Chapter 8: Guaranteed Execution Flashcards
Negotiators are decision architects
Dynamically and adaptically create elements of negotiations to get consent and execution
Yes is nothing without
How
How questions
Gentle ways to say no
How will we know if things are on tracks?
What will we do if things get off track
Make sure you’re taking all decision makers into consideration
It only takes one bit player to ruin a deal
Rephrase your calibrated questions to hit your triple affirmative
Hit your triple affirmative
Pinocchio Effect
Longer speaking can illustrate lying
Liars use
More 3rd person pronouns
Use your counterparts name in negotiation
But also use yours and have them use yours
No series 4x
- How am I supposed to do that?
- Your offer is very generous but I’m sorry that just doesn’t work for me?
- The I’m sorry
- I’m sorry
How to become a rainmaker
Good negotiation book
Negotiating is about
Playing field beneath the word manipulating subsurface issues to craft a great deal. Yes is nothing without how
Asking how, knowing how, defining how
Parts of the effective negotiating
Asking how questions
Ask them repeatedly
Always identify
Players behind the table