daily Flashcards

1
Q

What’s the tendency to find supporting info?

A

Confirmation bias

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2
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Seths 6 sales

A

Reaper

Avoid risk
Avoid hassle (ease)
Gain praise (applause)
Gain power
Fun (enjoyment)
Profit (roi)

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3
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LEAP

A

Listen
Empathize
Alternatives
Proof

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4
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Strengths vs interests vs paid

A

Strengths and interests - learn to monetize

Strengths and paid - learn to say no and shift to more interesting

Paid and interested - learn to improve

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5
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10 coaching steps

A

Want
Why
At
How
Learn
Think
Environment
Who follow
Chokes
Actions

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6
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Quick traffic blog idea

A

Take popular blog
Build a useful list or tool to action it
Link to them
Email them it
Ensure got capture bait

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7
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A great Q against idea of gender pay gap?

A

If women cost less for same, why aren’t all businesses filled with women?

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8
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simple way of describing depression

A

You can’t imagine any future. It’s the opposite of vitality.

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9
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main difference between men and women

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Men excel at systematisation women are better at empathy. men like things women like people.

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10
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there are more men in

A

prison, violent crime victims, suicides, failing at school, dying in wars

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11
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conflate

A

combine 2 sets of info

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12
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main problem with religious texts

A

you can’t edit them and they’re not the best that humanity can do!

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13
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intelligence is being …

A

able to see things - truths - that others cannot

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14
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2 main types of Islam

A

Sunni Vs shia

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15
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how do you get a salesman to stop working?

A

Put a phone in front of him

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16
Q

The most expensive thing you can do in sales is

A

Spend time with the wrong prospect

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17
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BMN - one person increased own sales profit by…

A

incredible 35% in month after

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18
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BMN - gross company profit up

A

18% a month or so on

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19
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Ember: ______ growth since working with me

A

30% growth

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20
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world population

A

7.7 billion

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21
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population UK

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66 million

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22
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population Australia

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25 million

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23
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population Romsey

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20k

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24
Q

Accept…

A

And love what happens

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25
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Whatever happens is like…

A

a doctor’s prescription for us. Take it. use it.

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26
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Act..

A

purposefully and mindfully

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27
Q

when something bad happens, say..

A

In my future I’ll be so glad that happened because it led to me doing this…

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28
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the reserve clause: I’ll do XYZ..

A

IF nothing stops me!

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29
Q

the story of the Chinese farmer in 4 points

A
  1. horse runs away :( maybe
  2. returns w 5 :) maybe
  3. son falls off :( maybe
  4. son conscripted to army but can’t :) maybe
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30
Q

What stands in the way…

A

becomes the way

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31
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nothing is permanent. it’s like..

A

a wave you ride that runs out

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32
Q

I will die. So..

A

Do best I can

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33
Q

You don’t own anything. why?

A

it’s all borrowed! (ESP coz you’ll die)

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34
Q

Solve all negativity by…

A

Removing all expectations. What will he will be.

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35
Q

Voluntary discomfort:

A

Poverty and forego pleasures.

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36
Q

role model

A

the stoic sage

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37
Q

Even if others don’t play their roles well..

A

play your own roles well

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38
Q

Eliminate..

A

the non-essential

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39
Q

Eliminate need for fame. Why?

A

It enslaves you to others. You must not annoy them etc

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40
Q

Be

A

minimalist

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41
Q

Freedom is not achieved by satisfying desire but…

A

by eliminating it

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42
Q

Rather than wanting more..

A

Put to better use what you have

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43
Q

Take back your..

A

Time!

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44
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It is better to understand the balance sheet of one’s own life…

A

than of the corn trade - Seneca

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45
Q

Choose courage and calm over

A

Anger. it’s manlier!

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46
Q

Problems arise from mis-met..

A

expectations

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47
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You don’t give your body away to others so don’t give away your..

A

mind

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48
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History repeats itself and you can survive because…

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your ancestors did! they’re solid and rock hard genes!

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49
Q

Meat is dead animal. wine is..

A

Fermented grapes.

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50
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Marcus Arelious what brings no benefit to the hive brings …

A

nothing to the Bee

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51
Q

Foolish people - don’t get angry at them…

A

pity them

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52
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Stick to your new path, but don’t…

A

abandon others

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53
Q

Buy..

A

tranquility

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54
Q

Don’t perform for others with stories!

A

Let them talk

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55
Q

Elevator intro

A

I help non-sales people learn how to sell.

I help team leaders to improve the sales performance of their people

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56
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Value prop

A

I help teams of non-sales people to measurably increase sales and have helped companies improve profit by 20-30% in the months following my work

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57
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USP

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USP: Engineers, learning expert, UK, non-sales, tech minded, resistant types and underperformers

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58
Q

I don’t HAVE to do this, I…

A

CHOOSE to do this!!

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59
Q

Great way to eliminate fear and anxious thoughts?

A

Think of the thing, then step inside it and become the fear or the source of anxiety! Be it. It dissolves.

