Characteristics of a Good Counselor Flashcards
what is introspection?
looking inward at oneself (B.S!), reinforcing our own thoughts and beliefs
what do you need to do to really introspect?
need to branch outside of limited groups to discover your true self
what is empathy?
the ability to understand and share the feelings of another
- “I feel for you”
what is acceptance?
The process of not simply noticing but also embracing one’s experience without judgment or defense
what is genuineness?
authentic, open, and in touch with your inner thoughts and feelings
what is cultural competence?
developing appropriate skills to effectively communicate with their clients from other cultures
what is the wellness perspective?
emphasizes strengths as well as personal choices, and underscores the importance of daily decision making to achieve the goal of an increasingly healthy lifestyle.
what is the “it” factor?
what the counselor is particularly good at while counseling
(how do you make people open up to you?)
examples of genuineness?
midwest nice
- saying hello because you want to be liked and validated
- this cultures priority = look good to other people, put out the “best” traits
what does acceptance entail?
you can accept someone without condoning their actions, thoughts, or behaviors
what is listening?
an essential activity in therapy and counseling that involves attending to the words and actions of the client as well as to the intentions conveyed by the words.
what should you want to focus on while listening?
listening to find out > listening to hear
what are some hindrances to listening?
- having preconceived ideas about the client
- anticipating what the client has to say
- thinking about what you’re going to say
- having personal issues that interfere with your ability to listen
- having a strong emotional reaction
- being distracted by something
Piaget analogy?
semi-truck, one car garage
what is the garage?
schema
