Chapter 9 Flashcards
we form _______ to enrich our lives
however doing so puts us at risk for _____.
attachments
loss
types of loss
primary secondary death related losses losses not related to death nonfinite losses ambiguous losses traumatic losses
primary loses
the termination of close attachments or relationships
secondary losses
those that follow from a primary loss
when is a loss or death termed traumatic?
- suddenness and lack of anticipation
- violence, mutilation, and destruction
- preventability and randomness
- multiple deaths or loses
- personal encounter, threat to survival or shocking confrontation with death
shock effects tend to overwhelm a mourner’s capacity to ____.
multiple deaths can produce a form of _________.
cope
bereavement overload
bereavement definition
objective situation of individuals who have experienced loss
identify the aftermath of loss
three essential elements in all bereavement
- an attachment or relationship with some person or thing that is valued
- the loss, ending, separation of that relationship
- an individual who is deprived of the valued person or thing by the loss
what is grief
term that includes internal and external reactions to loss
grief is a ______ or discomforting disturbance of everday equilibrium
dis-ease (not disease)
clinical depression
form of grieving by angry impulses toward the loved person turned inward toward themselves
guilt
thoughts and feelings of blame
thinking he or she could’ve done something
unrealistic guilt
a temporary acceptance of blame
what makes a difference in gried and bereavement
- nature of prior attatchment
- the way the loss occurred
- the coping strategies
- the developmental situation of person
- the support available
anticipatory grief
reactions to losses that have not yet occurred and are not yet in process
anticipatory mourning
responses to these losses and efforts to cope with anticipated losses and related grief reactions
can greif be absent
Deutsh suggested absence of feelings was a problem
Bonanno disagreed and said they are optimistic
mourning definition
essential process for those who are trying to cope with loss and grief
mourning has two complementary forms
- internal, private, intrapersonal
- grieving and inward struggles to cope - outward, public, or interpersonal
- visible and shared expressions of grief
- effort to obtain social support
theries of mourning
early theoretical models
more recent theories