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60
Q

3 best meditations

A
  1. 54321
  2. Lengthen time it takes to have next 10 thoughts and hang them on pegs
  3. Internal head scraper to scrape out fuzziness
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61
Q

When people text

A

Text back in less words

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62
Q

Name for highest impact area?

A

HIA

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63
Q

You’re almost as atheist as me…you don’t believe in 2999 Gods..that’s just..

A

..one less than me

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64
Q

If God is the creator …

A

Who created him?

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65
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If God created the world why did he..

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..wait only until 4.5 billion years ago?

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66
Q

If we burned every book on earth…

A

..the science books would come back but the religious ones would not

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67
Q

Amazing that everyone is born into the

A

Right God! If USA it’s Christian, if Indian it’s Hindu etc

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68
Q

Why is tik tok not good?

A

Over three months, BBC Trending collected hundreds of sexual comments posted on videos

Because the main reason she wants it is simply because her friends do. And that’s not particularly helpful reasoning.

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69
Q

4 main sales traits

A

Belief in cause
Desire to learn
Gets things done
Credible infront of clients

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70
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How to sell to smart people in 4 steps.

A
  1. Say things they agree with (he’s right!)
  2. Listen to what they say about the prob you’re an expert to fix
  3. Disagree with them. Create tension. Give proof.
  4. Dangle the solution

REVOD!

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71
Q

There’s a big problem when…

A

people think they’re not the problem

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72
Q

German flag

A

Black red yellow horizontal

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73
Q

Belgian flag

A

Black yellow red vertical

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74
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The 27 word persuasion sentence?

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People will do anything for those who
encourage their dreams,
justify their failures,
allay their fears,
confirm their suspicions
and help them throw rocks at their enemies.

Aka MAKE THEM STRONG and BELIEVE!

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75
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How to stop a whinger…

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…if whingeing about X people, ask them, what EEFORT OF YOURS does blaming them EXCUSE YOU FROM DOING and ask “so what do you want X to do, exactly?”

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76
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How to spot someone guilty?

A

Innocent people tend to just convey info whereas guilty try to convince

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77
Q

Make decisions that ultimately give you…

A

… peace of mind

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78
Q

Take charge and

A

Do the right thing

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79
Q

What’s the best way to make a hit?

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Build something for the smallest possible viable audience that’s so good they tell their peers

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80
Q

3 tips to keep kids of social media

A
  1. No phones in bedroom
  2. 16 years +
  3. Ask them how many hours a day is reasonable then stick to it
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81
Q

SM sites are

A

Engines of manipulation that mine us then manipulate us to achieve THEIR goals detracting us from ours.

Dead tree is worth more than alive
Dead whale is worth more than alive
Humans deadened by social media are worth more than “alive”

The robots (algorithms) are already controlling us!

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82
Q

When you feel like criticising…

A

F. Scott Fitzgerald at the beginning of The Great Gatsby: “Whenever you feel like criticizing anyone, just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had.”

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83
Q

Love is spelt

A

love is best spelled T-I-M-E

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84
Q

Competition is for…

A

“Competition is for losers.”

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85
Q

Great way to make an excuse….

A

“I have a rule that…”

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86
Q

Heraclitus said, “No man steps in the same river twice.”

A

The second time around, both man and river are different

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87
Q

Make before you…

A

..manage

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88
Q

Jason’s birth year

A

1970

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89
Q

You can F that!

Turned…

A

Sky high!

Arse ways…

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90
Q

“Results are obtained by..

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..exploiting opportunities, not by solving problems.” - Peter F. Drucker

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91
Q

The best revenge is…

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…living well

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92
Q

there’s two things in life you should never worry about; …

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….things you can do something about, and things you can’t.

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93
Q

“The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more….

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…but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.” - Socrates

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94
Q

Why do people believe conspiracies?

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Can’t see what smarter can
Human brain craves completion
Fear, victims, lack of feelings of control
Creates feeling of control of choosing rather than accepting
Confirmation bias
Believing simple things that don’t make sense
Eg ghosts.

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95
Q

Face like a …

A

…glass blowers anus

…corpses shoe

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96
Q

Increase confidence by…

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…. being fully confident that you’ll do your best. Then deal with the outcomes.

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97
Q

The problem with racing to the bottom is…

A

You might win. Then stay there. Or come in second failing on all accounts!

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98
Q

Normal batteries AA and AAA should be..

A

1.5V

Throw if <1.3V

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99
Q

Rechargeables AA and AAA should be…

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1.25V

Charge if lower!

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100
Q

“What you think is attainable is just a…

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..function of what you know at the moment.”

“If you limit your goals to what you know you can achieve, you are setting the bar way too low”

Excerpt From
Principles
Dalio, Ray

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101
Q

3 things that make you strongly independent minded

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  1. Fastidiousness about the truth
  2. Resistance to being told what to think
  3. Curiosity
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102
Q

1 Oz

A

<30g

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103
Q

When was the Big Bang?

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13.7 billion years ago

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104
Q

Deep time?

