CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS Flashcards
6 PROVISIONS OF CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS
Attachment social integration reliable alliance guidance reassurance of worth opportunity for nurturing
ATTACHMENT
A kind of emotional bond
Bolby : schemas of caregivers: availability(affects interpersonal trust) and responsiveness(self-esteem)
low anxiety + low avoidane= secure
low anxiety + high ‘’ =dismissive
high’’ + low ‘’ = preoccupied
high ‘’ + high ‘’ = fearful (anxious)
anxious female + avoidant male = secure but low satisfaction
INDEPENDENCE THEORY
Comparison level: what you think you should receive out of a relationship
related to self-esteem
comparison level for alternatives
satisfaction does not equal comparison
EQUITY THEORY
profit of person O/ profit of person O = profit of person P/ profit of person P
exchange relationships: partners keep record of what they contribute (friendship)
communal relationship: responsive to others needs. don’t take into (parent and child relationship)