Couple Therapy: An Overview Flashcards
In the past, couples therapy was a:
last resort. . Freud, Rogers, early cognitive behavioral work was all about working with individuals and based on the intrapsychic level.
What is the now the preferred method for treating relationship distress:
Couples Therapy
Individual Therapy for couples is where:
partner can change that individual’s own contribution to the relationship
What is the strength of the couple therapy approach?
having a look at their own perspectives and their combined relationship
What would you want to do as a couple’s therapist?
As a couple’s therapist, you will do individual therapy but if you want relational change, you want BOTH people and take a systemic approach. Couples therapy require you to have distinct training.
How can couple therapists instill hope to clients?
Therapists can provide hopeful messages - (you can state)
1) 70-75% of couples have found therapy to have a positive impact.
Couples gains/progress attenuate over time:
1) Gains maintained at 6 months
2) 2-5 yrs gains significantly decline
- This is why long term follow up is important (if couples come back into therapy for check-in or refreshers it is a positive sign)
-Therapist should normalize the experience (gains decline over time - not their fault)
Confidentiality and mandated reporting land on the consensus to:
protect the children
What is not reportable?
Violence between two adult partners
What is reportable?
violence between two adult partners in the presence of a child (w/willful cruelty-sense of child in jeopardy
What is the association between epidemiology and couple relationships
-Strong association between couple relationships & health well-being
-We know that if Partner A reports that Partner B is cold and makes them feel unloved, they are more likely to have distress/decline in physical health.
-Chicken-Egg analogy: is it the depression that caused the relationship distress OR is it the relationship distress that caused the depression?
Does Marital Distress get better on its own?
-Not typically: Martial distress typically doesn’t improve without treatment (Baucom et al., 2003)
-There is a certain threshold in which marital distress cannot cross and get better on its own. Ex.) Chronic sense of relational unease, unresolved feelings (jealousy, anger, feeling misunderstood, etc.) dose not go away or get better on its own without therapeutic intervention/ treatment.
Shadish and Baldwin (2005) BCT: concluded that component studies indicated that communication and problem solving strategies led to most the treatment effects
Emotional disengagement (lack of emotional support that is subtle):
predicts more negative outcomes
What is the best predictor of couple therapy treatment success?
the initial distress level (the earlier they begin therapy the better)
What happens if couples wait too long for therapy?
-Recurring negative interaction cycles resulting in a restricted range of available options
What are the 5 preconditions for change?
- Safety
- Fairness
- Normalizing
- Hope
- Therapist Pacing
Preconditions for change (safety)
-trusting connection with therapist
-not fearing repercussions partner
- couple need to feel a sense of safety in the room for all three parties (trust the therapist is not out to get them or judge them AND trust/don’t have fear of their partner)
Preconditions for Change ( Fairness)
-therapists must maintain balance
-both partners feel understood by therapists (feel validated, does not mean 50-50 split all the time) (need to balance the clients and how much they control/interact)
Preconditions for Change (Normalization)
-clients felt problems were not unusual
- before people can change, people want people to know their problems are not unusual.
Preconditions for Change - Hope
-confidence in process - expected things to get better
-One way to instill hope is to talk about unique strengths that come form thorough intial assessment.
Preconditions for Change (Therapist Pacing)
-slowed the pace for each partner to ensure they were comfortable
-Therapist pacing is the precondition for couples change. Partners will be in different places in their paces. So you want to work with getting each partner at somewhat similar pace/level. (especially relevant for extramarital affair)
What is an affective alliance
-Each partner feels understood
-Each partner feels therapy addressing key concerns
-Our job is to help integrate their own perspectives and make sure that the couple have a sense of buy-in/ consensus.