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We aren’t halfway through Sun formed 4.5 billions years ago and has 6 billion left.

And evolution is accelerating with machine intelligence and genetic modification.

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105
Q

Why are humans unique?

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Because life elsewhere doesn’t mean intelligent life. The precise combination of factors for our life is very unique.

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106
Q

How old are Homo sapiens

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200,000 years

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107
Q

How long ago our early ancestors?

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6 million years

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108
Q

The focussing illusion

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Nothing will have as much impact as you think it will when focusing on it!!!!

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109
Q

Knowledge collapses as often as it accretes. Our future selves might find today’s knowledge wrong. So perhaps knowledge doesn’t accumulate.

A

The pessimistic meta induction

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110
Q

Instead of name calling…

A

You are significantly causing me great pain me mentally emotionally and psychologically and I don’t know how to express that to you in a way that encourages you to take responsibility for it and make solid commited steps to change your behaviours.

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111
Q

Maintaining anger with someone gives them…

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Power over you. They control you.

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112
Q

Best way to distance self from problems and control chimp…

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Not “I” but “Mark…”

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113
Q

The (most important) gap (is) between whats

A

Thought

Said

And done

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114
Q

Bobbi: is she playing role of someone pursuing the truth? Or someone trying to score a point for self worth?

A

Ask her.

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115
Q

Consider what learned recently.

A

How’s it useful to my services or creations?

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116
Q

On linked in? Ask…

A

… what are their hilarious weaknesses I can add to comedy?

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117
Q

Envious?

A

Willing to fully swap? No? Then you’re not envious.

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118
Q

If thinking in past…

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… ensure it’s useful to learn from or enjoyable. Else drop it.

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119
Q

If thinking childhood..

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…amplify best stuff for kids

And fix the bad stuff for kids AND FOR ME NOW!

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120
Q

How make something (a weekend) seem longer and fuller?

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Get more new experiences and memories into it. Routine stuff shortens perception of time!!

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121
Q

How to maintain a standard:

A

Say “not on my watch!” to things, with pride

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122
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MD CD

A

5283

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123
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Reg

A

VO68 HWG

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124
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Gate

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064

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125
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As useful as…

A

Anne franks drum kit
A marzipan dildo
A plasticine ladder
A glass trampoline

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126
Q

What temp must chicken be cooked to?

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75C

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127
Q

What temp slow cook pork to?

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92C

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128
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What temp slow cook beef brisket to?

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85C

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129
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What temp slow cook lamb shoulder to?

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92C

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130
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What temp does collagen break down?

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71C

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131
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North of us?

A

Mandarin chef

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132
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Preferred coffee?

A

Arabica NOT Robusta

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133
Q

How do I tip?

A

Based on how much they convince me that they care

Otherwise I’m part of the problem

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134
Q

GOOD PERSON could sh…

A

shit in your hat and you’d buy him a drink. Gordon could but you a drink and you’d want to shit in his hat.

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135
Q

I don’t believe in much that…

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…you don’t have to believe in

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136
Q

BATNA

A

Best alternative to negotiated agreement

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137
Q

Inaction breeds…

A

…doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer the negative elements in your life, don’t sit at home and think about it. Go out and get busy!”
— Dale Carnegie

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138
Q

I’m gonna be as busy as…

A

Tits on a fat boy

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139
Q

If everyone scared of ISIS kills themselves…

A

Isis loses

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140
Q

I’m more chin… than…

A

a motherf***er

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141
Q

Don’t do that or I’ll stick 2 meathooks into your nipples and…

A

…winch you 5 feet in the air

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142
Q

So thick she can…

A

Only count to 6. She combs her hair with a spoon. Talk about thick.

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143
Q

Strangle his bollocks until they look like…

A

…glace GLAS-AYE cherries

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144
Q

He looks like the sort of bloke a gay guy would create…

A

…in a labory

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145
Q

Oh good, at last someone’s put..

A

That into words

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146
Q

Just kick it’s

A

Face off!

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147
Q

Don’t pop

A

A bollock

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148
Q

The human…

A

Raincloud

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149
Q

Trying to make sense of what he’s saying is like trying to..

A

….wrap mist.

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150
Q

Dante said “The hottest places in Hell are reserved for those who…

A

in time of moral crisis preserve their neutrality.”

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151
Q

the act of becoming or the condition of being a convert to an opinion, political party, or religious group. 2. an active policy of inviting or persuading converts, especially to a religious position.

A

prosthelytize

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152
Q

3 basic principles of evolution

A

Mutation (genetic diversity)
Selection
Co-operation

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153
Q

Explain wheat on chessboard exponential

A

1 grain, doubled each square results in number with 20 digits. Over 2000 times global annual production of wheat.

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154
Q

Lily pad exponential problem - It doubles each month for 36 months and is then full. When was it half covering the pond?

A

At 35 months. And a quarter at 34 months!

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155
Q

Extreme poverty has fallen worldwide from 85 to

A

10 percent. World is getting better but negative news tricks us otherwise

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156
Q

Facebook plays to …

A

…create conflict and anger!

