Development in Adulthood Flashcards
Important societal changes
- important changes in Australian society and globally
- rise in the ages of entering marriage and parenthood driven by
o tolerance for premarital sex in the context of committed and loving relationship
o increase in the years devoted to pursuing education and training
o changing roles of women
o rise in earnings, but also in living costs
Emerging adulthood
- a distinctive developmental stage?
- Age range of 18-25 (29) years
- Intense identity explorations in the areas of work, love and worldviews
- Subjectively and demographically distinct developmental stage
- Might be a distinct phase in western, post-industrial societies, but not necessarily culturally universal
Developmental features of emerging adulthood
- The age of identity explorations
- The age of instability
- The self-focused age
- The age of feeling in-between
- The age of possibilities
Development in adulthood
- Characterised by variety of experiences
- Influenced significantly by cultural, social and personal factors
- Theories of adulthood focus on common elements in diverse experiences – two basic psychological needs, to love and to work
- Three important developmental transitions
o Couple relationships
o Parenthood
o Career - Social expectations about these create an internalised social timetable
- Social clock
o On time – following the social timetable
o Off time – out of phase with peers
Adult attachment
- Attachment style applicable across the lifespan
o Adult’s current view of early attachment relationships is a good predictor of current attachment style and relationship quality
o Distribution of attachment styles similar to infant attachment - Infant attachment predictive but not 100% determinant of adult attachment style
- Adult relationship experiences also influential
Model of self: Secure
Secure attachment history
Healthy balance of attachment and autonomy; freedom to explore
Model of self: Preoccupied
Resistant attachment history
Desperate for love to feel worthy as a person; worry about abandonment; express anxiety and danger openly
Model of self: Dismissing
Avoidant attachment history
Shut out emotions; defend against hurt by avoiding intimacy, dismissing the importance of relationships and being ‘compulsively self-reliant’
Model of self: Fearful
Disorganised-disoriented attachment history
Need relationships but doubt own worth and fear intimacy; lack a coherent strategy for meeting attachment needs
Changing family context
- Decrease in marriage rates
- Increase in cohabitation before marriage
- Increase in divorce rates
- Increase in lone parent families
- However, majority of children still live in ‘intact’ families
- Increase in average age of first parenting
- Decrease in number of children per woman
- Increase in number of children born outside marriage
- Increase in maternal employment
- Increase in average maternal employment level
Transition to parenthood
People choose to have children for a variety of reasons
- a major life transition – no other transition is as abrupt and complete
- but no or little preparation
- positive and negative changes
o disrupted routine – family, work, social
o fatigue
o roles become more traditional
o sexual relationship deteriorates
o conversation decreases
o fathers withdraw, spend more time at work
Family Life Cycle: Stage 1
Beginning families
Transition to parenthood families
Families with preschoolers
Family Life Cycle: Stage 2
Families with school-aged children
Families with adolescents
Family Life Cycle: Stage 3
Families as launch centres
Empty-nest families
Family Life Cycle: Stage 4
Retirement