Chapters 7-8 Flashcards
Define: Temperance
restraint of human passions and appetites in accordance with reason, self-control of the body
Explain Prudence
~most important of the four cardinal virtues
~one who uses his ability to reason, thinking things out carefully
~one who has the ability to make good choices, who is inclined to be good
~we need to use prudence to control impulses, inclinations and instincts
~the prudent person is the wise person who has the ability to do good and avoid evil
Explain Temperance
~applies to three essentials in life: food, drink and sex
~We must take proper care of ourselves, have well-ordered lives, preserve ourselves
~temperance is a love that is life-giving and selfless
~passion for food, drink, and sex are powerful forces
~idea is not to repress these desires entirely, but to use them for human growth
~One must use reason, moderation and self restraint (temperance) in all three areas
- Abstinence: re: too much food
- Sobriety: re: too much drink
- Chastity: re: desire for sexual pleasure
Define Friendship
~a willingness to spend oneself with the other
~Opening of one’s heart and mind to the other - the free and independent communication of one’s own person
Explain Friendship
~we can not attain the good life by ourself
~Aristotle wrote that friendship is a deliberate activity that requires continuous exercise
~it allows the other to see right in and know us as we really are
~true friendship exists only between those who love one another
“Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15.13)
~Friends transfigure us-we understand ourselves, appreciate our uniqueness and feel more authentic about who we are (Richard Gula)
Define happiness
The Gospels speak of happiness in terms of beatitude - blessedness. *God has placed the desire for happiness in the human heart in order to draw us to the one who alone can fulfill it. We find happiness in life by living the good life, that is, life in the way of Christ
Explain Happiness
it is one of the “goods” that Catholic ethics studies, the aim of the good life. The Christian tradition has always believed that we were created for happiness. It recognizes this desire for happiness as natural, insisting that God has placed it in the human heart (CCC#1718). The Good life, the ethical moral life, is also the happy life.
Are our actions good, neutral, or evil?
When we act, we do so to obtain a good. our actions are never neutral. For example, sometimes my actions may be evil, but I think there is something “good” in it for me. Ultimately, I think my action is going to make me happy, or happier
Why are there four levels of happiness?
- In previous generations, people knew what they were suffering for. But our generation, doesn’t know what to live for now, never mind what to die for.
- If you are living for others, not material things and find yourself unexpectedly pregnant, you could see the baby as a privilege not a problem
What are the four levels of happiness?
1) Physical Pleasure and Possession
2) Ego Gratification
3) Contribution/Making a Difference
4) Faith in and Surrender to God’s loving will
Explain Physical Pleasure and Possession
*turning on one of your five senses in a positive way
*happiness from feeling good in your body
~~people don’t move on from level one sometimes, and stay stuck in this level, which can cause life to lose it’s meaning eventually
~~~leads to unhappiness
Explain Ego Gratification
*feeling good about something you do or can do
*Can happen by:
~being popular or having friends like you
~accomplishing or succeeding at something
~power/control/authority
~wining at something
*can live for this only. It can result in anger, jealously. aggression, etc.
~~Can’t have a true friendship in this level because you know/think the other person just wants to be better than you
*“if you want to be first, you must be last”–put others before yourself
Explain Contribution/making a difference
*caring for someone having to help someone
*Five transcendental ways you can make a difference in the world (Plato)
~truth ~justice ~love ~empathy ~compassion ~home
**level three isn’t enough because we don’t want truth, we want perfect truth, we don’t want knowledge, we want perfect knowledge, we don’t want love, we want absolute, unconditional, infinite love
**Plato says because we want unconditional love, it must exist, that’s what God is
~~~Can lead to disappointment
Explain Faith in and Surrender to God’s loving will
*prioritize the commandments to love
Define Solicitude
Anxious concern for others
~we must live with others, whether friends or not
~Levinas sees the others as an ethical appeal
***For example, the beggar forces him/himself into my consciousness, raising the question of my generosity - I feel responsible for him or her
~reeling compassion, sympathy and suffering for the other is important for truly living the good life
~the good life at which ethics aims is a matter of giving and receiving