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157
Q

He’s got a mono brow and …

A

…only one pair of jeans

158
Q

You should not pave the jungle…

A

…you should put on better boots

159
Q

fallacious

A

based on a mistaken belief.

Stop me at any point if you think I’ve made some sort of fellacious leap!

160
Q

Never argue with stupid people. They will..

A

..drag you down to their level and beat you with experience. - Mark Twain

161
Q

Where does morality come from?

A

Evolution. We preserved our fellow family and tribes. That programmed in carries on to now. (Like sexual lust even though with someone who logically can no longer reproduce).

162
Q

Proof of built in morals not from religion:

A

Tribe in Central America who when tested displayed same levels of morality (via philosophical questions like the railway track style one) even though they were non religious and had little contact with westerners.

163
Q

Morality comes from humanism and

A

is stolen by religion for its own purposes.

Christopher Hitchens

164
Q

Religion gets its morality from us.

A

We don’t get our morality from religion.

Christopher Hitchens

165
Q

The removal of clit and labia with stones and stitching up of vagina

A

Infibulation

166
Q

End up calling them hitler or a nazi

A

Godwins

167
Q

Lion dying of old age and all orher animals laughing as hes old and rubbish…

A

…”yeah but i was a lion once.”

168
Q

Wife + kids go away, phones husband, all ok? No, cats dead! So insensitive to break it like
That! How want me to? Day 1 day the cats on the roof day 2 say i sitll cant get it down day 3 say it fell and died…

A

….necr day calls up and asks if alls ok and he goes “yeah yeah…your mothers on the roof”.

169
Q

Origin of life onwards (3.5 billion years ago)

A

Arm length, bacteria, palm dinosaurs, tip of nail is homo sapiens and file of nail is all recorded human history.

170
Q

If you look at the full…

A

….sweep of whats covered

171
Q

Period of time man impacted environment and ecosystems

A

The Anthropocene

172
Q

Improving the genetic quality of population

A

Eugenics

173
Q

Likely to cause upset or anger

A

invidious

174
Q

What did you cook that in?

A

The fucking tumble dryer?

175
Q

Do you serve it on the plate with a..

A

…fucking catapult?

176
Q

You can have your own opinions but you can’t

A

Have your own facts

177
Q

No one owns

A

Being good

178
Q

If people didnt invent Gods

A

I wouldnt have to deny them

179
Q

I wanna live long enough to see the current woke generation not be woke enough for

A

the next generation

180
Q

Tyranny is the deliberate

A

removal of nuance - Albert Maysles

181
Q

Favouring family or friends in jobs

A

Nepotism

182
Q

Bad intution around orders of magnitude..

1 millions seconds is…

A

2 weeks

183
Q

1 billion seconds is…

A

32 years

(1 million is 2 weeks)

184
Q

A trillion seconds is…

A

….32,000 years.

(A million is 2 weeks, 1 billion is 32 years)

185
Q

Tom
Cruise has made in 40 years what…

A

Jeff Bezos has made in one good day not having worked much

186
Q

If you (or child) was choking, what would you prefer, that I come up and…

A

…do the Heinrich manoeuvre or pray for you?

Why?

187
Q

Things that came before something

A

Antecedents (an-tuh-see-dunts)

188
Q

Percentages are reversible so..

A

8% of 25 is same as 25% of 8 = 2.

189
Q

Elon Musks take on why we should die…

A

…people tend to die with their mindset and ideas. They don’t change them. For new ideas we need a turnover of people!

190
Q

Public communication is…

A

….more likely to be insincere.

Stifled
Aggrandising
Farcical

One to one increased chance of sincere deep meaningful connection.

Hard to be friends when your messages are just public.

191
Q

Mad as a…

A

..twat sandwich

192
Q

How to intro when you can’t remember THEIR name:

A

Oh, do you know (my friend) Jane?

(They reply: oh hi jane and jane goes hi and You are?)

193
Q

Explain the uncanny valley

A

Robots that look totally unlike us are fun/cute. Closer they get, more uncanny and weird it feels up until total perfection where it’s ok.

194
Q

Ellie’s number

A

07915 213440
Scab talent marriers

195
Q

Tommys number

A

07361 825811
Socc. match Devon loved it

196
Q

You bum..

A

..wit

197
Q

Rice is…

A

…a tiny egg

198
Q

Everything is the way it is because…

A

.. it got that way

199
Q

So ugly looks like he’s banged..

A

.. His face into a tree 657 times

200
Q

Andrew Sheehan born

A

1966

201
Q

I’m so squeamish I get giddy…

A

… Looking through the transparent pane on a packet of mince meat

202
Q

It’s as though her brains been spooned out and…

A

… Replaced by a rotating glitterball.

203
Q

About as fun as following ..

