Chapters 1,2,3,5

Question 1

What is coparenting?

Answer 1

refers to the various people who team up and collaborate in the parenting process………..can control what child does and has a relationship with child

Question 2

What is bidirectional parenting?

Answer 2

when parents and child have effects on each and change with each other

Question 3

what are the dimensions of parenting?

Answer 3

Family as a System, bidirectional relationship, developmental and life span, and social construct

Question 4

what is family as a system?

Answer 4

parenthood is a subsystem of the larger social system.​

Question 5

What is the developmental and life span?

Answer 5

parenting is a developmental role and a lifespan pursuit.

Question 6

What is a social construct?

Answer 6

parenthood is a social construct. The parental role is a social institution based on complex values, beliefs, norms, and behaviors.​

Question 7

what are some current parenting trends of the 20th century?

Answer 7

easing away from authoritarian…easing away from physical punishment…using psychology…

Question 8

what are some contemporary issues that may affect parenting?

Answer 8

gender equality…public education…technology…privacy

Question 9

what is dual parenting?

Answer 9

when the mother and father both decide on how to run the household

Question 10

what is androgynous parenting?

Answer 10

parenting describes roles that are gender-neutral; not necessarily performed by the parent traditionally and stereotypically associated with the role.​

Question 11

what is a binuclear family?

Answer 11

family refers to children who have access to two families, usually as a result of parental divorce.​

Question 12

what are blended families?

Answer 12

Typically formed when one or both adult partners remarry, or when a couple cohabit and children are involved.​

Question 13

what is a sandwich generation?

Answer 13

when a person has to take care and support both their child and parent

Question 14

what is ambiguous loss?

Answer 14

refers to the uncertainty and worry about potential situations which can affect safety, health and longevity

Question 15

what is the Pre-deployment phase of deployment?

Answer 15

getting ready, facing uncertainty and some emotional distancing

Question 16

what is the Deployment phase of deployment?

Answer 16

staying engaged by connecting with own family, finding a support or surrogate family in the deployed setting.​

Question 17

what is Transposement during deployment?

Answer 17

refers to the altering of the family; taking on new roles, challenges of communication.​

Question 18

what is Post-deployment?

Answer 18

reintegrating with their own family. It requires understanding, appreciation, and renewed family bonding.

Question 19

what is Polygamy?

Answer 19

involves a marriage that may include several adults.​

Question 20

what is the foundation of parenting?

Answer 20

the relationship between the parent and child

Question 21

does parenting remain the same?

Answer 21

no parenting is dynamic and is always changing

Question 22

what does content refer to in parenting?

Answer 22

to the specifics or the details that makeup

the parent-child relationship.`

Question 23

what is Nurture in parenting?

Answer 23

relates to all the ways in which love and emotional
support/warmth is demonstrated towards others and
ourselves.

Question 24

what is Structure?

Answer 24

is provided through the internalized boundaries
and controls acquired through socialization experiences
that guide behavior

Question 25

what is Responsive care?

Answer 25

is expressed when a parent determines what a child’s needs are and appropriately
reacts to these needs

Question 26

what is Corporal punishment?

Answer 26

is a form of discipline that uses physical force

to control a child and inflict pain

Question 27

what are Parenting style?

Answer 27

are approaches to parenting, used in shaping children’s developmental behaviors. Styles can range from low to high in structure, as well as low to high in nurture.

Question 28

what is Authoritative parenting?

Answer 28

focuses on the inherent strengths of the child and emphasizes autonomy within developmentally
appropriate boundaries. Most favored parenting style.

Question 29

what is Authoritarian parenting?

Answer 29

uses control and social power over

children’s behavior and is anchored in traditional methods of child-rearing. High structure and low nurture.

Question 30

what is Permissive parenting?

Answer 30

avoids excessive control, does
not enforce obedience to externally defined standards,
and allows children to regulate their own activities. High
nurture and low structure.

Question 31

what is Uninvolved parenting?

Answer 31

is an emotionally absent or disengaged parenting style providing minimal input. In an extreme form, it can be a variation of neglect. Low nurture and low structure.

Question 32

what does The Parenting Circumplex Model illustrate?

Answer 32

The Parenting Circumplex Model illustrates the dynamic and flexible interplay between structure and nurture

Question 33

what does Social learning theory emphasize?

Answer 33

emphasizes the influence of modeling and observation in learning a variety of social behaviors and roles. It emphasizes the importance of parents and teachers as role models.

Question 34

why do Counseling and other Helping Professions recommend Bidirectional in parenting?

Answer 34

allows both parties to actively participate.

Question 35

why do Counseling and other Helping Professions recommend active listening in parenting?

Answer 35

techniques display the emotional involvement and attentiveness of the parent (or listener).

Question 36

why do Counseling and other Helping Professions recommend “I” messages in parenting?

Answer 36

point out behavior that is problematic, by
placing it in an interpersonal context, showing how the
behavior affects others.

Question 37

why do Counseling and other Helping Professions recommend Mutual respect in parenting?

Answer 37

during conflict resolution, models compromise in socially accepted ways.

Question 38

what is self-regulation?

Answer 38

the ability to control emotions and respond in the most socially acceptable way..

Question 39

what is multicultural competence?

Answer 39

knowing and understanding that there are people who have a different culture than you

Question 40

how does globalization affect culture?

Answer 40

it causes those culture to become hybrid

Question 41

what is beneficence?

Answer 41

having the best intentions in mind for the child

Question 42

what is nonmaleficence?

Answer 42

the idea that parents should do no harm

Question 43

how does foster car affect a child?

Answer 43

creates instability of the home…when the child is 18 there is no more assistance

Question 44

what is meditation in divorce?

Answer 44

couples negotiate and work together to create a parenting plan, divide assets, and settle other post-divorce issues with the help of a trained neutral third party (the mediator).

Question 45

what is collaborative Divorce?

Answer 45

newer method for resolving conflict outside the adversarial environment, where each party hires a specially trained collaborative lawyer to assist and advise them in creating their divorce
settlement

Question 46

what is Legal custody?

Answer 46

decision making of major aspects of a child’s life.

▪ Not uncommon for parents to have joint legal custody.

Question 47

what are visitation rights

Answer 47

legally mandated access and right to spend

specific times with child

Question 48

what is the Convention on the Rights of the Child (United Nations, 1959)?

Answer 48

an international initiative to create and maintain a comprehensive
national agenda for children.
– Addresses the best interests of the child, the protection of rights, nondiscrimination, parental guidance, and survival and development.