Chapter 6 Flashcards
coping
constantly changing cognitive and behavioral efforts to manage specific external or internal demands that are taxing or exceeding the resources of the person
three categories of coping skills
- appraisal-focused coping
- Problem-focused coping
- reaction-focused coping / emotion focused coping
appraisal-focused coping
how do I understand or make sense of the situation?
problem-focused coping
what will I do about the situation?
reaction-focused coping / emotion-focused coping
what will I do about my reactions to the situation?
coping with dying is multifaceted and involves more than one …
person
set of perceptions
set of motivations
active, empathetic listening is necessary to ….
identify each person involved
listen carefully to what his/her coping reveals
understand what coping means for each person in the situation
Dying Trajectories
pattern of dying
- duration
- shape
awareness contexts
the backdrop for social interactions among those who are coping with dying
four forms of awareness contexts
- closed awareness
- suspected awareness
- mutual pretense
- open awareness
three main points about the forms of awareness contexts
these are different contexts, not steps in a linear progression
each has potential costs and benefits
each affects how individuals cope with dying, as well as the social interactions among all ppl involved
stages of coping with dying in the Kübler-Ross - Stage Model
- denial (“Not me!”)
- anger (“Why me?”)
- bargaining (“Yes me, but…”)
- depression
- reactive (responding to past and present losses)
- preparatory (anticipating and responding to losses yet to come)
- acceptance (describes as “almost void of feelings”)
critique of Kübler-Ross - Stage Model
- existence of these stages has not been demonstrated
- no evidence that people move from stage one to stage five
- limitation of method have not been acknowledged
- the totality of persons life is neglected
- environment not taken into account
- suggest human response to stress of dying independent of any social or cultural influence
three lessons to learn from the legacy of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
- individuals who are coping with dying are still alive and often have unfinished business that they want and need to address
- we cannot be effective providers of care unless we listen actively to those we seek to serve and identify with them, thier own tasks and needs.
- we need to learn from those who are coping with dying in order to know ourselves better
Coping with dying Corr’s Task-Based Model
Physical
- satisfy bodily needs; minimize physical distress consistent with other values
Psychological
- maximize psychological security, autonomy, and richness in living
Social
- sustain and enhance interpersonal attachments; maintain selected interactions with social groups and society
Spiritual
- address issue of meaningfulness, connectedness, and transcendence; foster hope