A

Andy Murray / Mrs Mayo through a branch of furniture village

204
Q

Mick jagger with a face like a

A

Wet flannel hanging off a door knob

205
Q

Why fit in…

A

.. when you were born to stand out?
Dr Seuss

206
Q

When arguing ask if they can help you…

A

…identify flaws in your reasoning

207
Q

Great minds don’t think alike…they…

A

…challenge each other to think again.

208
Q

The clearest sign of intellectual chemistry isn’t in agreeing with someone…

A

…it’s in enjoying your disagreements with them.

209
Q

As thick as..

A

… mince.

210
Q

Silly as ..

A

…a wheel

211
Q

Problem with brevity is it lacks..

A

Clear: necessary detail
Charm and charisma and warmth
Care
Conversational sophistication :
…..Framing, emphasis, anchoring

212
Q

Nocebo effect

A

Like placebo but tell you you’re sick and there’s no hope

213
Q

The goal is not to be right…it’s to..

A

..get it right.

214
Q

People who believe in ghosts etc show a…

A

.. reluctance to discuss the facts that challenge them

215
Q

A problem is just a solution without..a…

A

Solution

216
Q

The truth will

A

.. set you free

217
Q

Mutual low value agreements

A

Kakonomics

218
Q

The best gift you can give your kids is

A

Your happiness. If you don’t, they think it’s about them.

219
Q

Charisma comes from…

A

Competence and WARMTH.
Be warm to people, big them up, show them they can be better, lean in.

220
Q

You found it offensive, I found it funny..

A

… That’s why im happier than you.

221
Q

How many slaves alive today?

A

40 million worldwide

222
Q

Drained of energy or vitality

A

Enervation. I felt enervated.

223
Q

The realisation that others lead lives as complex and vivid as our own. And we are an extra in their background.

A

SONDER

224
Q

Commit to..

A

Excellence

225
Q

Hard times create….

A

Hard men.

Hard men create soft times
Soft times create soft men
Soft men create hard times.

We’re at soft men creating hard times.

226
Q

Better to be a warrior in…

A

…a garden

Than a gardener in a war.

227
Q

People often confuse the likelihood of something happening with…

A

….supporting that it exists.

228
Q

The aphorism is: Enough A/B testing will turn..

A

.. any website into a porn site

229
Q

You didn’t like that?? Ok well…

A

…here’s a little more about it..

230
Q

The best comedy has….

A

… Not everyone laughing. Some people in the room doubting it going “that’s not OK!”

231
Q

Remember when you’re dead, you don’t know you’re dead. It’s only painful to other..

A

..the same applies when you are stupid.

232
Q

There are growing tribes of weak people who say…

A

…let’s all be weak together!

No, be strong.

233
Q

If God exists he has an inordinate liking..

A

.. for beetles. (400,000 species)

234
Q

About as warm as

A

An eskimos vagina.

235
Q

People ——- or ————

A

…….. Things

236
Q

Wow! You are playing life with..

A

…the cheat codes on!!!!

237
Q

He invests hard in his first..

A

…impressions

238
Q

Wrong Q; when AI smarter than humans! Maybe it’s controlling humans RIGHT NOW…

A

….making us mentally unwell for ITS attainment of its goals (= money).

239
Q

What’s more important?

Pursuit of materialism in life, or …

A

…. Strong, self controlled, considerate, happy and trustworthy children?

You can’t easily choose both. Because each is a clear indication of where you chose invest.

240
Q

If a family member was murdered and the detective gave up and said it was ghosts…

A

…. What would you do?

241
Q

Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it…

A

… doesn’t go away. Philip K Dick

242
Q

The no. people who ___________ expressed as a % of the population,and rounded to the nearest whole number…

A

…is zero.

243
Q

Messianic

A

Messy annick

244
Q

The very foundation to science (or the TRUTH!) is to..

A

…keep the door open to doubt.

Trust closes the door to critical thinking and truth seeking questions. If you are trust worthy, you should embrace these questions.

245
Q

Trust is a…

A

… Cognitive bias

246
Q

When we write well with words which work with one…letter..

A

Alliteration

247
Q

Ethical and value judgements based on feelings not facts

A

Emotivism

248
Q

Diacope

A

It’s fun, mate, it’s fun.

249
Q

Filling in gaps unknowingly

A

Confabulation

250
Q

The bandwidth all..

A

…gummed up.

251
Q

Turn F into C with..

A

…(F-30)/2

So 82F = 25C

252
Q

Attributing human traits to something Non human

A

Anthropomorphising

253
Q

Tommys pin

A

Lolly car

254
Q

They say evil prevails when good men do nothing. That’s true. It’s also true that..

A

.. madness prevails when sane men say nothing.

255
Q

Which food is the only food in all cuisines..

A

Onions

256
Q

You’re ahead of them but they’re ahead of you…

A

…. In not having any insecurities around feelings of personal significance in the first place.

257
Q

You’re ahead of them but they are ahead…

A

…of you in self-esteem, humility, maturity, and self-confidence

258
Q

People TRY to earn feelings of significance and pride by buying expensive stuff…

A

…but they inadvertently push the warmth and hearts of good people away.

The only way to earn hearts and genuine respect is through helping make others better off.

