Dinim Test - Loshen Horah, revenge and bearing a grudge[2] Flashcards
Translation לא תלך רכיל בעמך
Don’t go as a pedal amongst your nation
How is a person who speaks רכילות like a peddler?
Because they got from place to place listening to evil information
What does רכילות causes (quote)
According to the kitzur it could cause killing
Wich is worse - Loshen Horah or Revchilus
לשן הרע
Loshen Horah
Why do think this in this case?
Because Loshen Horah is saying something bad about someone that is true
What is the definition of
לדן הרע
מוציא שם רע
. Loshen Horah - something negative about someone which is true.
. מוציא שם רע - something negative but not true
How far can we of for Loshen Horah?
Something could be taken positively or negatively example. Where can I find wood for a fire and then asks another man answers at so are so they’re always cooking you can look you can look at this in two ways one way could be negatively luck they are so greedy I like the way could be positively like that always having guessed and cooking
What is אבק לשון הרע
Something that can be taken positively or negatively.
Why can praise sometimes be considered אבק לשון הרע
Because I can cause other people to talk Loshen Horah
Joking And foolishness can lead to Loshen Horah
Even if you include yourself ____________
It is still Loshen Horah
Any speed that can cause harm is included in the category of _______1.
Eg. Tell someone’s parents of what their child did and they will get punished
- Loshen Horah
What should a person do to avoid Loshen Horah?
If he is Talmud Chochom he should get involved in his learning and if is a worker he must increase his learning
Which four categories of person do not receive the Shechina?
- Mocking
- Flattering
- Liyer
- Loshen Horah
4 - 1
נקימה
Revenge
. 4 - 1
This is a mitzva _________1. mitzva from the Torah
לא תקים
- Lo taser
4 - 1
Give an example
If your friend asks if she can use a pen and you say no and the next day you ask your friend for a pencil your friend should give you one with a happy heart
4 - 1
How can a person be hate instead
She should lend his pen to you with a happy heart and not do revenge
4 - 1
What should a person do if you really want to take revenge?
Hey so try and work on his own middos and when his enemy hears his good name will be upset
4-2
נטריה
This is a __________2 mitzva from the Torah
לא תראה…
Bearing a grudge
2. לא תעשה
Explain with a sample what is נטירה
Bearing a grudge is thinking of bad thoughts of his friend example you ask a friend to borrow a pencil and she says no the next week your friend asked you and you say you can borrow my pencil not like you did to me