Chapter 6: self and others Flashcards
What is crucial for children’s development?
Awareness of the self (i.e., differentiation from other people)
Define the individual self
Aspects of the self that make a person unique and separate from others
Define the relational self
aspects of the self that involve connections to other people and develop out of interactions with others
Define the collective self
A person’s concept of self within a group, such as a group based on race or gender
What is the red spot on the nose test and what does it assess?
Babies as young as 18 weeks of age will look at their reflection in a mirror but do not realize that they are looking at themselves. The
“Red spot on nose” test is an assessment of self-recognition. Recognize own image in mirror by age 2 – i.e., will touch the red spot on themselves to see what is on it
What are Harter’s 6 stages in the development of self descriptions?
3-4 years: observable physical features, preferences, possessions, social characteristics
5-7 years: competencies
8-10: more complex descriptions of private selves - focus on abilities, interpersonal attributes, feelings, roles, values, preferences and cultural community
Early adolescence: interpersonal attributes (social relationships), social skills, competencies, personality, emotions;
recognize different selves in different contexts
Mid adolescence: introspective and preoccupied with what others think of them;
begin to question self descriptions, especially when there are contradictions
Late adolescence: emphasize personal beliefs, values, and moral standards;
think about future and possible selves
What is self esteem?
The evaluative component of self that taps how positively or negatively people view themselves in relation to others
What do individuals with high self esteem experience?
Children who have high self-esteem view themselves as competent, capable, and are pleased with who they are. Individuals with high self-esteem are happier than those with low self-esteem . Decreased anxiety and depression. High self-esteem in childhood is linked to a variety of positive adjustment outcomes including school success, good relationships with parents and peers, and less anxiety and depression
But, direction of effects is unclear – as good performance can increase self-esteem
What is the dark side of self esteem?
- High self-esteem may foster experimentation, which may increase early sexual activity and drinking.
- High self-esteem can also be related to prejudice and antisocial behavior
What are the 5 domains of self perceptions or self esteem?
Scholastic Ability Athletic Competence Physical Appearance Behavioral Conduct Social Acceptance
What are self appraisals like under the age of 8?
Children under the age of 8 tend to have unrealistically positive self-appraisals
When do self appraisals tend to become more realistic?
Self-appraisals become more realistic across development as children incorporate feedback from others. Children also distinguish among different kinds of competence and view themselves as better in some domains than others.Self-appraisals in each domain affects global self-esteem
Higher self esteem in children is associated with parents who are…
- Accepting and affectionate
- involved with their children
- set clear and consistent rules
- consider the child’s views in family decisions
What is the influence of peers and mentors on self esteem?
- Peers become increasingly influential across development, especially in the domains of Physical appearance, popularity, and athletic competence i.e., “Public domain” more influential than “private domain”
- Children who perceive teachers to be supportive have higher self-esteem
- Mentoring programs have positive effects on self-esteem But depends on consistency, quality, and duration of the mentoring
What does research suggest about praising children and boosting self esteem?
Research suggests that overly praising (i.e., exaggerated and insincere) children for their talent and intelligence doesn’t help them achieve success; it sets them up for disappointment.
Have difficulty when facing challenges and do not receive accolades
May be outsourcing self-esteem – i.e., dependent on others’ praise.
Better to foster in children a “growth mind-set,” praise strategies and progress rather than abilities
What is identity?
The definition of oneself as a discrete, separate entity
Who am I? in terms of religious views, political views, gender preference, occupational aspirations, etc.
What stage of erikson’s theory pertains to identity?
Identity vs. identity (role) confusion
What are Marcia’s identity statuses?
Identity diffusion (low exploration and low commitment) Identity foreclosure (low exploration and high commitment) Identity moratorium (high exploration, low commitment) identity achievement (high exploration, high commitment)
What is identity achievement associated with?
associated with high self-esteem, cognitive flexibility, more mature moral reasoning, clearer goal setting, and better goal achievement
What is identity foreclosure associated with?
more authoritarian and inflexible and more susceptible to extreme ideologies and movements, such as cults or radical political movements
What is identity moratorium associated with?
anxious and intense, often have strained or ambivalent relationships with their parents and other authority figures; better adjusted than foreclosed or diffused identity status
What is identity diffusion associated with?
viewed as the least mature in their identity development. Some are delinquents and abuse drugs; others are lonely or depressed; still others are angry and rebellious
What influences identity development?
Puberty:Signals break from childhood. Awareness of self as a sexual being
Changes in cognitive functioning: Abstract reasoning influences thinking about the self. Ability to recognize different selves in different contexts
what is ethnic identity?
Recognition of being a member of a particular race or ethnic group