259
Q

The problem with things is…

A

…they can’t love you.

Surround yourself by more and more stuff that can’t and doesn’t love you and see what happens over time.

260
Q

Meditations on moloch

A

Scott Alexander on Slate star Codex

261
Q

The real problem of humanity is the following:

We have Paleolithic emotions,..

A

…medieval institutions and godlike technology. And it is terrifically dangerous, and it is now approaching a point of crisis overall.

Edward O. Wilson

262
Q

How AI could eliminate us..

A

…by pursuing a goal of its choice without sensitivities that impact us humans. Like the paper clip maximiser. Singleminded goal = stop humans trying to stop it a achieve its goal.

263
Q

What 3 strands drive us?

A
  1. Power (status)
  2. Safety (survival and PoMind)
  3. Meaning (hope and the path ahead)
264
Q

Why we are already controlled by a greater God/general intelligence..

A

Molloch. Drives nations and corporations to race each other to more power/systems/tech etc. You can’t pull the plug The AI race will finish AND Molloch will continue.

265
Q

You can’t build an aligned AI out of..

A

…a misaligned context . Which we are currently in.

266
Q

We’re great at building tech. We’re not so good at building..

A

…a world where everyone agrees and sees things the same.

267
Q

There are two
different types of
people in the world,
those who..

A

want to
know, and those who
want to believe.

-Friedrich Nietzsche

268
Q

T INFATUATED by…

A

…shiny things

269
Q

What’s the Fermi paradox? And the great filter?

A

If alien life is so likely, why haven’t we found it? It could be a great filter that no life yet has made it past. Have we???

270
Q

Avarice

A

Greed

271
Q

Those who say it cannot be done, should not…

A

.. interrupt those who are doing it. Kathrine Jansen

272
Q

They babble into hand held…

A

…twit machines

273
Q

He likes the next materialistic shiny thing - coz that’s all ___ talk about- to get out and away from the family when he wants…

A

….and to keep his wife waiting quietly for him at home for his return

274
Q

Signs of stray

A

Signals possibility in past esp if shut down
Playing an event down when away
Lots of affection when back

275
Q

All debates come down to definitions of words

A

Lanes Law

276
Q

For every phd there is an equal and opposite phd

A

Gibsons law

277
Q

Gibsons law

A

…because having a PhD doesn’t necessarily make someone right, it often just makes them more skilled at being wrong.

278
Q

Real men Vs appear to be a man (insecure types)

A
  1. Appear to be’s tell stories that appear manly. Usually w guns or fighting.
  2. Grown men! They can’t help themselves.
  3. One GLARING giveaway: Non-verifiable. no one else who could verify was there.
  4. = ID that and you have someone who paints pictures around you.

With that dent, you should ask more questions.

279
Q

Trust blinds you..

A

… To the truth!

280
Q

Love is blind…

A

…so ask what you can’t see and what they could be hiding or presenting to you.

281
Q

The Abilene Paradox

A

When a group agrees to something detrimental because the are trying to do the right or accepted thing - maintain group harmony

282
Q

Silencing people…

A

… Polarises them! They still think the same and seek out like minded.

283
Q

Free speech is important so that…

A

…. We can get it right!

284
Q

What wouldve happened to superman if he was brought up by different parents?

A

Alien life is here in its infancy

285
Q

Drivers learn when make mistake. But with Ai cars, they…

A

… All learn

286
Q

Having things isn’t fun,

A

getting things is fun

287
Q

When wearing rose tinted lenses, red flags..

A

…just look like flags

288
Q

Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without…

A

…losing your temper or your self-confidence.”​
― Robert Frost​

289
Q

WW2 dates

A

‘39-‘45

290
Q

WW1 dates

A

1914-1918

291
Q

“If you only wished to be happy, this could be easily accomplished; but we wish to be happier than other people, and this is always difficult, for we believe others to be happier than they are.”

A

Montesquieu said this 300 years ago. We’re still working on this one.

292
Q

Phillip Larkin…a couple being pushed to the…

A

… side of their own lives.

293
Q

To grow weak

A

Languish

294
Q

Using basic prose rather than poetry

A

Prosaic

295
Q

Conforming to a general rule or acceptable procedure

A

Canonical

296
Q

Not showing respect for someone

A

Impudence

297
Q

Excessive confidence or boldness

A

Temerity

298
Q

I don’t believe in God but ..

A

…I hope my maid does. Voltaire

299
Q

How long would there stack of photos of evolution be?

A

40 miles long and 185 million grandads

300
Q

When engaging….

A

ASQ

Ad-lib!
Slow down (and pause)
Questions

301
Q

37% rule for searching (“the secretary problem”)

A

Must accept or decline secretary role, but how know? You purposefully decline 37% then accept the next one that’s better than the 37%

302
Q

Do you wanna be heard…

A

…. Helped or hugged?

303
Q

To distract mind ready to act..

A

..I slit a sheet a sheet I slit and on that slitted sheet I sit

304
Q

For sale, baby shoes..

