions before thinking about the consequences
What does a low score mean on an EI test?
An opportunity to improve
Why are low EI scores an opportunity?
You can develop the things that you are not as strong at
What is the Rule of 10?
The Rule of 10 is an imbalance in your EI results; if two of the subcategories are off by a difference of ten or greater, it can cause problems
Give an example of a combination of subcategories that might cause problems if the Rule of 10 is met
High assertiveness and low impulse control can lead you to speak your mind when you shouldn’t
How do you measure IQ?
IQ tests
How do you measure personality?
DISC