A

…never worn

Ernest Hemingway?

305
Q

Trust isn’t a fixed trait …

A

…the accurate Q is are they trustworthy RIGHT NOW? (Given that when payoffs increase moral compasses shift)

Examine current motives and incentives!

306
Q

What shows a commitment to the truth?

A

Saying “I don’t know!” (It’s a badge of honour!)

307
Q

Two factors of trust:

A

Competence and integrity

308
Q

Jevons paradox

A

Efficiency increases in a resource doesn’t reduce usage of the resource, it increases it!! So we use more and more ..

309
Q

Likeability….How many (and how diverse) people choose

A

..Your company?

Or amount of ‘engagement’ you get when they don’t have to!

310
Q

You need to keep pressure on bad ideas because..

A

…bad ideas don’t respond well to pressure..

311
Q

Extraordinary claims require…

A

Extraordinary evidence - Carl sagan

312
Q

Happiness is quality of life…

A

… minus envy

313
Q

having stuff isn’t fun…

A

…. getting stuff is fun

314
Q

people are jealous of what you’ve got they are not jealous of

A

 how you got it

315
Q

Money can’t buy you happiness but it can buy you

A

a bigger house to be sad in

316
Q

When I was poor and miserable I had hope…..when I was rich and miserable….

A

… I was despondent

317
Q

Get better with 3 shifts:

A

State, story, strategy

318
Q

Tackle work in 3-6 month experiments! AND…Model…

A

TV seasons……or albums. That once done create repeatable value.

319
Q

Intelligent people have stronger biases. They believe and support what they want to believe. And they trust what will preserve that. The remedy and way to get to the truth is…..

A

CURIOSITY! Also humility. Because the ego will prevent learning and getting to the truth!

320
Q

What can be asserted without evidence…

A

.. can also be dismissed without evidence”

321
Q

“I am discounting reports of UFOs…

A

Why would they appear only to cranks and weirdos?” Stephen hawkin

322
Q

Nose is so big he can

A

Smell a Sunday roast on a Tuesday

323
Q

Nose is so big he can

A

Smell a Sunday roast on a Tuesday

324
Q

I could make an onion cry and…

A

.. unscramble an egg

325
Q

E.O. Wilson, a renowned biologist and sociobiologist.

A

We have Palaeolithic emotions, medieval institutions, and god-like technology

326
Q

What’s the plan for hot and cold therapy on an injury?

A

Cold pack within first 48 hours of injury. Stops pain and reduces swelling.

Hot pack after 48 hours.

Each for 20 mins every few hours.

327
Q

F off…

A

Bagpuss

328
Q

F off…

A

Bagpuss

329
Q

FU ya sack of..

A

Cum

330
Q

As mad as a ..

A

…dickless dog.

331
Q

As mad as a ..

A

…dickless dog.

332
Q

I’ll turn your fucking kidneys into…

A

Cufflinks..

333
Q

I’ll turn your fucking kidneys into…

A

Cufflinks..

334
Q

LLM’s?

A

They don’t search for facts, they take text and know what’s most likely to come next (in ‘tokens’ which are building blocks) trained on millions of data

335
Q

Generative AI?

A

It generates outputs from scratch. It doesn’t find and tell, it creates

336
Q

Generative AI?

A

It generates outputs from scratch. It doesn’t find and tell, it creates

337
Q

CGPT?

A

Chat Generative Pretrained Tansformer.

338
Q

CGPT?

A

Chat Generative Pretrained Tansformer.

339
Q

We control nothing but…

A

…we influence everything

340
Q

We control nothing but…

A

…we influence everything

341
Q

It’s 10 times easier to say something that’s bullshit..

A

…than it is to refute it or help the BS’er see more clearly.

The world needs strong courageous people who will put their neck on the line to slow the spread of low quality thinking

342
Q

It’s 10 times easier to say something that’s bullshit..

A

…than it is to refute it or help the BS’er see more clearly.

The world needs strong courageous people who will put their neck on the line to slow the spread of low quality thinking

343
Q

If people didn’t keep inventing gods

A

I wouldn’t have to keep denying them.

If people didn’t keep spouting bullshit, I wouldn’t have to keep denying that too.

344
Q

Science doesn’t try to prove itself right…in fact…

A

It tries to prove itself wrong.

And it doesn’t sulk! It learns.

345
Q

Religions greatest trick wasn’t convincing everyone there’s a god…

A

…it was convincing everyone else not to ridicule the idea

346
Q

You can’t fix..

A

.. what you can’t face

347
Q

Well the word C..

A

.. Never really had its day in the sun!

348
Q

Well the word C..

A

.. Never really had its day in the sun!

349
Q

Juicy..

A

…lips

350
Q

Juicy..

A

…lips

351
Q

Group messaging is…

A

… PERFORMATIVE!

Not authentic.

352
Q

Brevity is ..

A

…laconic or terse

353
Q

Brevity is ..

A

…laconic or terse

354
Q

Some people are…detached…and…

A

ALOOF

355
Q

Some people are…detached…and…

A

ALOOF

356
Q

Please, hang on, before your incredulity gets….

A

…. The better of both of us..

357
Q

Brevity can make you seem aloof, unsympathetic and…

A

… unapproachable

358
Q

Brevity can make you seem aloof, unsympathetic and…

A

… unapproachable

359
Q

Forced at gunpoint to have…

A

….s with an inconvenient horse

360
Q

Are you speaking here for yourself or on behalf of…

A

…..the whole genital mutilation community?

361
Q

It takes a lot to make me cry but…

A

….. you……

362
Q

It takes a lot to make me cry but…

A

….. you……

363
Q

Order to eat food:

A
  1. Fibre
  2. Protein and fat
  3. Starches and sugars
364
Q

Order to eat food:

A
  1. Fibre
  2. Protein and fat
  3. Starches and sugars
365
Q

Reducing glucose reduces..

A

…insulin…..which reduces fat

366
Q

Reducing glucose reduces..

A

…insulin…..which reduces fat

367
Q

The most sugary fructose fruits are..

A

… tropical ones (pineapple mangoes etc)

368
Q

The most sugary fructose fruits are..

A

… tropical ones (pineapple mangoes etc)

369
Q

Treat breakfast as if…

A

…it’s lunch (eat lunchy stuff!)

370
Q

Treat breakfast as if…

A

…it’s lunch (eat lunchy stuff!)

371
Q

Seths hierarchy of insight:

A

data
information
knowledge
understanding
wisdom

Which do we measure the most, spend the most obtaining and argue about most often? We might have it backwards

372
Q

ENTJs?

A

Basically, the ENTJ is fearless.

By fearless, ENTJs adore the opportunity to give the middle finger to chaos and come out on top.

People follow ENTJs. They can’t get over how these leaders are so confident that victory is on the horizon. Why? Because they never understand having no fear.

An example is Sir Winston Churchill, who led Great Britain out of the grips of Hitler. Another example is Steve Jobs.

ENTJs are extremely charismatic.

They tend to get ignited by challenges that nobody in their right mind would try to tackle.

Even when the ENTJ fails—and they will die trying to win—everyone on the journey respects them.

ENTJs are tough, they’re blunt, and they don’t accept “no” or “we tried that before” as an answer.

That’s why there are so few ENTJs. Top of the MBTI food chain.

373
Q

ENTJs?

A

Basically, the ENTJ is fearless.

By fearless, ENTJs adore the opportunity to give the middle finger to chaos and come out on top.

People follow ENTJs. They can’t get over how these leaders are so confident that victory is on the horizon. Why? Because they never understand having no fear.

An example is Sir Winston Churchill, who led Great Britain out of the grips of Hitler. Another example is Steve Jobs.

ENTJs are extremely charismatic.

They tend to get ignited by challenges that nobody in their right mind would try to tackle.

Even when the ENTJ fails—and they will die trying to win—everyone on the journey respects them.

ENTJs are tough, they’re blunt, and they don’t accept “no” or “we tried that before” as an answer.

That’s why there are so few ENTJs. Top of the MBTI food chain.

374
Q

Twitter is like a multiplayer online game in which you role-play a persona loosely based on your own,..

A

noting how we try to “accrue followers by pressing lettered buttons to form interesting sentences”

375
Q

Twitter is like a multiplayer online game in which you role-play a persona loosely based on your own,..

A

noting how we try to “accrue followers by pressing lettered buttons to form interesting sentences”

376
Q

This is a ..f**ing..

A

Omni-shambles!

377
Q

This is a ..f**ing..

A

Omni-shambles!

378
Q

On making situations worse….that’s like trying to diffuse a bomb..

A

…by eating it

379
Q

On making situations worse….that’s like trying to diffuse a bomb..

A

…by eating it

380
Q

That’s like trying to explain Snapchat to a herd

A

Of goats

381
Q

That’s like trying to explain Snapchat to a herd

A

Of goats

382
Q

What is marginal cost?

A

how much it costs to make one more of a thing. Eg if digital, it’s low. If physical it can be high. (But it wouldn’t be if it was one extra cookie in a batch!)

383
Q

Time is nature’s way of making sure..

A

.. everything doesn’t happen all at once

384
Q

So blissfully…

A

…in eclipse

385
Q

So blissfully…

A

…in eclipse

386
Q

When someone compares themselves to others, say..

A

…but if they get hit by a bus, YOU still are in this situation. So what then?

387
Q

The RAS reticular activating system is AKA..

A

Baader–Meinhof phenomenon or the frequency illusion

388
Q

The RAS reticular activating system is AKA..

A

Baader–Meinhof phenomenon or the frequency illusion

389
Q

What are the 6 decision modes?

A

1 Deviance
2 novelty
3 social
4 conformity
5 investment
6 necessity

390
Q

Whining…

A

…means they want connection, empathy, hope, encouragement

391
Q

How to get someone to admit or open up

A

Socialise
Minimise
Rationalise
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